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Hello everyone, I'm Xiaoying. I am over 30 years old, come from an ordinary family, and work in a well-known company. Here I want to share with you a story about me, which is about the wise choice of a smart woman.
Option 1: Don't sunbathe
Once upon a time, social media has infiltrated our lives and become a platform to express ourselves. However, I made a different choice – not to expose my life.
Because I understand that true happiness does not come from the envy of others for our lives, but from inner satisfaction and peace. I enjoy the right to keep my privacy and let the excitement of life only exist in the real communication between friends and family.
Option 2: Don't say the wrong thing
Words are the bridge we use to communicate with others, but they are also a source of conflict and misunderstanding. In interpersonal interactions, I know how to control my tongue and not say hurtful things at will.
I learned to express my opinions and wishes in a gentle tone and respect the feelings of the other person. I also know how to listen, understand the other person's point of view, and avoid rash comments. Through this effort, I have become more harmonious in my relationships with others and more at peace in myself.
Wise choice
Wise women know that it is their wisdom to remain mysterious and subtle. They know not to keep exposing their lives for the sake of short-term vanity, but to focus more time and energy on real experiences.
Wise women also understand that the power of words is endless, and that a casual word can cause irreparable damage. Therefore, they carefully calculate every word, focusing on accuracy and respect in words and actions.
summary
We have to learn from wise women and make wise choices. Do not pursue vanity, do not blindly show your life, do not speak lightly to make people sad, and do not hurt the feelings of others at will.
In this era of information explosion, protecting our privacy and being cautious in words and deeds have become the way of life we should pursue. Let's embrace wisdom together and make wise women's choices.