When single, many excellent women are like bright stars, shining in their respective fields.
However, once they enter the palace of marriage, their lives seem to be covered by the ordinary, especially when they take on the responsibility of having children, and gradually lose themselves.
Watching them silently pay for their families and children, I can't help but feel pity.
After their children enter primary school, some children even sneer at their mothers, not only making insulting remarks, but even having physical conflicts.
This kind of behavior is really distressing. And this phenomenon not only exists in ordinary families, but even the families of some celebrities and artists also happen from time to time.
Jiang Lisha, a woman who once dominated the modeling industry, has her own career and pursuits.
However, everything has changed drastically since she got married. For the sake of her family, she gave up almost all her personal time and space, and gave birth to four children in a row in five years.
Her in-laws seem to see her as a fertility machine, and she herself is gradually losing herself in this endless busyness.
Today, although she is only in her thirties, she already looks much older than her peers.
The traces of the years have carved a deep imprint on her face, and some people even joked that her appearance is even older than her husband.
This can't help but make people wonder, what kind of life made her what she is today?
In this issue, we take a closer look at her story.
Go live
In today's society, it has become a common phenomenon for celebrities to use online platforms to broadcast live.
Jiang Lisha, as one of them, also actively participated in the ranks of live broadcasting. With her popularity and influence, she recommended various products for netizens on the live broadcast platform to help them choose their favorite products.
In her live stream, she used to sell stockings products. In order to be able to show the texture and effect of stockings more intuitively, she decided to wear them herself to show netizens.
However, during the try-on process, some attentive netizens found that she did not take any protective measures, such as putting on safety pants.
This detail caused discomfort among some netizens, who thought that such behavior might be excessive, and some even questioned that she deliberately did it to increase traffic.
In addition, during another live stream, she experienced visible bruising on her face and hands. These traces are clearly visible under the camera, making many netizens speculate whether she has suffered domestic violence.
Although we can't pinpoint the exact cause of the bruises, such images undoubtedly raise concerns about her living conditions.
In the live broadcast where she appeared with her husband, netizens also noticed that her face seemed to be much older than her actual age.
Although she was once a glamorous supermodel, the traces of time seem to have left a deep imprint on her face.
Compared to her husband, she looks much older, which makes many fans feel sorry.
The fact that she looks much older than her real age may have something to do with her busy pace of life and multiple roles in recent years.
As a mother, wife, and working woman, she can face tremendous stress and challenges.
These pressures will undoubtedly have an impact on her physical and mental state, which in turn will be reflected in her appearance.
Contest Awards
Actually, she wasn't like this originally, especially when she first became famous, her appearance was still quite good.
She is a Hunan girl born in 1985, and has lived in a family full of love and care since she was a child. Her growth path is an inspirational chapter of constantly challenging herself and realizing her dreams.
From a young age, she had a keen interest in physical exercise. Her parents knew that a healthy body was the cornerstone of future success, so they did everything they could to provide her with good exercise conditions, even though the family was not wealthy.
She enrolled in a quality school, studied with experienced coaches, and began her sports career.
After entering middle school, her height grew rapidly, and she gradually developed a strong interest in basketball due to the influence of anime.
She began a grueling basketball workout, dedicating a lot of time and energy to honing her skills every day. Her efforts were not in vain, and in her second year of junior high school, her height was close to 1.7 meters, which fully met the conditions of an athlete.
With her outstanding athletic talent and hard work, she quickly became an outstanding athlete in the province, representing the province in many national competitions and achieving good results.
However, just as she was about to graduate from high school and confidently prepared to be admitted to a sports school, reality hit her hard.
Due to her years of dedication to sports and competitions, she neglected to study cultural classes, resulting in unsatisfactory grades and unable to meet the admission standards of sports colleges.
In the face of this sudden predicament, she felt very lost and helpless.
That's when her family stepped up and pointed her in a new direction. They contacted a company that specializes in training models, hoping that she would try to follow the modeling path.
Because she participates in sports all year round, she is tall and well-proportioned, and her face is delicate, which is very suitable for the profession of modeling. With the encouragement of her family, she decided to take on the challenge.
For her, who had never been in the industry before, learning to walk the runway was a new challenge.
She needs to practice for more than 8 hours a day, from basic steps, postures to expression management, all need to be polished bit by bit.
The training conditions at that time were tough, there was no air conditioning in the room where she practiced in the summer, and she often sweated, but she never gave up. She gritted her teeth and persevered, practicing over and over again until the movements were up to par.
After months of hard training, she was finally able to confidently take to the runway to compete.
