Marriage changes of professors in prestigious schools: a dual interpretation of beauty and intelligence
Recently, the marriage experience of a professor from a famous university has been hotly discussed on the Internet - he has changed 4 husbands in 12 years. This incident not only aroused public attention to the professor's private life, but also made people think: in a highly liberal modern society, what is the choice of marriage based on?
First of all, we must be clear that neither beauty nor strength is a single determining factor. Beauty may attract attention, but a long-lasting marriage is not just based on appearance. Strength, whether it is academic strength, economic strength or personality charm, is an important cornerstone of maintaining a marriage.
In the case of this prestigious professor, her choice of marriage may be based more on the empathy and suitability of both parties. As a highly educated and highly intelligent woman, her choice of partner must include considerations of IQ, emotional intelligence, and values. Therefore, we cannot simply reduce her marriage choice to "by beauty" or "by strength".
Further, in modern society, the marriage relationship is no longer the traditional model of male superiority and inferiority of women, and husbands and wives are followed. Husbands and wives are more likely to maintain their marriages together on the basis of equality, respect and understanding. Therefore, whether it is beauty or strength, it is only a part of the marriage relationship, not the whole thing.
In addition, we should also note that the selection and maintenance of marriage is a dynamic process. Over time, both spouses change, which requires constant adjustment, communication, and understanding. Therefore, we cannot judge the success of a person's marriage based solely on the number of marriages.
To sum up, the marriage experience of a professor at a prestigious university is not simply "beauty" or "strength". We should look at marriage relationships in modern society with a more open and inclusive mind, respect everyone's choices, and wish them to find a partner who is truly suitable for them. At the same time, we should also reflect on the constraints of traditional concepts on the marital relationship, and maintain our own marital relationship with a more equal, respectful and understanding attitude.