No matter how hard you can't bitter your children, most parents are unwilling to let their children be wronged, and they want their children to live a better life if they are frugal.
But there are also parents who will not indulge their children and implement "suffering education", so that children can understand that it is not easy for adults to earn money, so that children can be sensible and learn to be grateful.
No matter what kind of educational philosophy, we must grasp a degree, it is not good to be too doting, and it is not good to be too strict. In short, do what you can, as long as you do your best, don't always feel indebted to your child.
A little girl fell in love with a beautiful face painting and stood in front of the stall for an hour, her mother felt guilty because she didn't have enough money to satisfy her daughter, but the comments from netizens were very heartwarming.
As you can see from the picture, the girl is about three years old, standing in front of the stall, holding a face painting rendering in her hand, looking at it with envy, and she is reluctant to put it down for a long time.
This is a playground, the mother originally brought her daughter to play, and the daughter, who was curious about everything, fell in love with a face painting, and didn't want to leave in front of the stall.
When the boss saw that the girl liked it, he was very enthusiastic at first, and asked the girl which one she liked? Usually, as long as you say this, your mother will pay because she is embarrassed.
But who knew that my mother was not tricked and refused to pay. If my daughter likes it, let her watch it and accompany her. As soon as the boss saw the situation, he knew that the business could not be done, so he no longer talked about it.
But my daughter liked it so much that she picked up the face painting renderings, looked at them repeatedly, refused to leave no matter what she said, and stood for an hour, still without moving.
The mother posted the matter on the Internet, saying that it was not that she didn't want to spend money on her daughter, but that a face painting cost 98 yuan, and she didn't have enough money in her hand, and she felt very guilty about her daughter.
Originally, people still thought that the mother asked her daughter to stand in front of the booth for an hour and refused to pay, which was a bit too unkind, and what should the child do if she had low self-esteem in the future?
Some netizens commented, I thought it was 9 pieces of 8, 98 let her stand.
Some netizens commented that 98 yuan, if the child really likes it, stand with the child for a while, and by the way, tell the child that if you look at it carefully, it is also a craft to learn.
Some netizens also commented that the 20 I painted for my girl a few days ago is similar to this group, and 98 is too ruthless!
Some netizens commented that just stand up, I can't earn 98 if I stand for an hour.
Some netizens commented that you can consider it within 30, and if you are above 30, let your child understand that there is no regret in life?
Some netizens also commented that when she grew up and looked at the face painting of 98 in the park, she seemed to see herself who had stood for an hour, and then she would understand that 98 was really expensive.
The mother took her daughter to play, and the daughter took a fancy to the beautiful face painting, and also wanted the boss to draw one for herself, but the boss asked for 98, and the mother said that she would not pay for anything.
Let her daughter stand in front of the stall for an hour, the mother did not relent, and stood with her daughter to see how long she could last?
In the end, I realized that it was not that my mother was too stingy, but that she was really shy and couldn't pay so much.
In fact, even if you have money, many netizens will not pay for it. It's really that some merchants have outrageous pricing, and there is no need to do wrongs.
If you compromise every time, you will always encounter things that are within your ability, and it will not be so easy to refuse at that time.