"Human feelings are as thin as paper, and people's hearts are as ruthless as wolves", this sentence profoundly reveals the sophisticated side of human feelings, as well as the coldness and complexity of human nature. In this complex world, the relationships between people are intricate, and it is difficult to distinguish between good and evil, and each of us needs to find our own foothold and bottom line in it. No matter how intimate the relationship is, we need to learn to protect ourselves and keep the three bottom lines in our hearts so as not to be swallowed up by the whirlpool of emotions.
First of all, we need to keep our self-esteem. Self-esteem is one of the most important things in the depths of a person's soul, it is the cornerstone of our personality and the basis of our interactions with others. In the world of human affairs, it is easy to be hurt by the words of others, or even betrayal, but we must not let these negative emotions erode our self-esteem. No matter what kind of blow we encounter, we must learn to respect ourselves, stick to our inner dignity, not be swayed by external evaluations, and do not give up our principles and bottom line in order to please others.
Second, what we need to keep is trust. Trust is an emotional bond that is established between people, and it is the foundation on which a relationship lasts and solids. However, in real life we tend to encounter all kinds of deception and betrayal, which makes us suspicious and distrustful of others. But even in such a situation, we cannot completely deny the existence of trust. Keeping the bottom line of trust means that we must learn to distinguish between right and wrong in our interactions with others, choose friends and partners carefully, not easily believe other people's rhetoric, and at the same time stick to our own promises, so that others can see our sincerity and credibility.
In the end, what we need to hold on to is independence. Independence is an important sign of a person's growth and development, and it is also the last line of defense for us to protect ourselves in our relationships. In real life, we often encounter times when we need to rely on others, but we must not rely too much on others and lose our independence. Maintaining the bottom line of independence means that we must learn to be self-reliant, bravely face the challenges of life, not bow to others easily, and maintain our ability to think and act independently. Only when we have our own independence can we truly be invincible in interpersonal relationships, free from the influence and control of others.
In a world where human affection is as thin as paper and people's hearts are as ruthless as wolves, it is not easy to keep our three bottom lines, but it is something we must learn on the road of life. No matter what difficulties and challenges we encounter, we must stick to our hearts, not be swayed by external temptations, not be confused by short-term interests, and always maintain respect for ourselves, trust in others, and independence from life. Only in this way can we find true joy and happiness in the complex interpersonal relationships and live the wonderful life we want.