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Uncover the truth behind it: When jokes become a tool to hurt people
We all like a friend with a sense of humor who always brings us laughter and happiness. However, people who often deal with you in a joke way need to be careful. This kind of person often hides a bad character, and even looks down on you a little. Today, we will uncover the truth behind this phenomenon.
First, let's talk about why some people joke a lot and like to make fun of you. This can actually be a manifestation of their low self-esteem. By laughing at others or teasing you in a cynical way, they try to boost their self-esteem and thus seek a sense of identity in the group. However, this low self-esteem often masks their inner insecurity and dissatisfaction.
When dealing with such people, we need to protect our self-esteem. First, learn to discern when it's a friendly joke and when it's a malicious cynicism. If the other person's joke makes you feel uncomfortable or hurts your feelings, be brave enough to express it and tell them your bottom line. Compared with people with good character, this type of person will use your words as "joke material" and continue to make fun of you. It also speaks of their disrespect and indifference to you.
Deep friendship is based on trust, respect and sincerity. However, those who often joke and look down on you are clearly not doing it. Therefore, do not make deep friends with such people. They won't think about you and won't really care about your feelings. Choose to build deep friendships with people who are genuine to you, who give you support and positive energy. While they may not be as humorous, they will know how to value you better.
When dealing with such people, we also need to learn to protect our own boundaries. Don't get hurt by their ridicule, and don't compromise your values and principles. When dealing with them, stick to who you really are and don't give up on yourself in order to please them. Building positive, healthy relationships requires mutual respect and equality, which they lack.
People who often hurt others with jokes are often of bad character, and they want to hide their inner insecurity and dissatisfaction by ridiculing others. Having a deep relationship with such a person will only hurt your self-esteem and emotions. Therefore, we learn to discern the true intentions of the other person and choose to build a deep friendship relationship with someone who treats us sincerely. Protect your boundaries and stick to your true self in order to have healthy and beautiful relationships.