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The 53-year-old "Aunt Xue" is so amazing! Two marriages have left regrets, she has been a single mother for many years, and her son encourages her to love boldly
Character stories
Text: Lin Nanfang Editor: Jia Fangfang
Source: Marriage & Family Magazine
ID：hunyinyujiating99
"Riding the Wind 2024" will be broadcast, and the 36 sisters will show their talents.
Among them, 53-year-old Wang Lin has amazed countless people.
She has short blond hair and a diamond fishtail dress, with a slender figure and tight skin, and she is in such good condition that people can't take their eyes off it.
I don't know if she participated in the 50 minus 20 event, netizens can't help but sigh: 20 years ago she was my aunt, 20 years later I am her aunt.
On the first stage, Wang Lin directly incarnated as a night white rose, and the song "Carmen" killed all sides.
Some netizens said that Aunt Xue still embarked on Yiping's path.
mentioned Wang Lin, and couldn't help but call her "Aunt Xue".
The first villain of the popular drama "Deep Love and Rainy", which was popular in Asia, is the most outstanding character she has created.
Aunt Xue's aura made Wang Lin and covered the real Wang Lin.
is like Zhang Guoli said on "Sound Immersion": "Wang Lin gave me a surprise, we all underestimated her before, because Aunt Xue is so classic, we only remember her role, and we don't see that she has many faces." ”
Who would have thought that this domineering and brutal Aunt Xue on the screen is a very small woman in her life.
Affection used to be her weakness, in pursuit of happiness, she got married when her career was the most popular, and now she is 53 years old and happy when she is single, and she lives a happy life with her son.
The increase in wrinkles and the regret of marriage have all precipitated into a strong self in her heart.
01
A girl who wants to go home, quit the circle and marry an uncle when she is popular
Wang Lin, born in the 70s, is a native of Shanghai. My father is an expert in geological exploration, and my mother works at the launch base, so they are away from home all year round. Therefore, after she was born, she lived with her grandparents in Sichuan, and she did not see her father for the first time until she was more than 5 years old.
One day when she came home from kindergarten, as soon as Wang Lin entered the door, her grandmother pointed to a strange man and said to her, "Wang Lin, this is your father." She remembered very well that her father picked her up and cried very sadly.
It is precisely because of the lack of love that "home" has become an obsession in her heart.
When she was 7 years old, her parents took her to school.
No one expected that the parents were silent science and engineering people, and they would give birth to a quirky and outspoken daughter.
Wang Lin is very smart, has a quick brain response, has a cheerful personality, and loves to talk and laugh. Growing up with her, she has never lost her verbal skills.
Her parents felt indebted to her, and seeing that she liked dance, they fully supported her to study. Later, Wang Lin was also admitted to the amateur class of the Children's Palace.
In school, Wang Lin studied very hard, but she was seriously biased. The liberal arts are good, but the mathematics, physics and chemistry are too poor, and the mathematics test is 8 points.
The high school teachers were worried about Wang Lin's college entrance examination, and seeing that she looked good, they suggested that she take the art examination. As a result, in 1989, Wang Linzhen was admitted to the drama and became good buddies with classmate Zhou Jie.
When she was in college, there was no math to hold back, and Wang Lin soon became a top student with her professional courses.
She is also very talented in learning languages, learning Russian very quickly, and in the second year she was sent by the school to study in Russia.
Originally, she wanted to study abroad for 5 years, but then there was a dispute in Russia, and she only stayed for a year and a half, and then dragged 126 pounds of weight and a bunch of jeans that she couldn't wear back to China.
It's true that you're fat, and so is what you've learned.
In 1993, Wang Lin had her debut novel "Love in the Pearl River". At that time, she was only 23 years old, but she relied on her acting skills to play Zhang Yuemei, a strong woman in her 30s, and the third party in the marriage of her good friend.
This drama won several awards such as the "Feitian Award" and the "Golden Eagle Award", and the fledgling Wang Lin also became famous.
Just when many people were looking forward to Wang Lin's next work, she suddenly disappeared.
It turned out that this drama was popular, but Wang Lin felt very annoyed. She is only in her 20s, but the people who come to her are middle-aged women like Zhang Yuemei.
There was no breakthrough in his career, and Wang Lin thought of starting a family. Growing up in an environment that made her feel that home is very important to a person, and a woman always has to have a home. She felt that when she was old, she should find someone to marry and form a happy home, warm, happy and safe.
