Meet a man.
His blind date has not been smooth, and he feels that it is entirely because his conditions are too bad.
And whether it's completely because of the conditions or not, but the situation of people is really not very good, without a house, the monthly income is only enough for their own expenses, sometimes not even enough, and the family can't give any help at all.
The conditions are limited, and the age is already twenty-seven years old, and he can't go up or down.
In this regard, he said that he didn't understand why women would think about material things, and thought that it was good to struggle together, two people worked together, and everything was for two people after marriage, so it was all good.
Such remarks seem to make sense, but there is nothing wrong with women considering money when looking for a partner.
Most women tend to think about this issue, and the older they are, the more sober they are.
Because of marriage, you really need money to support it.
Adults, no one dares to say that money is not important, but they have already recognized the importance of money. When you are alone, you eat every day, go out, buy something, and that requires money.
Marrying a person and starting a family involves a lot of things and requires a lot of money to maintain. If you have a child, the cost will be very strong, and no one can avoid it.
Since this is the case, many people know that they want to make money, and when they get married, they will naturally look at the material situation.
I don't want to be good, at least two people together, life can go on, and the future can be expected, instead of supporting yourself is a problem, there is no way to count on the future.
In fact, if even your own survival is a problem and you rush to get married, it is really easy to have problems.
You can't take any responsibility for the other party, and the other party probably doesn't have the ability to be considerate of you in all kinds of ways, and always take money to spend for you and take responsibility for you.
Such two people have no way to live a good life at all, they will always worry about life, complain to each other, tear each other apart, and feel that the other party has delayed themselves and made them unhappy.
will also feel that such a marriage is dispensable, or even better than nothing, but they live their own lives, which seems to be better.
If you can, you will care about each other.
Thinking about money, in fact, not only women will care, but many men will too.
Especially when you have a certain material foundation and the situation is very good in all aspects, it is impossible to have no requirements for the other half, only from appearance, work, ability, income, etc.
For marriage and love, what many people want is win-win cooperation, when two people add up to at least not lose to one person, it is best to be better than one person, not worse, just worse, much worse.
But if you still need to continue to support each other, you will be dragged down by the other party, and many people are unwilling, not only women are reluctant, but many men are the same.
Absolutely only care about liking, don't care about anything else, put aside all talking about emotions, for the vast majority of men and women, it is unrealistic, not reaching that state, and there is no such capital at all.
And, seriously, a person's material situation is actually a part of a person.
It does not only reflect whether a person has money or not, but also includes many aspects, such as family background, personal ability, attitude towards life, pursuit of the future, etc.
All of this, which is part of choosing a mate, is destined to be inseparable, and it is inevitable that they will all look at it, examine it, and then make a judgment.
may not be able to struggle, but will be cherished.
Many people say that don't bully young people to be poor, and the situation is not very good when you are young, which is very normal.
It's just that, even so, those who can really make a difference will not account for a large part, especially if they are already of a certain age and have been working for several years, if it is still a problem to survive, it is naturally not good.
It's hard to see signs of being able to get ahead, and if you're still lazy and ambitious, you can't even count on it.
Always work hard enough, have some traces, so that people can choose to trust, and then if they are very sincere and can be very compatible, they will have a possibility for each other.
Otherwise, if you don't have feelings, you don't have money, and if you don't think about it, it's normal.
In addition, even if you can get ahead, it will take a lot of time, and when that day comes, many men may not be able to know how to cherish their former marriage, the person who has worked hard with them and worked hard all the way.
Maybe I wasn't satisfied at the beginning, but I didn't have a choice, I would want a better one when I had the opportunity, maybe my feelings changed later, I couldn't see it, I felt that I didn't deserve it, I might have seen more, I was blinded, and my concept was different.
The future is unknown, people's hearts are fickle, and everything is very certain, so you really don't have the courage to take such a big risk, it is better to think about material things directly at the beginning and seize what can be grasped at the moment.
It is very appropriate for a woman to choose a mate and consider money.
Of course, you can't just look at the other person's situation, but also look at your own.
Don't easily choose what is much worse than yourself, and be cautious about what is much better than yourself.
You have to think about money, and you can't just look at money, but you also have to look at people, look at some other aspects.
Money is a very important part of marriage, and there are some other things, as critical as money, comprehensive consideration, choose a suitable, satisfactory, reliable, it will be better in the future.
I don't regret it easily.
We will also be able to face a lot of difficulties together, and we will be together for a longer time.
Text / Tan Meng
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