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My name is Li Juan, I am an ordinary woman, my story may not be special, but it carries the contradictions and struggles of countless families. I am a member of an ordinary family, my parents are farmers, and my life is plain and stable. When I was in my early twenties, I met the love of my life, his name was Daniel Zhang, he was a carpenter, he was very good at craftsmanship and very practical people. We fell in love for two years and finally entered the palace of marriage. However, I had no idea that this marriage would be one of the hardest challenges of my life.
After getting married, I found out that my mother-in-law Lin Xiufang is a very strong person. She controls everything in the house, and Daniel Zhang and I have almost no say. My mother-in-law always interfered in our lives under the pretext of "for the good of the family", and even my marriage with Daniel Zhang was not spared. She was dissatisfied with me, felt that I was not diligent enough, not filial enough, and often found fault with my words and deeds, which made me feel a lot of pressure.
However, the most difficult thing for me to accept is that my mother-in-law treats our daughter. After our daughter Xiaoli was born, I thought that my mother-in-law would love her like other grandmothers, but the opposite was true. As soon as my mother-in-law saw that Xiaoli was a girl, she began to complain that I didn't give birth to a boy, saying that girls can't pass on the family and can't continue the incense. Her attitude towards Xiaoli is chilling, and she is even obviously sneering at her at times. Daniel Zhang and I tried to communicate with my mother-in-law in the hope that she would change her attitude towards Xiaoli, but she ignored it and even threatened to divorce us and let Xiaoli and me leave the house.
It was a suffocating one, and I felt like I was trapped in a cage from which I could not escape. I tried to be a good wife and a good mother, but my mother-in-law's attitude made me feel exhausted. I hope to give Xiaoli a warm and happy home, but I can't do it because I can't change my mother-in-law's attitude towards us.
In this atmosphere, I began to gradually become negative and lost hope for the future. My relationship with Daniel Zhang also began to crack, and we often quarreled over my mother-in-law's affairs, and sometimes we couldn't even eat dinner. I felt forced to choose between my mother-in-law and my own family. But I knew that whichever one I chose, it meant that I would lose something.
Daniel Zhang and I have experienced many quarrels and run-ins, and we both feel that this is not the way to go. Finally, one day, I decided to have a good talk with my mother-in-law, hoping to convince her to change her attitude towards Xiaoli.
"Mom, I want to talk to you about something. I said to my mother-in-law.
My mother-in-law looked at me and nodded indifferently, "You say." ”
I took a deep breath and tried to keep my composure, "I know you've always been cold to Xiaoli, but she's our daughter after all, and I hope you can care more about her and don't always treat her like this." ”
The mother-in-law sneered, "Do you think I don't care about her? I just think that girls are useless, and if they marry in the future, they will be someone else's person, unlike boys who can continue the incense." ”
When I heard this, I felt very angry, but I tried to control my emotions, "However, Xiaoli is also our child, and I want her to feel warm and loved in this family." ”
The mother-in-law shook her head, "You young people are not sensible, and you always think about these illusory things. When you get older, you will know that boys are the pillars of the family. ”
I was very disappointed and I tried to convince my mother-in-law, but she was still stubborn. I knew that this conversation was just in vain, but I still had a glimmer of hope that my mother-in-law would change.
However, things didn't go my way. The mother-in-law is still cold to Xiaoli, and sometimes even more mean. I felt so desperate, I didn't know what to do, I felt powerless to change the situation for this family.
Under such circumstances, I began to think about leaving the family and leaving with Xiaoli. I knew it would be very painful for Daniel Zhang to do so, but I felt like I had no other choice. I can't let Xiaoli grow up in such an environment, I have to find a better home for her.
I talked to Daniel Zhang about it, and he was so shocked that he couldn't even believe that I would make such a decision. He advised me to think again, but I knew I had made up my mind. I can't let Xiaoli get hurt, I have to protect her.
Eventually, Xiaoli and I left Daniel Zhang's home and started our new life. I know it's going to be a tough road, but I'm willing to make any sacrifice for Lily. I believe that as long as we are together, we will be able to overcome all difficulties.
After leaving Daniel Zhang's home, I took Xiaoli to rent a small room and started our new life. At first, I felt very lonely and helpless, and I didn't know how to face the future. However, when I saw Xiaoli's innocent smile, I felt that I had the motivation and courage to face all difficulties.
I started working hard to support both of us. I found a job as a housekeeper, and although it was hard, I felt that as long as I could support Xiaoli, everything was worth it. Although Xiaoli is still very young, she is very sensible and often helps me with some housework, which makes me feel that I am not alone.
Although our lives are hard, our feelings are getting deeper and deeper. Every night, I would accompany Xiaoli to read books, tell stories, and listen to her talk. I think it was the happiest moment of my life and I really feel very lucky to have such a lovely daughter.
