Some people also say that husband and wife are like forest birds, and when disaster strikes, they fly away separately. That is to say, husband and wife are like birds in the woods. When disaster strikes, they abandon their significant other and fly away.
In fact, this represents different attitudes towards interpersonal relationships for different people. The former believes that couples should not leave each other no matter what happens, while the latter believes that the relationship between husband and wife is fragile and cannot withstand the storm and setbacks. Test.
In fact, the emotional world between men and women is very small, so small that it can only accommodate two people. Once an accident happens, the relationship will inevitably break down.
Event Recap:
Sudden disaster
Yang Jialian and Zhu Jingdong are a loving couple. In order to improve the living conditions of the family, they handed over the children to the care of their in-laws, and the couple went to the city to work together.
Yang Jialian helps people cook on the construction site, while Zhu Jingdong does some bricklayer work, earning more than 10,000 yuan a month. In order to save money, they eat and live on the construction site. Every month, in addition to sending some living expenses to my children, I save the rest of the money.
Originally, Yang Jialian thought that the couple would cooperate for a few more years and everything would be fine to raise their children. However, a sudden car accident frustrates her wishful thinking.
One day, after work, Yang Jialian and Zhu Jingdong went for a walk on the street. While crossing the street, Zhu Jingdong was hit by a motorcycle and fell to the ground, unconscious.
Yang Jialian hurriedly dialed 120, and Zhu Jingdong was quickly taken to the hospital. After a series of examinations, the doctor issued a critical illness notice.
Later, after rescue, Zhu Jingdong finally saved his life, but his brain was damaged. Doctors said he had only the intelligence of a four-year-old child.
Although the party responsible for the accident lost some money, it was quickly spent on Zhu Jingdong's treatment. Moreover, Zhu Jingdong's intelligence is not only unable to take care of himself, but also needs someone to watch him at all times.
Zhu Jingdong's parents are honest farmers, taking care of their grandchildren while farming. As a result, the heavy responsibility of taking care of Zhu Jingdong fell on Yang Jialian.
Married husband
Yang Jialian took great care of Zhu Jingdong. She washed his face and brushed his teeth every day, and helped him change his clothes and bathe. When she went to work in the field, she also took Zhu Jingdong with her.
But Yang soon discovered that the income from farming alone could not support the family's life. If it continues like this, the family may not even be able to carry the pot.
Just as Yang Jialian was worried about her livelihood, she overheard the news that a woman had remarried with her husband in order to take care of her sick husband, causing a sensation, and others were generous.
So Yang Jialian wants to use the same method to solve the family's financial problems, but if she wants to remarry with her husband, she must first obtain the consent of her in-laws.
Yang Jialian is a person who dares to think and act. She immediately told her father-in-law, Old Man Zhu, her thoughts. In order to reassure Old Man Zhu, Yang Jialian repeatedly said that she was only doing this to improve the economic conditions of her family.
After listening to his daughter-in-law's words, Old Man Zhu sighed with emotion: "If you remarry, who will you marry? Will they allow you to get married fakely?"
Yang Jialian said, my cousin Li Wenliang, no one in our village knows him, so let him knock on the door and come to our house.
When Old Man Zhu heard that his daughter-in-law and son refused to leave, but just asked a man to come to his house, his heart fell. He nodded silently, which could be regarded as his agreement with Yang Jialian.
Yang Jialian's mother-in-law is a simple rural woman. Seeing that Old Man Zhu nodded, she didn't say anything more.
Then Yang Jialian found his cousin Li Wenliang. Li Wenliang has had a very good relationship with Yang Jialian since he was a child. Now that Yang Jialian's family has suffered a tragedy, he has always seen it in his eyes and his heart aches.
When he learned that Yang Jialian pretended to marry her to him, Li Wenliang agreed without hesitation.
After that, Li Wenliang moved into Yang Jialian's house with great fanfare. In order to let more people know about Yang Jialian's remarriage with her husband, Li Wenliang and Yang Jialian took Zhu Jingdong around the village every day. As soon as Yang Jialian met, he told people about Li Wenliang. It's her lover.
At the same time, Mr. and Mrs. Zhu were also full of praise for their daughter-in-law Yang Jialian when they saw everyone, because they really had no choice but to take this step, because the family really couldn't open the pot.
The villagers were quickly moved by Yang's actions. They felt that Yang Jialian, who was so young, did not divorce her husband, but remarried in order to take better care of her husband. This behavior is indeed commendable.
Not only that, some villagers also took the lead in donating money for Yang Jialian. After learning of the incident, a number of TV stations also came to interview Yang Jialian.
In this way, the media effect that Yang Jialian wanted came, but disappointingly, after a lot of effort, they only received a total of 600 yuan in donations.
