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"It doesn't matter if you choose the wrong one,
Everyone will do it wrong sometimes,
The most important thing is to start now,
Do the right thing. ”
I also often feel sorry for myself and make some wrong choices at certain times.
For example, why didn't you do that in the first place, or why you didn't choose that person in the first place.
Because of regret, I often feel like a failure, and because of it, I get stuck in a loop.
While dwelling on the regrets of the past, he messed up what he should have done.
I know that the matter is a foregone conclusion, but there is still no way to get out.
Then one day, I complained to a friend that I had failed, and he was surprised and asked me why I thought that.
I told him that he had made a wrong decision, and he laughed and told me that everyone has the wrong choice.
Then he told me that he had done a lot of wrong things before, but now that he thinks about it, since he can't go back, he can't change it, so forget it.
The most important thing is to do the right thing right now.
So I asked him, what is the right thing to do?
He replied to me, follow your heart and don't let outside voices dictate what kind of life you should live.
Even if you made the wrong choice before, it's too late now, at any time, as long as you start doing it and keep doing it.
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"Since a thousand times,
None of the people who asked for food asked for breakfast.
Because if only he could get up early,
He won't ask for food. ”
This sentence was said by Guo Degang, and Nan You felt that it made sense, so I saved it.
If a person is willing to work diligently, go to bed early and get up early, then life will not be so bad, and there is no need to beg on the streets.
If you can go to bed early and wake up early, you are better than most people, and as long as you wake up early and spend your time on valuable things, then you will get better and better.
Occasionally, I wonder when life will get better.
I also feel unlucky, why are others doing so well, but I am so miserable?
Then one day, I started to go to bed early and get up early, no longer staying up late thinking about it, and doing my best every day.
I suddenly realized that my life had changed for the better.
It turns out that thinking too much can really make you worse and worse.
You have to get up and do something, even if it's just tidying up your room, than to lie there and feel hopeless.
At the end of the day, it's never life that gets better, it's yourself.
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"I've been hurt so badly,
I can't get back that feeling.
Once betrayed,
Your heartache will not be healed. ”
The meaning of this sentence is that the broken rope has a knot no matter how it is connected.
Feelings are like this, stop saying anything about reconciliation, the moment you choose to hurt me, you should understand that we can't go back.
All that can be cured are skin injuries, and inner wounds will never go away. I didn't forgive you, I just thought, forget it.
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"If only you liked it yourself,
There is no need to ask others if it is good or not. ”
I bought a new dress a while ago, and I liked it very much, so I wore it and went out to meet a few friends.
One of my friends casually said, "I don't think you're very suitable for wearing this style of clothes."
The speaker had no intention, but the listener had a heart, and I felt very happy at the time.
When I got home, I changed the clothes and put them in the closet, and I didn't take them out for a while.
One day, I suddenly tidied up my wardrobe and rummaged through the closet to find this dress.
My family asked me, why haven't I seen you wear this dress a few times?
I replied that some people said that I didn't look good in it.
As a result, I was woken up by a sentence.
She said, what do you care what others say, you only buy it if you like it, it's good if you like it, why should you listen to what others say is good?
After hearing this, I immediately put on this dress again.
That's right, I bought it because I liked it, so why should I listen to others.
This is the case with many things in life, and when you listen to too many voices from the outside world, it is easy to forget your original intention.
Don't ask others if they are good or not, ask yourself if you like it or not.
Each has its own eyes, and everyone's aesthetic is different, but your life is for yourself, and there is no need to live in the eyes of others.
You really don't have that many viewers, just make yourself happy.
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"You should-
Attracted by the way a person's life looks,
And not what it looks like on social software. ”
In this era of developed Internet, many people talk about unrealistic love, just because they can talk on social software, they feel that two people are in love.
However, many people stand from a distance and think that he is very good, and when you look closer, you realize that it is not what you like.
What I mean is that when you fall in love, don't talk about it online, but extend it from the Internet to real life, to meet, to get along, and to observe what a person looks like in real life.
After all, what most people show on social software is the side he wants you to see the most.
Most of the time, what you like is just the other half you fantasize about through social media.
Be sure to meet early.
Then in real life, to feel a person's warmth and coldness, that is the truth.