However, I know that such happiness is fragile. I know that our lives are still full of uncertainties, and I don't know what the future holds. However, I am not afraid, because I know that as long as I am with Xiaoli, I will definitely be able to get through all the difficulties.
However, I did not expect that the challenges ahead would be even more difficult than I had imagined. One day, I received a letter from Daniel Zhang to me. I opened it and saw that it was written with his thoughts and apologies for me and Xiaoli. He said that he regretted not protecting us in the first place, and he was willing to let go of everything about his mother-in-law and be with us again. I looked at the letter with mixed feelings, and I didn't know what to do.
I discussed this matter with Xiaoli, and Xiaoli said that she really wanted to be with her father, and she felt that it would be more complete to have a father in the family. When I heard this, I was very conflicted, and I didn't know what to do. I remembered why I left in the first place, and I was worried that if Daniel Zhang and I were back together, something similar would happen in the future. However, I can't bear to let Xiaoli lose a complete family.
Eventually, I decided to meet Daniel Zhang and have a good talk. I'd like to hear his thoughts and see if he really has changed. I took Xiaoli to the place agreed with Daniel Zhang, and my heart was full of anticipation and anxiety. I don't know what will happen at this meeting, but I hope to be able to get an answer.
Xiaoli and I came to the place agreed with Daniel Zhang, and we were nervous. We waited there for a while, and finally saw Daniel Zhang. When he saw us, he had a happy expression on his face, and I felt a little more relaxed.
"Juan, Xiaoli, you are here. Daniel Zhang walked over with a smile on his face.
I looked at him, my heart was full of mixed emotions, and I didn't know how to speak. Eventually, I decided to let Xiaoli talk to him first.
"Hello Dad. Xiaoli said shyly to Daniel Zhang.
Daniel Zhang squatted down and looked at Xiaoli gently, "Xiaoli, Dad misses you very much, are you willing to go home with Dad?"
Xiaoli nodded, her eyes flashing with anticipation, "Well, I want to go home with my father." ”
I watched this scene and felt a little moved in my heart. I know Xiaoli really wants to be with her father, and I can't bear to let her lose this opportunity. So, I decided to have a good talk with Daniel Zhang.
"Daniel Zhang, things have passed between us for a long time, and I don't want to go back to my old life. I said to him.
When Daniel Zhang heard my words, a disappointed expression appeared on his face, "Juan, I know that I didn't do well enough, but I really regret it, I am willing to change and start again." ”
I looked at him with a sense of conflict. I knew he had changed, but I still couldn't fully believe him. I thought about it for a while and finally made a decision.
"Well, we can give it a try. I said to him, "But if there are any problems later, I will not hesitate to leave." ”
When Daniel Zhang heard my words, a happy expression appeared on his face, "Juan, thank you, I will definitely cherish this opportunity." ”
I looked at him and breathed a sigh of relief. I know it's going to be a tough road, but I'm willing to make any sacrifice for Lily. I believe that as long as we are together, we will be able to overcome all difficulties.
We decided to start over, and Xiaoli and I moved back to Daniel Zhang's house. At first, I felt a little uncomfortable, I didn't know how to face my mother-in-law, I didn't know how to get along with her.
However, to my surprise, my mother-in-law seems to have changed as well. Her attitude towards Xiaoli has become much gentler, and she often buys her some small gifts and cares about her life and study. I don't know if she really changed, but I still choose to believe her.
My relationship with Daniel Zhang gradually improved, and we began to learn to respect and understand each other. We discussed together how to give Xiaoli a better future, and spent many happy times together. I feel blessed and I feel like it's all worth it.
However, the happy days did not last long. One day, I received a letter from my parents. The letter said that they were unwell and wanted me to come home and have a look. After reading the letter, my heart was full of anxiety and worry. I don't know what to do, I don't know whether to stay here with Daniel Zhang and Xiaoli, or go back to visit my parents.
Eventually, I decided to discuss it with Daniel Zhang. I felt like he would understand my choice. I found Daniel Zhang and told him the contents of the letter.
"Daniel Zhang, my parents are unwell and I want to go back to see them. I said to him.
After listening to my words, Daniel Zhang's face was a little heavy, "Juan, are you sure you want to go back?" I can accompany you." ”
I shook my head, "No, I want to go alone." I feel like I should be on my own. ”
Daniel Zhang was silent for a while, and finally nodded, "Well, I understand your choice." You have to be safe and come back as soon as possible. ”
I looked at him with gratitude, "Thank you, Daniel Zhang." I will be back as soon as possible. ”
Xiaoli and I packed our bags and prepared to go back to visit our parents. I knew it was going to be hard, but I felt like I had to go. I can't leave my parents alone with this kind of pressure, I have to go back and be there for them. I'm sure everything will be fine as long as I go back.
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