Haizi once wrote:
"When you come to the world, you want to see the sun and walk down the street with your sweetheart. ”
Each of us hopes that we can harvest a pure and flawless love, but many times, the deception and calculation mixed with love will make people bruised and difficult to heal.
At this point, we will question whether the other person really loves you.
In fact, whether a man really loves you or not can be seen clearly through some details in life.
Generally speaking, if a man has these seven manifestations, a woman should be careful, indicating that he does not love you
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1. I only say but don't do it, and I only care about you from the mouth
"Baby, you have to drink plenty of water, don't get tired. Such words sound warm, but if they are only in words and not supported by actual actions, then this concern is a little weak.
A man who truly loves you will not only say words of concern, but also prove his love with actions. He will remember your preferences, care about your needs, and lend a helping hand when you need it.
Second, it is very perfunctory to you
When you are happy to share your joys or worries, his response is always nonchalant and perfunctory. He may respond to you with simple words such as "um", "oh", "okay", etc., making you feel that your topic is not taken seriously by him.
A man who truly loves you will listen carefully to your words, feel your emotions with his heart, and give a positive response, rather than perfunctory you with an indifferent attitude.
3. Never care about your business
Your birthday, anniversary, or important work project, he always seems to forget or ignore it. This kind of performance shows that he doesn't have you in his heart and doesn't really understand your life.
A man who truly loves you will pay attention to every detail of you, understand your preferences and dreams, and do everything in his power to help you achieve them.
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Fourth, frequent disconnection
He always disconnects you frequently under the pretext that he is busy with work and has no time. When you reach out to him, he always hangs up in a hurry. Such behavior makes you feel helpless and uneasy, and it also makes you start to doubt his feelings for you.
A man who truly loves you will cherish every opportunity to communicate with you, take the initiative to keep in touch with you, and make you feel his care and love.
Fifth, he is very strong and always makes you obey him
He always imposes his will on you, without taking into account your feelings and thoughts. In his world, you can only obey his arrangements and decisions. This kind of behavior makes you feel depressed and constrained, and it also makes you start to question the authenticity of the relationship.
A man who truly loves you will respect your choices and decisions and give you enough freedom and space to develop your interests and hobbies.
6. Often busy and making excuses to miss appointments
You have agreed on an appointment or event, but he always no-shows or postpones it for various reasons. This behavior makes you feel disappointed and frustrated, and it also makes you start to wonder if his promises to you are true and credible.
A man who truly loves you will value every time he spends with you and strive to fulfill his promises and promises.
7. He needs to find you, and you need but you can't find him
When you need him, he always shirks or runs away from him for various reasons. And when he needs you, he will not hesitate to find you and ask for help. This kind of behavior makes you feel chilled and disappointed, and it also makes you question the value and meaning of the relationship.
A man who truly loves you will definitely not hesitate to lend a hand and give you enough support and help when you need it.
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If you notice that your partner has one or more of the above seven manifestations, then you need to be careful. These signs may indicate that he doesn't really love you, or that his feelings for you are in trouble.
Of course, we can't generalize, everyone's situation is different. However, as women, we should always be vigilant and sober to discern and judge whether the relationship is worth our continued investment and dedication.
I remember that there is a sentence in "The Way of Living for Women": "Women don't need others to pretend to love, and you don't need to pretend to love someone." ”
I hope you can remember: a woman can have many ways to live in this life, and she can be infinitely wonderful, but don't linger in the wrong "love".
Finally, I hope that all women can remain sober and resolute, reject "false love", and firmly grasp the initiative of happiness.