The father-in-law and mother-in-law suddenly turned against each other
Although Yang Jialian was disappointed, she thought that it was better than not having a penny. However, Old Man Zhu suddenly turned his back, because one day, Yang Jialian and Li Wenliang took Zhu Jingdong to the town to buy things. The two of them may have been too engrossed. and separated from Zhu Jingdong.
After Zhu Laohan learned of his son's disappearance, he suspected that Yang Jialian and Li Wenliang did it on purpose, so that they could live peacefully. So he first accused Yang Jialian of changing his mind, and then drove Li Wenliang out with a shovel in the yard.
Yang Jialian didn't understand why Old Man Zhu was like this, so she stepped forward to protect Li Wenliang and said, "Dad, what's wrong with you?
Old Man Zhu said angrily: "What did you say? Tell me, did you really do it with him?"
Yang Jialian understood that Old Man Zhu was suspicious of her, and hurriedly explained that there was nothing wrong at all.
But once suspicion arises, it is difficult to dispel it. Zhu Laohan didn't pay attention to Yang Jialian at all, picked up the shovel, and chased Li Wenliang to fight. Seeing this, Li Wenliang fled, and Zhu Laohan chased after him. Scold.
For a while, the villagers in the village were all onlookers, but soon they understood that Yang Jialian and Li Wenliang faked their marriage just to cheat money.
In this way, Yang Jialian suddenly changed from a good wife and daughter-in-law praised by everyone to a laughing stock that everyone spurned.
But what made Yang Jialian most uncomfortable was the sarcastic remarks of Mr. and Mrs. Zhu. In Zhu's opinion, Yang Jialian should take care of his son, so he and his wife never helped take care of their son.
But anyone who has given birth knows that it is very hard to take care of a child 24 hours a day. What's more, although Zhu Jingdong has the intelligence of a 4-year-old child, he has the strength of an adult, which makes Yang Jialian even more miserable.
One day, Yang Jialian took Zhu Jingdong to the mountains to cut bamboo. When Yang Jialian piled up the cut bamboo into a pile and prepared to tie it up with a rope, Zhu Jingdong wanted to play with bamboo.
Yang Jialian was afraid that Zhu Jingdong would mess up the neat bamboo and make it difficult for her to tie it, so she didn't let him take it.
As a result, Zhu Jing lost her temper. He picked up a machete and slashed Yang Jialian's leg. Yang Jialian's leg was bleeding and she couldn't walk.
Fortunately, nearby villagers found out and took Yang Jialian to the hospital. Doctors said she needed some rest.
It's so sad
After the injury, Yang Jialian was grief-stricken. She felt that her efforts were not recognized by her parents-in-law, and she was ridiculed by her parents-in-law, and even guarded her like a prisoner. Now that her husband has violent tendencies, Yang Jialian filed for divorce. and returned to his parents' house to recuperate from his injuries.
When Mr. Zhu learned that his daughter-in-law was going to divorce, he stomped his feet and said, "I told you that she will divorce sooner or later." ”
Since that day, Mr. Zhu and his wife have been taking care of their son's diet and daily life. It didn't take long for them to understand that taking care of their son was not an easy task.
What surprised the two old men even more was that Zhu Jingdong seemed to have been looking for someone. Old man Zhu knew that his son was coming to find Yang Jialian.
As time passed, Mr. Zhu and his wife became more and more aware of the importance of their daughter-in-law, Yang Jialian, and also understood Yang Jialian's difficulties.
Subsequently, the old couple went to Yang Jialian's house to apologize to her and ask for Yang Jialian's forgiveness. The old couple also said that as long as Yang Jialian is willing to come back, the three of them will share the responsibility of taking care of Zhu Jingdong in the future.
Yang Jialian saw that what her father-in-law and mother-in-law said was sincere, and she still had deep feelings for Zhu Jingdong, so she agreed to return to Zhu's house when the injury was healed.
At this point, the farce caused by Yang Jialian's remarriage is over.
Conclusion:
In the author's opinion, after Zhu Jingdong was injured, Yang Jialian took great care of him, and this behavior is worthy of recognition.
However, Yang Jialian and Li Wenliang colluded to cover up people's eyes and ears, and staged a farce of remarrying their husbands, which was both unreasonable and illegal. However, they only received a donation of 600 yuan and did not cause any real harm, so it can only be said that it is harmless.
Li Wenliang said that he helped Yang Jialian because of his kinship, but he didn't know that he was confused by doing so, because not violating morality and not violating the law is the bottom line of doing things.
Mr. and Mrs. Zhu, who supported their daughter-in-law to bring her husband to remarry, were even more confused. In addition, after the couple's son was injured, it was selfish and unacceptable to let the daughter-in-law take care of them alone. Fortunately, after they took care of their son, they realized that their daughter-in-law's difficulty was not easy, and took the initiative to apologize, and the family was saved.
In life, there are often illnesses or accidents, and there are not a few people like Yang Jialian who can never leave. However, the life of "Yang Jialian" is not easy, and they need more understanding and understanding from those around them. Help can go far.