Where did you take your baby to play during the holidays?
Look at the photos and videos posted by everyone in the circle of friends, some go to Disney happy, some go to the sea to feel the sea breeze, play in the sand, and go to Henan to watch the lively ..... What a joy!
However, I didn't go anywhere at home, I didn't have the slightest desire to go out, and I didn't like people to go out.
I don't know if there are many middle-aged mothers like me?
I was afraid of going out to "jam" because of the previous holidays: afraid of traffic jams, afraid of "jamming people"!
It usually takes an hour to travel, and it takes at least two hours to travel during the holidays, or even more, and it takes at least one day to go to places that can be played in half a day......
In other words, the time cost is that the experience is particularly poor!
I'm out to have fun, to experience the beautiful scenery and food, not to add "blockage"~
I remember when my daughter was more than four years old, during the National Day holiday, several of our good friends took the children to the Linyi Underground Grand Canyon and karst cave.
We arrived at the hotel one night early and left at 8:00 the next morning, which was plenty of time to plan.
As a result, the road to the scenic spot is unusually congested, from the hotel to the scenic spot is obviously about half an hour away, we walked for more than two hours, not to the location, the mood is a little not beautiful.
At that time, there was no online ticket booking, and it took more than an hour just to queue up to buy tickets. The men lined up to buy tickets, the women and their children were hungry outside in the sun, and the children finally got tired of waiting.
Anyway, by the time we entered the attraction, it was already past 12 noon.
The cave is quite cool and the scenery is good, but the crowd makes it impossible to see many places carefully, and the road is very narrow in some places, and it is squeezed to the side from time to time, and the water on the road is often slippery, which feels a little dangerous.
After I came back from that time, I vowed that I would never go out on May Day and November again!
Over the years, I have never traveled long distances during similar small holidays, and I can live happily at home with my baby. Summed up a few more meaningful vacation experience, in fact, the holiday does not go to crowded scenic spots, you can also take the baby to see.
01. Take the baby to the countryside to play
Take your children to the woods and fields in the countryside for a day: digging wild vegetables, having a picnic, breathing the pure natural air, and experiencing the rough life, both adults and children are happy.
If there are close relatives in the rural hometown, it will be more perfect if you take the opportunity to contact your feelings and taste the family meal.
02. Go to exercise
If I used to have an educational philosophy that was biased: as long as I did well in my studies, nothing else would be a problem. Well, I'm now more inclined to: as long as you're in good health, nothing else is a problem.
I want my children to build a long-term favorite sport that requires endurance, not only to improve their physical fitness, but also to develop perseverance, such as climbing mountains and cycling.
It is only fitting that such a long exercise can be fully practiced with such a holiday.
03. "Reverse" tourism
If the kids are keen to join in the fun, I'll pick the last day of the holiday for a short excursion.
Because according to reasoning: on the last day of the holiday, most people are on their way home, or go home a day early to make up their children's homework.
It turns out that going to the attractions on the last day of the holiday is really not crowded. I took my children to Fangte on October 7th, and there was no need to queue up for each project, and I also went to the beach, and the flow of people is a fraction of the flow of people during the holiday.
Haha, don't be too cool to play!
04. Have a dinner with friends and girlfriends
The holiday is always more leisurely, and friends and girlfriends who have not been able to get together during the Spring Festival can choose to get together during this time period.
It's beautiful to cook a few home-cooked meals at home, or go to an outdoor barbecue and have a relaxed and happy chat.
05. Watch a movie, or stay at home and watch a documentary
I usually collect those documentaries, and I can't find a lot of time to watch them with my children.
I've long wanted to "seduce" my son to watch a few Hayao Miyazaki anime, and this holiday must be as desired.
If you have a good collection of good movies that you want to watch with your baby but can't do so, watch them with your baby during the holidays.
06. Make a break at home
This holiday is just the time of the handover of spring and summer, and you can completely put away winter and spring clothes, so that summer clothes can shine brightly.
Let those who have not worn clothes and shoes for a few years should retire and give up happily~
Tidying up the wardrobe is also a great sense of accomplishment.
A few years ago, I didn't want to join in the fun during the holidays, but now that I'm older, I don't want to toss anymore, and I feel that the so-called "seeing the world" is better than playing at home.
Writer Zhang Xiaoxian once said:
Eating light food, living a simple life, lowering your desires a little, lowering a little, but still cherishing expectations, dreams, and love, such days are happy days.
It feels like I'm getting closer to a day like this, hee-hee......
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Wanqiu talks about parenting, the mother of the two babies who loves to learn and think, welcome to pay attention, complain about the chickens and dogs that raise babies together, share the happiness of raising babies, and summarize the lessons of raising babies.