During the filming of "Love in the Pearl River", Wang Lin stayed in Guangdong for a few months, met some friends, and confided in them about her desire to marry.
Coincidentally, my friend quickly introduced a Hong Kong businessman to her. This person is 17 years older than Wang Lin, has been divorced for more than ten years, and is very mature and stable. This is very attractive to Wang Lin.
In this way, Wang Lin fell in love and soon got married. 26-year-old Wang Lin finally has her own small home.
In order to devote herself to the family, after marriage, Wang Lin gave up her acting career and moved to Hong Kong with her husband.
thought that they had found stable happiness, but unexpectedly, the two people with a large age gap began to have frequent conflicts.
At the beginning of the young Wang Lin's life, what she wanted was the process, and what her husband should have experienced was all that he should have experienced, and all he wanted was a result. Wang Lin feels that life is very boring if there are only results.
In this way, in the fifth year of marriage, the two decided to separate, and officially divorced two years later.
The failure of this marriage made Wang Lin very sad, and it also made her understand that young women can fall in love, but they must have dignity on the way to love, especially not to give up their own career to make a living.
02
After the age of 30, his career exploded, and he bravely remarried in love
walked out of marriage, Wang Lin walked into the crew again and became an actor. The East is not bright and the West is bright, and her marriage is frustrated, and her career has exploded.
In 2001, because of the connection of classmate Zhou Jie, Wang Lin went to participate in the interview of Qiong Yao's drama "Deep Love and Rain".
Enthusiastic, she said "Hello, I'm the beauty queen Lin" when she sees people. It's a pity that this 31-year-old beauty still hasn't acted as a beauty in the play.
Wang Lin originally thought that she could play a young and beautiful girl in Qiong Yao's drama, but as soon as the crew saw her, they decided to let her play the villain Aunt Xue, because she had a bad woman's face.
Not only that, but at a young age, she has to be a mother, and she is also a stepmother!
At first, Wang Lin was resistant in her heart, and she also felt that Aunt Xue was brutal and vicious, which was very different from herself, and she was afraid that she would not act well. But as soon as she joined the group, she didn't have time to worry, because she was busy being beaten.
She had a lot of beatings, and they were all real beatings, she was slapped by the master for a while, her nose was blue and her face was swollen by a leather whip for a while, and she was often overturned to the ground, Wang Lin endured the pain and finished filming this scene.
As a result, the results are surprisingly good. The scene where Aunt Xue knocked on the door domineeringly in a cheongsam has become a childhood memory for countless people, and Aunt Xue has also become synonymous with "bad woman" and "vicious stepmother" in Chinese TV history.
After becoming popular with Aunt Xue, Wang Lin kept making appointments, but they were all middle-aged bad women, and they were all much older than their actual age.
From resisting at the beginning to slowly accepting it, Wang Lin also accepted this talent, after all, not everyone can play such a role. Moreover, it is not a success to be able to perform the characteristics and levels of a type of role.
Wang Lin, who was busy with her career, gradually walked out of the shadow of the failure of her first marriage, and got better and better. When a person gets better and better, good things will also come to the door. Soon, a man named Liu Guojing broke into Wang Lin's life.
After getting acquainted at a party, Liu Guojing began to pursue Wang Lin, visiting the class during filming, and accompanying her to watch the sunrise and watch movies during breaks. Although they are all very simple and small things, they make Wang Lin feel the care and warmth of family.
Wang Lin has always longed for a home in her heart, and she will not turn a blind eye to new love because she has been hurt. Moreover, she will reflect on what she did wrong last time, and she will no longer be attached to a man when she enters marriage again, let alone give up her career.
In 2004, 34-year-old Wang Lin gave birth to her son Nuonuo, who always plays other people's mothers in plays, and finally became a mother this time. The family of three is happy, and this is what she wanted to be like when she was a child.
However, after the birth of the son, the quarrels in the family also increased.
On the issue of raising children, there is also more friction between Liu Guojing and Wang Lin. Wang Lin is a Virgo, has a habit of cleanliness, demands perfection, is very strong in communication, is straightforward and fast-talking, and speaks inevitably hurtful.
It is said that no matter how strong the feelings are, they will become more and more noisy, and after 6 years together, the two people who originally loved each other very much finally lost to the chicken feathers in their marriage.
