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The 21-year-old fat cat jumped into the river, Tan Zhu denied PUA, and Yin Shihang spoke: The man is in a lawsuit, and I will pay the cost

author:It's July

A 21-year-old boy, just because he was deeply involved in online dating, finally chose to jump into the river to end his young life. His experience has made countless netizens feel heartache and anger, what kind of story is hidden behind this?

The 21-year-old fat cat jumped into the river, Tan Zhu denied PUA, and Yin Shihang spoke: The man is in a lawsuit, and I will pay the cost

According to netizens, Liu Jie is a Chongqing boy born in 03 with outstanding game talent, and his online name is "Fat Cat". He met Tan Zhu, a girl 6 years older than him, on a voice software, and soon fell in love. In order to run with his girlfriend, the fat cat traveled thousands of miles from Hunan to Chongqing, and lived alone in this strange city for half a year, just waiting for the day when the two got married.

However, this seemingly sweet relationship hides too much unknown bitterness and helplessness behind it. Tan Zhu wanders on various social platforms all year round, specifically looking for young and simple boys, using their yearning and dedication to love, and wantonly squandering their money and feelings. And the fat cat became a plaything and an ATM in her hands.

The 21-year-old fat cat jumped into the river, Tan Zhu denied PUA, and Yin Shihang spoke: The man is in a lawsuit, and I will pay the cost

It is said that in order to meet Tan Zhu's various requirements, the fat cat did not hesitate to overdraft his life and energy. Tan Zhu wanted to buy a mobile phone, he immediately paid for it; Tan Zhu wanted to open a flower shop, so he transferred 100,000 yuan without saying a word; in order to save money for his girlfriend, the fat cat was reluctant to eat well, and often ordered takeout for about ten yuan. According to incomplete statistics, the fat cat paid 510,000 yuan for this relationship.

Faced with the fat cat's infatuation, Tan Zhu only regarded him as a dispensable spare tire. While collecting the fat cat's money, he went out with his friends to have fun, and even complained that the fat cat could only play games and could not provide emotional value. But the fat cat silently endured Tan Zhu's cold violence and all kinds of difficulties, and waited lonely in this city without relatives and friends.

The 21-year-old fat cat jumped into the river, Tan Zhu denied PUA, and Yin Shihang spoke: The man is in a lawsuit, and I will pay the cost

According to netizens' speculation, on the eve of the two getting married in May, the fat cat finally noticed the strangeness of their relationship. Tan Zhu began to threaten him with a breakup and tortured him for a whole month. In despair and helplessness, the fat cat made a final struggle. He transferred all the last 66,666.66 yuan to Tan Zhu, and remarked "voluntary gift". And he himself chose to jump from the Chongqing Bridge, but he died.

Even in the last moments of the fat cat's life, Tan Zhu was still indifferent. Allegedly, when the fat cat sent her a message and fixed flowers, Tan Zhu only replied with a cold "Are you going back to Hunan?". And after the news of the fat cat's death came out, she still posted selfies on Douyin, as if everything had nothing to do with her.

The 21-year-old fat cat jumped into the river, Tan Zhu denied PUA, and Yin Shihang spoke: The man is in a lawsuit, and I will pay the cost

After the unfortunate encounter of the fat cat was exposed, it aroused strong indignation among netizens. It is reported that the fat cat's sister posted that her younger brother had just graduated from college for two years, but she gave all the money she earned to Tan Zhu, and finally died in a foreign country. However, the party Tan Zhu quibbled in every possible way, denied that he was for money, and accused the fat cat of his "extreme" behavior before his death.

According to the police report, they have urged Tan Zhu to return 136,000 based on the transfer records of Fat Cat and Tan Zhu. But how can these money and a settlement letter make up for the loss of a fresh life? Countless netizens called on Tan Zhu to bear legal responsibility for his actions, and Internet celebrity Yin Shihang even expressed his willingness to provide legal help to the fat cat's family.

The 21-year-old fat cat jumped into the river, Tan Zhu denied PUA, and Yin Shihang spoke: The man is in a lawsuit, and I will pay the cost

The tragedy of the fat cat has once again sounded the alarm for countless young people. His ex-girlfriend was said to be grief-stricken after learning the bad news, blaming herself for not being able to prevent him from meeting Tan Zhu in the first place, "at least he is still alive". It can be seen that the fat cat is a boy who attaches great importance to feelings, but because of his wrong perception of love and money, he went astray and made a big mistake.

21 years old is the age when the boy's heart is not yet fully mature. They may not know how to look at feelings rationally, how to distinguish between sincerity and routine, so they are easily seduced and hurt by PUA. The tragedy of the fat cat's death tells us that feelings are important, but we must not lose our minds, let alone gamble with our lives. Only by being vigilant and mature can we avoid the vain sacrifice of more young lives.

The 21-year-old fat cat jumped into the river, Tan Zhu denied PUA, and Yin Shihang spoke: The man is in a lawsuit, and I will pay the cost

What happened to the fat cat made everyone sigh, and the loss of a young life was really regrettable. But what is even more distressing is that this is not an isolated case. In the chaotic online world, how many innocent and kind boys have become puppets and cash cows in the hands of PUAs? How can we arouse the society's attention and protection for them to avoid tragedies repeatedly? This is a question worthy of each of us pondering.