First, a lover is something that a man can only think of when he is empty and lonely, a lover is just a condiment in life, a lover is just something that can be thrown away after eating, and being a lover hurts the most is himself.
Second, the positioning of the lover seems to have always been the junior, the woman will see the lover as more important than the husband, no matter how the man flatters the lover, the salary will still be handed over to the wife, the man's favorite is to play with the lover, the most trusted is the wife, in the man's dictionary, the lover is someone else, and the wife is her own person.
Third, in the heart of a cheating man, the most loved is his wife, that is to say, between the wife and the lover, the wife is more important than the lover, if the lover and the wife are seriously ill at the same time, who is the man most concerned about? The answer will definitely break the hearts of many women in extramarital affairs, of course, their own wives. Why do men care most about their own wives instead of their lovers, after all, the lover is just an outsider, and the wife is no matter how bad she is, she is also her own person, whether the lover dies or not has little to do with himself, and whether the wife dies or not is related to whether a family is complete, so it is also a serious illness, and the man will definitely give up money to save his wife, rather than spending a lot of money to save his lover.
Fourth, what men like the most is to take advantage, for men, lovers can be changed often, and wives can not be changed often, because there is only one wife, but there can be many lovers. The person you really love should be at home, otherwise why marry her home. Men will always think about their wives first, they will not think of their lovers, and they will not care about their lover's feelings, men will not hesitate to hurt their lovers for their wives, and being a lover is a headless road, and there will be no good results.
Fifth, women are concerned about their lovers, men are as light as a feather to their lovers, the lover's love is the greatest, but there is no status, men can only like lovers, and they will get tired of it after a long time, the men of the Gu family love their wives more, although there are lovers outside, it is just a physiological need, the lovers are just a happy face, the former love is just a dream, and a woman he has no name for him, in his heart is actually no name and status, for the lover, it is just a taste, a change of taste, and finally return to his wife, the lover is just playing, only temporary, and you can change it if you have played enough。 Men are very selfish, extramarital affairs will always come to an end one day, and in the end, no matter how lingering and loving they are with their lovers, their lovers are flowing water, and their wives are wordless wells.
Dear sisters, if you have a lover, please leave quickly, love yourself well, if you are together for money, please don't feel sorry to save money for him, say that you only care about him as a person, the important thing is feelings, it's all, if he really loves you, he will marry you home, a man's greatest love for a woman is to be willing for her to have a home, willing to give up his title of bachelor, and willing to spend energy every day to quarrel with her.
Many women will think about why men don't want to divorce when they have lovers? They will only say that men have no conscience, what can they do? Is it really that they are not good? No, they can only be blamed for the stupidity of those women. Because the wife is home, the woman they are willing to give her savings for safekeeping, and the lover is just a kind of compensation, compensating for the passion they want to get from their wife but can't. Men are born to be lustful, they want "the red flag at home does not fall", and they want to "flutter the colorful flags outside", they can't wait to be able to step on the grass all over the world, even if there are 3,000 beauties, they are willing to grind the iron rod into a needle.
The pursuit of beauty is one of the great pleasures of men. Men have lovers only to satisfy their physiological needs, not "love"! A man who has a lover outside does not divorce, perhaps, because he still loves the person at home! When a man meets his physical needs outside, he will still return home. When there is no passion between two people, it becomes a kind of family affection, and the wife will always belong to their private property, so they are not willing to divorce, the lover is different, maybe they have another passion, so he is temporarily fascinated, But it can't last long, the lover can be his today, tomorrow can be someone else's, and he can change it again if he is gone, because the lover is what he finds to kill time, not to love. And family is always his terminus, inseparable, and his wife has love, even family affection. A lover is nothing but a transaction and a tool. A lover is nothing but a slave to a man.
I once saw this sentence in an article: "My wife is like her own private car, and she can't leave it anywhere; The second wife is equivalent to a bus, you have to get off when you get at the station, and the lover is a taxi, you can get off wherever you want."
The family is a safe haven for men, and the wife is their spiritual pillar, as long as the home is still there, as long as the spiritual pillar is still there, they are not easy to fall. The wife is like an object on their body, although it is inconspicuous, it cannot be easily taken down, so no matter how much the man spends all day drinking outside, they will not divorce easily, and they also need a stable living environment, unless his wife is too unbearable......
In fact, most men are still very sensible, women, as long as they are in the position of their wives, they are all the same, and it is better to change them or the first one, it is better not to change them.
Why bother with a fruitless relationship, and still look forward to any beautiful yearning for a man who can't accompany you all your life.
Because their hearts are always on their wives and children. I will never love, cherish, care, give and give to you as much as I do to my wife. And you, as a lover, are just his tools!
A man who truly loves you, loves you, cherishes you, cares about you, and is willing to be responsible for your life will not let you be his lover, but let you be his wife!
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