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When a person falls into loneliness and breaks off relations with relatives, the following three psychology are often involved. By understanding these mindsets, we are better able to gain insight into and help them get out of difficult situations, as well as repair broken relationships
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Loneliness is a feeling that penetrates deeply into the soul, and it makes people feel alone and helpless. When a person has no friends and breaks off relations with relatives, there is often a hidden psychology of low self-esteem, rejection and loss of trust. These three psychology interact with each other to some extent, deepening the person's loneliness.
Inferiority complex: loss of self-confidence and marginalization by society
Lonely people often have an inferiority complex about themselves, and they may feel that they are not worthy of love and attention. This low self-esteem can stem from a variety of reasons, such as long-term loneliness, past frustrations, or being criticized and ridiculed by others. Low self-esteem makes them lose their self-confidence and dare not take the initiative to communicate with others and establish new relationships.
Feelings of exclusion: Narrow social channels and difficulty fitting in
Breaking ties with relatives often means breaking ties with family groups, which makes it more difficult for lonely people to integrate into social circles. They may not have a common topic, no one to talk to, and feel the feelings of exclusion. This sense of exclusion increases their distance from others and further deepens their sense of loneliness.
Loss of trust: Hurt in the past and unwilling to bear it again
In some cases, breaking ties with relatives can stem from past hurt and betrayal. These experiences caused them to lose trust in others and develop a negative perception of family affection. They are reluctant to suffer harm from other people again and therefore choose to cut ties with their loved ones to protect themselves from further harm. However, it also makes them more lonely and lacks emotional support.
Takeaway: The importance of rebuilding yourself, seeking support and communication
By understanding the three psychology behind loneliness and family disconnection, we can better help these people get out of their difficult situation, repair broken relationships, and rebuild social networks.
- Rebuild yourself: Lonely people need to rebuild their self-confidence, improve their image through positive attitudes and actions, and gradually get rid of their inferiority complex.
- Seek support: It is important to encourage them to actively seek out social support, be involved in public, make like-minded friends, and share their feelings and experiences.
- Promote communication: Effective communication is the key to repairing family relationships. Advise them to try to communicate openly with their loved ones, express their inner thoughts and feelings, and seek opportunities to reconcile.
By understanding these psychology, we can help those who are lonely and disconnected from their relatives to rebuild themselves, seek support and better communication, and ultimately get out of the predicament of loneliness and regain a warm and loving connection.