The wedding off-the-bus gift of 28,800 yuan is a gift money or a touchstone of love?
In ancient times, the bride price was the bond of marriage, but in modern times, it has become the balance of love.
A wedding is not only the union of two hearts, but also the union of two families. Bride price has been an indispensable part of weddings since ancient times, but its meaning has changed with the times.
In ancient China, the bride price symbolized the man's respect and commitment to the woman's family. It is a traditional etiquette that represents the importance that the man's family attaches to the woman. However, in modern society, the meaning of the bride price seems to have been redefined, and sometimes even become a measure of the value of love.
In the past, the bride price was the prelude to marriage, but now it can be the final chapter of love.
Let's recall an ancient allusion: In the Song Dynasty, there was a pair of lovers, the man was poor, but he loved the woman deeply. He didn't have a rich bride price, only a passion and talent.
He took poetry and books as a gift and talent as an appointment, and finally won the respect of the woman's family and the heart of the woman. This story tells us that the essence of the bride price is a good wish for a future marriage, not a monetary transaction.
In modern times, on the other hand, the meaning of the bride price seems to be materialized. In some places, the amount of the bride price has even become a measure of the strength of the man's family and social status. This change makes people wonder, what is the real meaning of the bride price?
On the red carpet of the wedding, the 28,800 drop-off ceremony, is it a respect for traditional etiquette or a test of the essence of love?
On a day full of joy and blessings, the bride, at the instigation of her best friend, asked for a drop-off gift of 28,800. This number, for many people, may be a large number. The man was a little caught off guard by this sudden request.
The man persuaded him for half an hour, but the bride resolutely refused to get out of the car. Such a stalemate made the originally festive atmosphere tense. The man's patience is gradually consumed, and the bride's persistence seems to be testing the relationship between the two.
The next second, when the man finally agreed to pay the drop-off gift, the bride was dumbfounded. This money, for them, is not just a number, but also an expression of emotion. But when money becomes the focus of the wedding, can the purity of love still be maintained?
The incident caused a lot of discussion on the Internet. Some people believe that the bride's demands are too much and that money should not be allowed to dominate the wedding. There are also people who feel that this is a respect for traditional customs and should not be over-interpreted.
The comments of netizens are polarizing. Some people support the bride, believing that she has the right to demand what she wants. Some people are on the side of the man, believing that love should not be swayed by money.
But is this really just a debate about money, or is there a deeper question behind it? Should weddings, as a testimony to the love of two people, be bound by material conditions?
Wedding gifts have always been an important part of traditional Chinese culture. However, with the development of society, people's perception of weddings is also changing. More and more people are starting to reflect on what is the essence of weddings.
To solve this problem, we need to start from two aspects. On the one hand, it is necessary to strengthen understanding and respect for traditional customs. On the other hand, it is also necessary to advocate rational consumption to avoid weddings becoming a contest of money.
Wedding is a new starting point for two people's love, and it should not be bound by material conditions. Let's hope that every wedding can be the most sincere union of two hearts, not a monetary transaction.