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"Guo Jinan is divorced!"
When this news went viral on the Internet, various speculations and analyses about the marital status of the two of them continued to heat up.
At the beginning of last year, the Hong Kong media had analyzed the relationship between Guo Jinan and Ou Qianyi, but this year, they announced their divorce, which undoubtedly increased the speculation and discussion among the media and netizens.
And what is the reason for the divorce of Guo Jinan and Ou Qianyi?
So as a media person, is the analysis and speculation about marriage correct?
1. The values of marriage have changed.
In today's society, the concept and values of marriage have changed greatly, and the marital status between two people is no longer as constrained by people's traditional views as before.
Instead, it pays more attention to the individual's well-being and development needs.
Therefore, for the divorce of Guo Jinan and Ou Qianyi, we should not look at it with traditional concepts, but should empathize and understand the real reasons for the marital status between the two.
At the beginning of last year, some media analyzed the marital status of Guo Jinan and Ou Qianyi.
In the analysis, the media believes that Guo Jinan, as a man, was not young before marriage, and Ou Qianyi is one of his fans, so in marriage, Guo Jinan is likely to have machismo problems, so in marriage, their relationship will become more and more discordant.
And Guo Jinan, as a man, is also staggering, and Ou Qianyi's side has a relatively large desire to spend money, so in marriage, such a topic will also become a contradiction between them.
In addition, Ou Qianyi is a woman with a strong pursuit of independence, and Guo Jinan is not the kind of woman who can give her enough space for independence, so in marriage, there will be more and more conflicts between the two.
And the media has also questioned the marriage between the two, thinking that the marriage between the two is not so good.
After Ou Qianyi's comeback, the relationship between the two is no longer as sweet as before, so there may be doubts about their marriage, and there are even rumors that Ou Qianyi was pregnant and committed suicide after Guo Jinan cheated and forced her to get married.
2. The breakdown of a marriage is not necessarily a failure.
But now, with the change in the concept of marriage, the media no longer analyzes the marriage between the two, but pays more attention to the happiness and development between the two, therefore, we should not think that the marriage between Guo Jinan and Ou Qianyi is a certain failure.
Sometimes, the breakdown of a marriage is also for the better development and happiness of both parties, therefore, we should no longer speculate about their marriage, but should bless their future.
Of course, the breakdown of a marriage does not mean that it can be broken, but that in the marriage, the two parties pay more attention to the maintenance of feelings, and what factors in the marriage are the most important in maintaining a marital relationship?
The first is communication, which is the most important factor in maintaining a relationship.
Only when the two parties can achieve real communication and continuous communication can they avoid the increasing contradictions between the two people due to the contradictions in the marriage.
Secondly, it is respect, respect is an indispensable point in marriage, and only when both parties can respect each other can they maintain the marriage relationship.
And there is also the common growth, and there is also a very important factor between the two parties in the marriage, which is to grow together.
Only when both parties can grow together can the marriage relationship be maintained.
And in the marriage of Guo Jinan and Ou Qianyi, what are the reasons between them that caused their marriage to break down?
3. Reasons for divorce.
First of all, Guo Jinan is a man, and he was not young before marriage, so in marriage, he is likely to have the problem of machismo.
And Ou Qianyi's side is a woman who pursues independence, so in marriage, Guo Jinan's side cannot give Ou Qianyi enough space for independence, so the contradictions between the two parties will become bigger and bigger.
Moreover, Guo Jinan's side is slamming the door, and Ou Qianyi's side has a greater desire to consume, so in marriage, these topics will also become contradictions between them.
In addition, there is another point that Ou Qianyi's side does not trust Guo Jinan's financial ability very much, and thinks that Guo Jinan will not leave a penny for himself, so in marriage, the feelings between the two parties will also become alienated.
In marriage, trust between the two parties is very important, and only when both parties can trust each other can the marriage relationship be maintained.
And the reason why Ou Qianyi didn't trust Guo Jinan's economic ability was mainly because Guo Jinan, as a man, was too strong in his slamming degree, so Ou Qianyi's side was very uneasy about Guo Jinan's economic ability.
And when Guo Jin'an's side was doing business, it was also very bad, so Ou Qianyi's side was very uneasy about Guo Jinan's economic ability.
At the same time, Ou Qianyi's side is a woman who pursues an independent life, and Guo Jinan can't give her enough space for independence, so in marriage, there will be more and more conflicts between the two.
And after Ou Qianyi's comeback, Guo Jinan did not give her enough space, so the relationship between the two became more and more discordant.
After Ou Qianyi's comeback, she also obtained the qualification of a dietitian, so in marriage, her side will have a greater desire for independence, and Guo Jinan can't give her enough space for independence, so the marriage between the two has come to an end.
epilogue
But after the divorce, Ou Qianyi has worked harder to pursue her own life, and now she has obtained the qualification of a dietitian, which once again shows that Ou Qianyi is very independent and very pursuing her own development.