In the past few days, a story of "male inferiority and female respect" has rushed to the headlines of major platforms, and has sparked discussions among tens of millions of people for a while.
The protagonist of the story, a 21-year-old young man nicknamed "Fat Cat", his story is like an unfinished tragic drama, which makes people sigh and at the same time, they can't help but think: In the entanglement of love and money, how do we protect the innocence and kindness in our hearts?
Imagine when you give everything you have in exchange for a true love, only to find out that it is nothing more than a carefully woven lie.
Such a blow is undoubtedly a bolt from the blue for anyone.
Fat Cat, a young man who once had a dream and went to a foreign country for love, finally chose a path of no return, leaving the world with nothing but regret, but also a deep reflection on interpersonal relationships in modern society.
Fat Cat, a child from a broken family, whose world was once filled with color by the advent of love.
For the sake of this love, he did not hesitate to leave his hometown, from Hunan to Chongqing, at the cost of sweat and health, to support the small world of two people.
But once the balance of love is tilted, it will be a catastrophe. Girlfriend Tan's continuous economic demands became the last straw that crushed the fat cat.
On that sad night, he chose to use extreme ways to say goodbye to the world that he loved and hated.
Before jumping into the river, he transferred money to his girlfriend and ordered flowers, as if he wanted to use the last tenderness to end this relationship.
The tragedy of the fat cat quickly fermented on the Internet, and netizens spontaneously ordered takeout for him out of sympathy, but they did not want to encounter fraud from unscrupulous merchants, and the empty package incident once again ignited public anger.
This wave of unsettled, wave after wave of turmoil, made the whole incident complicated and delicate.
The woman's indifferent attitude, through the chat records exposed by friends, made the spearhead of public opinion directly pointed at Tan.
The collapse of the flower shop became a victim of the pressure of public opinion.
And the misrepresentation of the photos of the fat cat on the Internet has caused another storm that is difficult to distinguish between the real and the fake, making the story full of dramatic twists.
Public emotional resonance: "Love should not be self-sacrificing, but mutual fulfillment." Many netizens lamented that the story of the fat cat touched their thinking about the nature of love.
Psychologists explain: "The family of origin has a profound impact on children's psychology, and insecure individuals are more likely to lose themselves emotionally. "Experts call for attention to be paid to mental health education for adolescents.
Legal expert opinion: "At the legal level, although the fat cat transfer note is voluntary, if fraud is involved, the law should give the victim due protection. "The boundaries of the law have become a hot topic of discussion.
The story of the fat cat, like a mirror, reflects the complexity of interpersonal communication in contemporary society, as well as the double-edged sword effect of online public opinion.
It reminds us that in the face of love, we must have a bottom line, self-worth and dignity cannot be easily trampled on, and for online information, we must remain rational, not gullible, not blindly followed, and avoid becoming the promoter of rumors.
More importantly, we should learn to care for ourselves and cherish life, because every life deserves to be treated with tenderness.
I don't think the fat cat is a "licking dog", his problem is that he doesn't know how to love himself.
What do you think about this?