April 16 is Shu Qi's 48th birthday, and her husband Feng Delun deliberately planned a wedding without telling her in order to make up for the regret that the two had not held a wedding for 8 years of marriage.
And this wedding is not just Feng Delun's heart, but the friends jointly prepared it, sending blessings and surprises to the couple.
At the wedding, Feng Delun also directly put the wedding ring on Shu Qi's hand, which made people see his sincere feelings and willingness to Shu Qi.
At the wedding, the friends of the two also participated, and the atmosphere was warm, which made people see the deep relationship between the two for more than 20 years, and Feng Delun's actions also made people feel very envious.
1. What is the most important thing about a long marriage?
20 years of tacit understanding and affection.
At the wedding of Shu Qi and Feng Delun, although there were no relatives and friends, their friends were involved, and these friends were also friends of the two for more than 20 years and have always been important figures in each other's lives.
And Feng Delun's move is not only to make up for the regret that the two did not hold a wedding when they got married, but more importantly, let everyone witness the couple's relationship and tacit understanding for more than 20 years.
And the friends over the years have also witnessed the growth of the relationship between the two, so Feng Delun handed over the preparations for this wedding to his friends.
It can be said that although the two did not hold a wedding, in the past 20 years, the tacit understanding and relationship between the two have been unshakable, and this is the fundamental reason why the two can come together.
At the wedding, the friends of the two also came prepared, and Feng Delun also wrote the names of his friends on the red envelope for this wedding, so that they could find their seats on the seats at the wedding.
And Feng Delun's move is also to allow friends to sit together, facilitate everyone to communicate, and make the atmosphere of the wedding more enthusiastic.
Feng Delun also invited Zhang Zhen and his wife, as well as Li Yapeng and his wife as witnesses to witness the happiness of the couple.
2. Feng Delun's direct and romantic way of proposing.
"Shu Qi, marry me!"
And Feng Delun's marriage proposal method is also very direct and romantic, the two were filming a movie in the Czech Republic at that time, it was the first day of work, and Feng Delun also took Shu Qi to an ancient castle after work.
The weather was very cold at that time, but Feng Delun directly opened the gate of the castle and walked in with Shu Qi, but the inside of the castle was blazing and very warm.
And Feng Delun also took Shu Qi to the center of the castle, took out a ring, and said directly to Shu Qi: "Shu Qi, marry me!"
And Shu Qi was also taken aback at that time, she never thought that Feng Delun would bring herself here after work and propose to surprise herself.
And Feng Delun also said to Shu Qi: "Today is the first day of our work, I hope that the proposal will be successful on the first day of work, so I will marry you today!"
And when Feng Delun finished speaking, he directly put the ring on Shu Qi's hand, and Shu Qi also readily agreed, making the couple's love more romantic.
And Feng Delun and Shu Qi have known each other for 20 years, but at the wedding, Feng Delun was still very nervous, he was afraid that he would say something wrong, so at the wedding, he still wrote the oath on paper.
And Feng Delun also thanked Shu Qi in his oath, because with Shu Qi by his side, he became more courageous, and he also thanked Shu Qi for always guarding him, and he would always guard Shu Qi.
At the wedding, Feng Delun also specially prepared two rabbits, implying that the two lived happily, and at the end of the wedding, Feng Delun also directly put the wedding ring on Shu Qi's hand.
And this move also made Shu Qi feel very shy, and Feng Delun also said to Shu Qi: "After 20 years of relationship, we finally came together, Shu Qi, I love you!"
And when Feng Delun finished speaking, Shu Qi also said to Feng Delun with tears: "I love you too, Feng Delun!"
3. Feng Delun planned the wedding without Shu Qi.
At the wedding, Feng Delun also prepared a surprise for Shu Qi, and Feng Delun also deliberately chose a restaurant for this wedding, which was the first place the two went to 20 years ago.
And Feng Delun also specially invited Shu Qi's friend Zhou Xun, and at the wedding, Feng Delun also specially prepared a surprise for Shu Qi, that is, the wedding dress at the wedding.
And Feng Delun had already selected a wedding dress with the designer a few months ago, and Feng Delun also told the designer his mind that he wanted a set of Chinese-style wedding dresses.
And at the wedding, when Shu Qi saw Feng Delun wearing a suit, and her wedding dress had not been taken out, she thought that Feng Delun had forgotten, so she was a little sad.
At this time, Zhou Xun took out Shu Qi's wedding dress, and Feng Delun also said to Shu Qi: "This is the gift I specially selected for you, you can try it!"
After listening to this, Shu Qi was also very moved, she didn't expect Feng Delun to prepare a wedding dress for her, so that she could wear the wedding dress and take pictures.
At the wedding, Feng Delun also specially prepared a song for Shu Qi, this song was written and composed by himself, although it is not very good, but it is Feng Delun's true feelings for Shu Qi.
And Feng Delun's move also made Shu Qi feel very surprised and grateful, and Feng Delun also said to Shu Qi: "Our 20-year relationship has finally come together, I will treat you well!"
And the reason why Feng Delun and Shu Qi did not hold a wedding was because the two felt that the wedding was not important, but the relationship between the two was important, so the two did not waste a lot of money to hold the wedding.
And Feng Delun's move also let everyone see that gifts and parties at the wedding are important, but more importantly, the tacit understanding and deep relationship between the two for more than 20 years are the cornerstone of a long-term marriage.
epilogue
Shu Qi and Feng Delun have known each other for 20 years, and their marriage proposal was direct and romantic, and they proposed marriage on the first day of construction in a Czech castle.
And Feng Delun planned a wedding without Shu Qi, which made her feel surprised and grateful.
And Feng Delun and Shu Qi's wedding is also a wedding that does not stick to traditional methods, and makes the wedding more unique and unforgettable with heart and creativity, which makes people feel very envious.
The frugal attitude and careful management of feelings by Feng Delun and Shu Qi reflect that money is not a measure of happiness, and sincere emotions and mutual understanding are the real keys to marriage.