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In the world of relationships, sometimes we find ourselves not really in love with each other, but with the feeling of satisfying our own needs. In this case, how should we face and deal with it? Today, we will talk about this topic and solve the confusion in your heart.
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Love vs. Need: A Wise Distinction
We often mistake satisfying our own needs for deep love for the other person, but in reality, it's just our dependence on our own satisfaction. When we find ourselves more focused on what the other person can give us than on the other person's inner world, it means that we are simply in love with satisfying our own needs.
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Self-reflection: Be honest with yourself
Faced with this situation, we need to be brave enough to face ourselves and engage in self-reflection. Ask yourself, why do we have such dependence on others, is it because of loneliness, or because we need to be loved and pampered, and only by being honest with ourselves can we find the possibility of truly building a deep relationship with others.
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Growing Together: The Cornerstone of True Love
When we realize that we are simply in love with the feeling of satisfying our own needs, we are not belittling ourselves or dismissing the other person's feelings. Rather, it's an opportunity to open your heart to someone who can truly grow with us. Only love based on mutual understanding, respect and support can develop in a lasting and stable way.
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epilogue
Dear readers, there's nothing to be ashamed of in the face of the feeling that you're just falling in love with satisfying your needs. It is important that we are able to be honest with ourselves and find the love that is truly compatible with us. When we are clear about our needs and build on mutual understanding and support, we can find happiness that is truly our own.