Text/Flying Fish
In this life, it is actually a happy thing to be able to meet someone who loves each other.
But life is not everything going well, some people are always in love but can't, and some people meet the right person at the wrong time, but they have a responsibility on their own body, can not easily let go, in the face of passing fate, have to learn to refuse and let go.
In marriage, we must each learn to be responsible for each other's lovers, but also learn to be responsible for the family, since we have chosen marriage, then in the face of extramarital feelings, do not accept, otherwise it will hurt our partners and children.
If you meet a person you like outside of marriage, but you already have a family with each other, then you must remember your identity, you are already a married person, don't be ambiguous with others, don't do things that are sorry for your lover, keep the bottom line and principles in your heart, and don't hurt the people around you because of your own desires.
You know, a man and a woman are in love, but they each have their own families, remember these three points, and you will be happy.
01. Keep your distance, and it is best to draw a line.
Truly mature adults, in fact, will be responsible for love, to their lover and family dedication, even if although married to their lover, not the person they love the most, but since they are married, don't go all day, some relationships, can't happen, can't touch, you have to learn to restrain yourself, don't feel regret because you can't get it, don't want to touch it because you can't get it.
Married people, you should pay attention to proportion, when you meet a person who likes yourself, you can't be tempted, let alone cross the line, but to keep a distance, the best thing is to draw a clear relationship with the other party, because the other party clearly knows that you are married, and still wants to have a relationship with you, then you have to be ruthless, refuse the other party, and even delete the contact information, don't leave the other party any thoughts, only draw a clear line, be loyal to your partner, cherish your family, in order to return to the family, harvest the happiness of the family.
02. Learn to let go and stop remembering.
Everyone actually has some private emotions, and the emotional world is actually very complex and changeable.
Some people get married, their lives become boring, and they suddenly meet a very interesting person, with a completely different personality from their partner, and even understands themselves and is very compatible with themselves, which inevitably makes them can't help but move.
But we must know in our hearts that extramarital feelings are very hurtful, once they are not handled well, they will hurt the two families, and the most hurt is their lover, and because the marriage relationship will affect the physical and mental health of the children, we really have to think about the consequences.
Even if two people outside of marriage have feelings and have a good impression of each other, don't be together, don't go wrong, but think about your family, think about those who love you, learn to let go, don't remember the person outside of marriage, that spark just generated, you should quickly pinch it off, and it is wise not to make mistakes.
03. End with dignity and bless each other.
Some people miss a person they love the most when they were young, and after they have been married for many years, they suddenly reunite with their old acquaintances, and they are actually very clear in their hearts that it is impossible for everyone to go back to the past, so don't leave any thoughts, don't burden each other.
The reunion of the meeting, as if God arranged a chance encounter for himself, even if there are still waves in the heart, you must learn to cut, put this love deep in the bottom of your heart, after separation, no longer bother, do not re-establish contact, do not leave any contact information, otherwise your partner will be jealous and will think too much.
When you reunite with the person you once loved outside of marriage, even if you evoke the good memories in your heart, don't love anymore, end it decently, and bless each other to have a happy family in their lives.
Missing may be a pity, but it is also a scenery of life, learn to let go, learn to restrain it, and learn to let go of each other.
You have to cherish the happiness you have, happiness is not easy to come by, and don't ruin your happy family and marriage because of your momentary desires and pleasures.
When a man and a woman fall in love with each other, but they each have families, they must remember the above three points to be happy.
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