This marriage ended very regrettably, and Wang Lin often asked herself: Why don't you keep your mouth shut, why should others put up with your knife mouth? How do others know that you are a tofu heart? Isn't it better to control your mouth and treat others with your heart? In the end, she forced people away.
03
A good mother in the eyes of her son, 53 years old single and happy
After the divorce, Wang Lin lived with her son Nuo Nuo and became a single mother who had to work and support her family and take care of her children.
It is precisely because of the appearance of happiness that Wang Lin is difficult to withdraw from it, she has not come out for more than two years, often washes her face with tears, relies on taking medicine to fall asleep at night, and even confesses her "last words" to her friends, and takes care of the child after she leaves.
During that time, Wang Lin couldn't smile anymore, she was in a very bad state, and it was her son who pulled her back from the brink of life and death.
Once, when she was crying, her son saw it and ran over and said, "Mom, don't cry, I will take care of you forever." ”
Since then, she has decided to live well for the sake of her son. There is no man in the family, she has to support the family to earn money, and she can't collapse.
The firmness of this mother's love allowed her to survive all the hardships experienced by a single-parent working mother, and also gained a warm male son with a sunny heart and a cheerful personality.
Once she was at work when she suddenly received a call saying that her son's hand had been clipped in. She rushed to the hospital and saw that her son's thumb was bleeding. But he was strong and didn't cry, but called "Mom" into the operating room.
Raising a child alone, Wang Lin, like all mothers, will be impatient, and will scold when her temper comes up, her son not only did not feel sad when he heard it, but said to her: "Mom, it's not that I did it wrong, it's that you're too tired." ”
In this home, Wang Lin feels that she is the one who is taken care of. Every time she goes out, her son helps her pack her luggage and reminds her to take the medicine for her headache, and if she comes home late one night, her son will come to her to tell her good morning before school the next day.
Wang Lin once said to her son: "It's hard to conceive you, it's painful to give birth to you, and it's tiring to raise you, but my mother doesn't regret it at all, because I gave birth to a person who loves me the most in the world." ”
Wang Lin's biggest hope for her son is to become a normal commuter man, who can see his family every day, and does not have to be like herself, drifting around with a suitcase, without a sense of belonging to home.
Wang Lin feels that she now has time to spend with her son, has no time to fall in love, and enjoys her single life now. Although her son often encouraged her to talk about it when she met the right one.
If Wang Lin, who entered the first marriage, was a little woman and thought that marriage was everything, then by the time of the second marriage, she had transformed into a more self-conscious woman.
Maybe it's like Wang Lin, although she has had two failed marriages, she still encourages young girls to accept true love if they meet it, after all, love is not something that everyone can meet, don't be afraid of the result, the important thing is to enjoy the process. If love doesn't come, be yourself first.
Just like she is now, she has a job she loves, and she has free time to accompany her son, dance Latin dance, and live a very comfortable life.
Today's Wang Lin has changed, from a little woman who is anxious to find a sense of security to a big heroine who enjoys life.
But she hasn't changed. In "Sister Over Flowers", she is also willing to believe in the legend that washing her face with well water can make her young, she will be moved by the beautiful scenery she sees, and she will be infected by the kindness of the people around her. The most rare thing is that she can still laugh after being injured.
Now, Wang Lin is 53 years old and still single, but she feels that she is lucky to have a real love, and her son who loves her the most in the world. It is not in vain to go through two times in marriage, and each time it is growth. Whether the next love will come or not, it will not affect her happiness.
When we are young, we always think that happiness is hidden in marriage, and people only understand in middle age that happiness is only related to the strength of their hearts.
When I was young, I felt that love was a charcoal in the snow, and in middle age, I realized that love was just the icing on the cake.
Regardless of whether the marriage goes well or not, I hope we can all have the ability to make ourselves happy, just like Wang Lin, who has been away for half a lifetime and returns, and can live as a self-consistent heroine at the age of 53 and ride the wind and waves on her own stage.
Resources:
1, Wang Lin Weibo Riding the Wind and Waves 2024 Weibo
2. Interviews with Sina.com and other websites
3, variety show "Venus Show", "Li Jing Super Interview", etc
4, "Deep Love and Rain" and other hit dramas
(Excerpt from WeChat public account Marriage and Family Magazine)