Crime and Punishment

Although we live in the same world, the world we perceive is so different. Everyone thinks that the world they perceive is right and real, and often measures the world of others in terms of the world in their own hearts, which creates mutual incomprehension.

Your fragments of thoughts, your headless and incoherent thoughts, your fleeting thoughts, your emotions that come and go, your own unsure self, all of these things if you say it, you may be taken out of context to think that this is you, but are they you? They are not. They are fleeting thoughts.

Do you dare to talk to someone? Can anyone else talk about it? If talking brings misunderstandings and is not understood, reading Dostoevsky's words is a good choice. In his writings, you can observe yourself and understand yourself more deeply; all your strange thoughts can flow naturally like clouds and water, you don't have to hide your escape, everything is allowed; you can also see a broader and deeper rich psychological world of others, you know that there are no simple, fixed words that can summarize a person, you can summarize a person, he has thousands of flowing feelings and thoughts, we can't catch the flow, let alone grab a thought and say, this is him You can also find a sharp truth about life in his writings,

For example: "The greatest and most reliable way to conquer the hearts of women, this method will never disappoint anyone, without exception, absolutely valid for all." This method is well known, that is, flattery.

There is nothing harder in the world than being blunt, and nothing is easier than flattery. To put it bluntly, even if only one percent of the tone is false, then immediate discord arises, followed by quarrels. And flattery, even if all the tones from beginning to end are false, are still happy, and it does not feel unpleasant to listen to; even if the pleasure is a little numb, it is still pleasant. And no matter how fleshy the flattery is, at least half of it feels as if it's real. ”

You see, what a wise word!

When you have a lot of complex emotions that you can't express clearly, reading Dostoevsky's words, you will feel that Dostoevsky is your best confidant in the world, he understands himself better than you do, look at his description of boredom and loneliness:

"Lately he's started to feel a particular kind of boredom. There was nothing particularly irritating in this boredom, which particularly made him sad; but he felt that this melancholy was constant and eternal, and had a premonition that this frustrating, unforgiving boredom would remain with him for the rest of his life, endlessly..."

"Both looked melancholy and depressed, as if they had been thrown alone on the desolate shore after a storm."

"A strange period began, as if a great fog had suddenly fallen upon him, imprisoning him in a miserable loneliness with no way out."

These are just a few paragraphs that I have casually turned to, although people's experiences are different, but the basic emotions are the same, and the emotions you can't express can always be understood and released in the words of Tuo Ong.

What books should one read when one has nowhere to talk?

One should look at Dostoevsky's novel.

- From Happy Fish