Her hard work and sweat were not in vain, and at the age of 18, she participated in a modeling contest held in the province.
In the competition, she relied on her own advantages and training results to pass all the way from the audition to the finals.
On the day of the finals, she wore a beautiful gown and confidently walked the runway. Her steps are firm and elegant, her expression is natural and generous, and she shows her style perfectly.
Her performance won praise from the audience and the judges, and in the end, she delivered a perfect answer sheet with a good score of third place.
This achievement not only made her stand out in the modeling industry, but also laid a solid foundation for her future development.
Because of her outstanding performance in this model competition, she was sent to the Capital Institute of Fashion to study.
This is a twist of fate for her, and the best reward for her hard work.
Costume design
After successfully entering the Capital Institute of Fashion Technology, she was not satisfied, but worked harder to learn professional knowledge and constantly improve herself.
At the same time, she also actively participates in various fashion catwalk activities at home and abroad to show her style.
Her tall figure and outstanding looks have made her attract attention in the modeling industry, and she was fortunate to shoot advertisements for well-known brands, participate in one of the roles, and win the love of the audience.
In her junior year, she mustered up the courage to participate in the Global Model Contest. In the competition, she won a number of awards for her outstanding performance, showing her strength and charm.
Especially in the individual awards, she ended the fierce competition with an excellent result of second place, adding another brilliant stroke to her modeling career.
After graduating with a bachelor's degree, she did not stop there, she was invited to study in France with her love and pursuit of fashion design.
In France, she not only worked hard to learn French in order to better integrate into the local study and life, but also devoted herself to the study of fashion design.
She is determined to create her own clothing brand and win glory for the country. During her study abroad, she continued to draw inspiration, perfectly integrated oriental charm and western fashion, and gradually formed her own unique design style.
Married life
Just when her career was rising and her future was bright, a chance chance changed her life.
After two years of studying abroad, 25-year-old Jiang Lisha returned to China to visit relatives and play, hoping to relax after a busy study.
At this time, her friends who haven't seen her for many years ask her to attend a private party, which is full of stars, not only stars in the film and television industry, but also celebrities from all walks of life. Among them, there is movie star Chen Haomin.
He has a free and easy appearance, and his gestures reveal a unique charm, as if he is a master of the emotional love field.
The first time he saw Jiang Lisha, he was attracted by her outstanding appearance. After learning that she was still single, he decided to pursue it.
Chen Haomin, with his unique charm, launched a fierce pursuit of her. He skillfully arranged various occasions to contact her, and gradually narrowed the distance between the two with humorous words and thoughtful care.
For her, who has a relatively single emotional experience, Chen Haomin's offensive caught her a little off guard, but she was quickly moved by his sincerity.
During a romantic dinner, Chen Haomin finally mustered up the courage to propose to her. He said affectionately: "Lisa, I am willing to protect you with my life, are you willing to marry me?"
She was touched by his sincerity, and a warm current surged in her heart. She nodded and agreed to his proposal.
After the two got married, life seemed to be happy. However, soon after the marriage, she found out that she was pregnant.
After conceiving a baby in October, she opted for a caesarean section on the advice of her doctor and gave birth to a lovely daughter without incident.
originally thought that he could live a happy life as a family of three, but fate seemed to have a special arrangement for Jiang Lisha.
Over the next few years, she became pregnant with three more children. Every time she became pregnant, she faced tremendous stress and challenges.
However, with the support and encouragement of her husband, she persevered and gave birth to three children successively.
In just five years, she gave birth to four children in a row, which made her life more busy and fulfilling.
However, just as she was wholeheartedly devoted to her family, her husband's attitude changed subtly.
He began to ignore her efforts, even saying in an argument: "You can't do anything but have children." ”
These words pierced her heart like a sharp knife, making her feel extremely painful and disappointed.
In the face of her husband's neglect and belittlement, she felt helpless and sad. She gave up her career for the sake of her family and devoted herself to accompanying her husband and children, but in exchange for such a result.
She couldn't help but begin to doubt her own worth and meaning, and fell into a deep confusion and confusion.
epilogue
As a woman, marrying well depends not only on the identity and status of the other party, but also on the character of the other party.
In the vast sea of people, it is indeed an extremely lucky thing to meet a good person.
However, in the glamorous public world, there are many rich people, but the odds of meeting a true lover are relatively low.
This is because the temptation of money and status often makes it difficult for people to see the other person's true face.
I hope that every woman can keep a clear head in life, and finally find the man who truly loves her and spend her life together.