Medea said: Of all the creatures with reason and nature, we women are the most unfortunate.
When we were young girls, we longed to meet a suitable husband, and after marriage, we could live with our lovers.
We always regard precious love as more important than life, and never pay attention to the disasters and hardships that are coming.
Medea's story is tragic, as her parents and family strongly opposed her marrying her husband, but she married anyway.
She killed her father and brother for her husband, stole family treasures, and helped her husband ascend to the throne.
And the husband reciprocated with him: abandon her and marry a princess of another country.
Medea stole the family treasure Golden Fleece for her husband
Since then, Medea's mother's family has disappeared, and her husband's family has also disappeared, becoming a lone ghost.
If your parents don't let you marry, do you want to marry?
One of my distant cousins, who was born beautiful as a flower when she was young, had a large number of suitors, and the love letters she received could be piled up in a box.
Among her suitors are the rich second generation with good family backgrounds, or young talents who are only eight buckets high.
But she chose a guy who had nothing but looked honest.
The cousin's parents strongly opposed this family affair, one is that the young man is really poor, and they are worried about the quality of life of their daughter after marriage.
Second, the boy's family is in the field, and the parents are reluctant to marry their daughter far away, and they are also worried that she will be bullied.
Third, parents look at the boy and think that although he looks honest, there is always a faint hint of viciousness on his face.
Like most young girls, my cousin married despite her parents' objections.
The result was not satisfactory, and later they had a child, and at first the boy was quite happy.
The results found that the child had congenital diseases, a lifetime of almost normal life, the guy immediately wanted to divorce, the child did not want.
In this way, the cousin had to return to her mother's house with a child with congenital diseases, living a difficult life and regretting the beginning.
Medea watched as her husband married a princess from another country
Parents, as people who have lived for decades more than us, have richer life experience, and have seen more people than us.
They look at things and things and look at people more like to see the essence through phenomena. Young people's flower intestines for a while, generally can not hide from them.
As parents, they definitely want their children to be happy.
When they have a premonition that their daughter will not be happy in the past, they will obstruct it even at the risk of not being understood.
They feel that even if they bear the insult of "hating the poor and loving the rich", they cannot watch their children jump into the fire pit.
After all, jumping into the fire pit, suffering is your own heart and liver baby!
Medea eventually became a witch
Of course, this is not to say that people whose parents do not allow them to marry must not marry.
When encountering this situation, if you are really not sure, you can let your friends also help refer to it.
Young people can understand young people better, and it is good to let a few friends see and come up with ideas.
The final ending of Medea's story is that Medea killed herself and her husband's three children in order to get revenge on her husband.
Medea kills her son
And she herself has since become a homeless witch, floating alone in this world.
Medea's approach is neither desirable nor desirable.
When desperately married, if you suffer betrayal from your husband.
Don't be weak, try to defend your rights; don't be immersed in sadness, considering the real problem is the key; don't do something extreme, everything can be left to the law.
Finally, I sincerely hope that everyone can get what they want, will not encounter such a thing as Medea, and will be happy and happy for the rest of their lives, and will always be a princess!