Now when I talk about the word "girlfriend", I feel that it has changed its taste. used to be as good as a sister, but now sometimes she has become a person who stabs her in the back. The hardcore friend who was supposed to be good, why did he change his taste?
As the saying goes, it's not that you don't have money, but that you don't have reliable friends. As a result, the "girlfriend" sometimes becomes the unreliable guy, which makes everyone unhappy.
Let's take a look at what happened in Shangqiu, Henan. The bride, who was pampered by her so-called best friend, insisted that the groom pay 28,800 yuan to get off the car, otherwise he would not get out of the car. In the end, a good wedding was so yellow.
On May 3, a video was exposed in Shangqiu, Henan, and at first glance, there was a bride in a red dress struggling in the crowd that day, as if she had to leave. There was also a young man in a suit and leather shoes, who looked like he was supposed to be the groom, and was trying to comfort her. But the bride pushed the groom away, and then followed the bridesmaids into the car, and just walked away without hesitation at all.
A wedding ceremony that was supposed to warm the heart suddenly turned into a messy stew. The bride is like an off-script actor, improvised and messed up the whole banquet. Why is this so?
Just watch the video. Just when the groom's wedding car stopped at the door of the hotel, a girlfriend asked the bride for a $28,800 drop off fee. It's their customs. Now it's okay, the groom's family is completely confused.
This request was not said in advance at all, how could the groom be prepared. Besides, who can come up with so much money at any time, especially when they are caught off guard on their wedding day. The groom's family can only grind hard and try to make the bride change her mind. After talking for a long time, they promised to make up the money after the wedding, and the bride was a little moved and ready to get off.
But at this moment, her dead-eyed best friend jumped out and intervened again, and she had to insist on following the old rules. She also said that the money had to be given immediately, and it would be bad luck to delay it. Hey, this plot is bloody enough!
The bride's best friend jumped into the wedding car with tears in her eyes, and spit out her bitterness to the bride full of grievances. When the bride saw that her friend was angry, she was furious and refused to get out of the car.
Immediately afterwards, a relative of the groom's family couldn't stand it anymore, so he jumped to his feet in anger, rushed up and dragged the bride's best friend out of the car, and scolded her head and face, saying that it was unreasonable for her to be involved in this wedding. It's a good happy event, but now it has changed its taste, and it also makes people see how much turmoil the current wedding customs can sometimes stir up.
This matter was on the Internet, and netizens exploded and talked about it. Most people are slamming that girlfriend, saying that she is blocking it.
"Fire prevention, anti-theft and anti-girlfriends", someone on the Internet said so, and I think this is not wrong at all.
There are also speculations that the girlfriend is unhappy and can't see the bride doing well. Some people even said that this bride doesn't seem to be very wise, and she may have to spend time with this girlfriend in the future.
Everyone is talking about it, and there are all sorts of opinions on the Internet. Some people watched the video and said that the bride has a good temper and doesn't have many ideas, and she is worried that this character will have an unstable marriage in the future, and once friends get involved, it will not be far from breaking up or divorcing. They think it's better not to get married sooner. But some people have a different view, they say that it is not so simple, you have to look deeper, maybe that friend is behind it.
There are also two things that are particularly strange: there are a lot of things behind the wedding, not only the rules, but also a lot of money. The bride getting out of the car to ask for so much dowry may not be her own idea. Generally speaking, the money for the wedding is discussed by the family, and the older generation will also tell the newlyweds how to receive the bride price and follow the steps. So when a friend who is about the same age as the bride says this, everyone begins to wonder, what does she mean?
Speaking of which, this bride's family may really want to make a lot of money from the wedding, 28,800 yuan, which is not a small amount. Think about it, through the word of friends, maybe even her parents are behind the scenes. If that's the case, then it's a thirst for money.
In that video, the groom's family persuaded them for a long time, but the bride didn't get out of the car. What's even more puzzling is that none of her relatives and elders have appeared, and this silence is quite scary, which makes people have to think about it a little more.
The money at the wedding, you have to take care of it, and the thoughts behind it are sometimes hidden in some small things.
Now that I think about it, the bride may have been swayed by her friends as well. But wait, this makes people wonder, why did her parents disappear at this time? Are they also dizzy? According to the old rules, doesn't the woman have a big hand in charge of the wedding? Where did these people go? Did they get involved in this chaos? Or whatever, this matter is still vague.
Putting all the blame on the bride's friends, I think, is a little too impatient and unfair.
The story is more complicated than it seems.
Speaking of which, many people are quite disappointed in getting married. I remember that in the past, marriage was a sign of two people's true love. At that time, the wedding was very simple, but the newlyweds smiled as brightly as flowers, as if to tell us that no matter what wind and waves they encountered in the future, they could walk hand in hand together.
But now, I feel that getting married is like living together, and you have to see whether the other party's wallet is thick or not. The more luxurious the wedding, the more it seems to prove that the two are rich. But ah, if you don't have a few copper plates in your pocket, such a marriage is like paper paste, and it will break when you touch it.
So, we have to think about it, is this really the marriage that everyone wants to pursue?
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