A few days ago, someone asked me a question: "If people are in the rivers and lakes, will they be used by others?"
I thought for a moment and replied, "Yes." ”
Yes, in this complex society, you never know if your friends treat you as "one of their own".
When you encounter difficulties at work, maybe a colleague will move you to tears with a word;
When you encounter an unsatisfactory life, maybe a friend will make your heart warm like spring with a word;
When you're in trouble, maybe a friend will help you solve all the problems with a single word.
As the saying goes, "Rely on your parents at home, and rely on your friends when you go out".
In real life, if there is only one person who can bring us warmth and touch, then we must cherish the person who is good to us.
Because good friendships last longer than love.
How can you tell if a man is worth dating?
It's actually very simple, just two words: trust.
- Trust is the cornerstone of a relationship
Trust is the foundation of a relationship.
Husband and wife, trust each other, in order to have a better relationship.
In "The Siege", after Fang Hongjian and Sun Roujia got married, Fang Hongjian distrusted Sun Roujia, didn't care about her words, and often didn't answer Sun Roujia's calls.
Eventually, it leads to the breakdown of the marriage.
When we are socializing with a friend, if you think he is someone you can trust, then you will have a good relationship. Because the trust that others have in you is their greatest support for you.
When you lose the trust of others, it is useless no matter how much you give.
On the contrary, when a person is willing to believe in you, they will be willing to give everything for you.
- Trust is mutual understanding and tolerance
It has been said that trust is like a mirror, if you smile, the person in the mirror will laugh, and if you cry, the person in the mirror will cry too.
Therefore, trust is like a warm current that can warm each other's hearts.
It has been said, "To love someone is to trust him, and if he fails to live up to your trust, then you can choose to leave." ”
In this world, no one can guarantee that they will not make mistakes. Many times, we make mistakes and hurt others.
If someone can forgive us for our mistakes and hurts, then we should rejoice in his forgiveness.
A man who is willing to tolerate our mistakes and hurts is trustworthy. And not those who will only speak ill of us and want to leave us at every turn.
Only mutual understanding and tolerance can make each other happier to live together.
- Trust is respect and recognition
The hardest thing in the world is to make the other party trust yourself. Trust is mutual, and if you want to win the trust of others, you must first earn your own trust.
As it is said in "East Evil and West Poison": "It is a joy to be trusted by others." ”
In life, we feel happy when we are trusted by friends, colleagues, clients, etc. In their eyes, I am very good, and they will also consider me as their best friend.
On the contrary, if we cannot earn the trust of others, it will be difficult to gain the respect and recognition of others, even if we have many friends.
Of course, we should be mindful of one thing: everyone wants to be recognized and respected by others. If you can earn their trust, they will naturally consider you as their best friend.
So in life, we have to learn how to earn the trust of others. When you earn the trust of others, you gain more respect.
- Trust is to be responsible for oneself
You must have heard the saying, "I will not betray you, I will only betray myself." ”
A man, if he doesn't trust you, will doubt your abilities and will betray your promises.
Because they believe in their eyes, but not in their ears.
As the saying goes, "Hearing is false, seeing is believing." ”
In the face of other people's lies and deceptions, only you know the truth.
Once you have such a thought, you doubt yourself. If you want to succeed, you have to stick with it. If you don't persevere, you'll fail.
Because no one in this world wants to deceive you. If they don't trust you, then they don't deserve to associate with them.
Trust is both a capability and a responsibility. Only those who truly trust others can gain the trust and respect of others.