A 21-year-old Hunan boy "Fat Cat" in Chongqing chose the extreme way out of suicide by jumping into the river. His death, like a bombshell, has sparked widespread attention and discussion on social media. And all of this stems from his online relationship with a 27-year-old woman, Tan.
Fat Cat, an ordinary Hunan boy, with a longing for love, started an online relationship with Tan who was far away in Chongqing. In order to end this long-distance relationship, he resolutely went to Chongqing, hoping to reunite with his beloved. However, reality gave him a brutal blow.
It's such a boy, before leaving, he has to return the unfinished orders one by one, and the tone is not polite, we can judge between the lines what a kind big boy this is.
One of the customers sent such a text: In the end, when he left, he returned the money he didn't pay, and the sentence when the protagonist in "Hidden in the Dust" left: I owe the world, I pay it all, the world owes me, I don't want it!
In this relationship, the fat cat showed amazing sincerity and dedication. He not only generously donated to Tan financially and spent a lot of money for her, but also poured all his heart and soul into it emotionally.
This money was saved bit by bit by him through hard training and saving living expenses. However, his sincere dedication did not pay the same return.
According to Fat Cat's sister, during the two years of dating, Fat Cat spent a total of 510,000 yuan for Tan. The numbers are staggering and beggar: Is this really love, or is it an elaborate hoax?
What's even more distressing is that in the two years of dating, Fat Cat and Tan have only met twice and watched a movie once. Such a frequency of meetings is simply incredible in the eyes of ordinary people.
In the eyes of the fat cat, this is the most precious memory in his heart. He may never have thought that his sincere efforts would be exchanged for such an ending.
The day before the fat cat committed suicide, he transferred 66,666 yuan to Tan and remarked "voluntary gift". This money, for him, may be the last love he can give. However, for Tan, this is just a cold number, which cannot make up for the emptiness and indifference in her heart.
After checking her brother's belongings, the fat cat's sister made a shocking accusation: Tan asked for money in the name of falling in love, used the fat cat's feelings for PUA (emotional manipulation), and committed mental abuse. This accusation undoubtedly pushed Tan to the forefront. However, the jury is still out on what the truth is.
In this story, we see the tragic figure of a young boy who will do whatever it takes to get love. He used his actions to explain what true love is, and also let us see the importance of maintaining self-worth and self-esteem in relationships.
Xiaobian believes that love is beautiful, but the premise is based on equality and respect. When we give for love, we must also learn to protect ourselves and not let ourselves fall into a situation from which we cannot extricate ourselves. At the same time, we must also be wary of those who use their feelings to deceive and manipulate, which will only plunge us deeper into pain and despair.
The death of the fat cat is a tragic end and a wake-up call. It reminds us to keep a clear head and firm beliefs in the pursuit of love, and not to be swayed by external temptations and distractions. Only in this way can we truly find our own happiness and fulfillment.
Let's observe a moment of silence for the fat cats and pray for those who are lost in their feelings. May they find their own happiness and satisfaction as soon as possible, and may we always keep a clear head and firm belief in the process of pursuing love and career.