What kind of children are more likely to learn more and better, not those children whose parents are strict in management, set too high goals, and always maintain high-intensity learning, on the contrary, the more "no matter" parents, the easier it is for children to show strong stamina.
Of course, this kind of "no matter" is not really no matter, but more respect for children, to guide instead of pressure, to establish independent thinking and interest, instead of constant chicken babies, so that children can learn with motivation, rather than wearing shackles to move forward.
This is the smart parents, who can have empathy with their children, can control their emotions, give their children a better environment, and can take a long-term vision, not eager to achieve short-term results, so they appear to be relaxed in the management of children, tend to be relaxed, of course, this relaxation is simply not care, but grasp the big and let go of the small, guide it to be on the right path, give appropriate guidance, and the child's own self-motivation is the key.
Many parents, especially parents in lower grades, are worried that their children will lose at the starting line, and when their children are very young, they will receive various honorary awards and awards on all kinds of training, which is a kind of self-esteem satisfaction that adults need, and has nothing to do with children's growth needs.
Under the pressure of their parents, some children go back and forth in various training classes, and they do not experience the joy of learning at a young age, and they do not have extra time and energy to think more, but under the excessive indoctrination of knowledge, they form mechanical memory and solidified thinking.
Regardless of the parents do not let the child train, but according to the child's hobbies to choose, will not impose too much pressure on the child, maintain the child's love for learning, ensure that the child has the space for independent thinking, and ensure good parent-child communication between parents and children, such children may not be much bright in the blistering stage, but often have greater potential for improvement.