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In today's era, divorce is a very common thing, especially the stars in the entertainment industry, and the news of divorce is frequently reported.
But there is such a hostess, she has married a teacher, a rich second generation and a singer Sun Nan in just over ten years, and the richness of her emotional life is jaw-dropping, and Sun Nan even did not hesitate to give up his wife and a pair of children who have been married for ten years for her.
What kind of charm does she have, and what kind of life does she live now?
Mysterious wedding ceremony
One day in March 2009, two guests suddenly arrived at the Zhongjing Hotel in Fuyang City, hoping to book a wedding banquet three days later, which made the staff feel very strange, after all, wedding banquets are usually booked more than 15 days in advance.
Fortunately, there are still seats available on the day of the guests' reservations, and the hotel staff also selected rooms and venues for the guests after a short period of busyness, and they are also looking forward to who the two couples who are about to enter the marriage hall will be.
However, to the surprise of the hotel staff, the guests did not decorate the venue after booking the wedding, nor did they place water signs to welcome the guests, and even required the curtains in each room to be drawn tightly to prevent anything from being seen from the outside.
It wasn't until the day of the wedding that they saw the appearance of the two newlyweds, the man turned out to be Sun Nan, the "first brother in the music world" at that time, and saw him wearing a black suit, with the corsage of the "groom" pinned to his chest and toasting relatives and friends with the bride.
The atmosphere at the scene was not at all lively and festive when getting married, but it was very low-key, and even when a guest wanted to take a photo, he was directly stopped by Sun Nan and could not leave any group photos.
It turned out that this was the wedding of Sun Nan and his second wife Pan Wei, the two first met on the golf course and had feelings, and Sun Nan decided to divorce Mai Hongmei, who had been married for nine years, for her sake.
When the two got married, Sun Nan and his ex-wife divorced for less than three months, so in order not to attract the attention of the media and paparazzi, they chose to hold such a low-key wedding.
Pan Wei didn't care about this, after all, it was not the first time she had attended her wedding.
divorced twice, but still does not change his obsession with love
Pan Wei has always had a good eloquence under the guidance of her parents, and she has responded well on the spot, so she has become an announcer at the school radio station since she was in high school, and then she focused on broadcasting and hosting.
Her work is also very smooth, after graduation, she went to Fuyang as an announcer, and then went to Zhuhai TV and Anhui TV, and also has good work results.
When Tourism Satellite TV recruited a host for the first time, she was successfully admitted with her excellent strength, and she was mainly responsible for golf programs.
As early as 20 years old, she chose to marry for love, married to a respected teacher, and the two gave birth to a daughter soon after marriage.
With a talented and beautiful husband and wife and a happy family, Pan Wei has become the object of envy of many people.
But Pan Wei is not satisfied with such a dull life, she has a strong sense of professionalism, she always puts more energy into work, and neglects to care about her husband and daughter.
In the long run, there were more and more conflicts between husband and wife, and quarrels often broke out between the two, and finally the two came to the end of divorce, and the daughter chose to live with her father because of her weak relationship.
Although this marriage hurt Pan Wei very much, she did not give up the pursuit of love, but she had higher requirements in the criteria for choosing a mate.
After the divorce, she focused more on her work, and because she hosted a golf show, she had the opportunity to meet some of the diamond kings, and her encounter with her second husband was on the golf course.
It was a rich second generation who had just returned from studying abroad, he was obsessed with the sport of golf, and he fell in love with her at first sight and launched a fierce pursuit of hosting the show, and even learned that she was divorced once and still did not change her original intention.
After getting along for a period of time, Pan Wei was also conquered by the romance and tolerance of this rich second generation, so she agreed to the other party's marriage proposal and started her second marriage.
It's just that when the sweetness of love is replaced by the firewood, rice, oil and salt of life, everything is no longer so beautiful, and the marriage between the two did not last too long before it came to the end of divorce again.
There are also various speculations about the reason for their divorce, and it is reported that it is because Pan Wei's popularity is so good, which makes the rich second generation who hoped that she can be a good wife very dissatisfied, and finally led to the breakdown of their marriage.
But Pan Wei has never given any explanation for this, and as for the specific reason, I am afraid that only the parties know best.
These two failed marriages once made Pan Wei lose confidence in marriage, and even planned to live this life alone, but with the appearance of Sun Nan, everything has changed dramatically.
Because of the golf relationship, Sun Nan abandoned his wife and children for love
As China's "first brother in the music scene", Sun Nan's career is undoubtedly very successful, with many representative works such as "You Come Back" and "Thousand Autumns", and has also won the Best Male Singer Award many times.
However, compared with his consistent approach to music, he seems to be much richer in terms of feelings, and he gave up his first love for eleven years in order to marry Mai Hongmei.
But after giving birth to a pair of lovely children with Mai Hongmei, the relationship between the two also ushered in a crisis.
Mai Hongmei gave up her career in order to take care of her family, while Sun Nan kept shuttling between concerts and parties, and there were fewer and fewer common topics between husband and wife.
As the distance between each other gets farther and farther away, it seems that only quarrels and resentment are left between the husband and wife, and their relationship begins to light up red. In order to relieve the depression in his heart, Sun Nan chose to play golf.
It was this decision that led him to meet Pan Wei, as a golf show host, Pan Wei often took advantage of his off-duty time to come to the course to play two shots, so the two also got in touch.
Because of their emotional experiences, the two have endless common topics, and Sun Nan also vented the depression in her heart under her comfort.
But their relationship was soon discovered by a pervasive journalist who made a lot of noise.
In the face of her husband's betrayal, Mai Hongmei, who was already exhausted, bravely chose to divorce, while Sun Nan chose to leave the house out of guilt, and the family's common property and a pair of children were left to his ex-wife.
Soon after, he married Pan Wei, and together they bought a million-dollar villa in Canghai, Dali, as a place for retirement in the future. Soon after getting married, the two gave birth to a daughter, and the family lived happily and happily.
Pan Wei fell in love with interior decoration and cooking after marriage, she would design her own home decoration drawings and submit them to professional home magazines, which always received high praise, and she usually liked to cook by herself and cook a big table of delicious meals for her family.
Such a life of a wife and children on the kang also made Sun Nan change his previous machismo and began to become a "daughter slave" and a "wife slave".
Not only has he publicly praised his wife in front of the media many times: "Our teacher Pan can do everything, skiing, golfing, cooking and washing clothes. She's my harbor. ”
He also put more energy into taking care of his wife and daughter, and even claimed that he "felt guilty when he came home late." ”
With her support, Sun Nan has always adhered to her music dream, not only often participating in major music programs, but also registering her own short video account to share her daily work.
In December 2023, he and Chen Chusheng sang a cover of "The Nameless Man" on the stage of "The Sound of Life", and sang and cried countless listeners with only three lyrics, and it is still a song that many people love very much.
On February 29, he posted a Vlog of his participation in the "Golden Melody Festival", sharing some behind-the-scenes footage of the rehearsal with everyone, and he was also praised by many netizens for his serious work.
Epilogue:
Although Sun Nan and Pan Wei are not husband and wife from the beginning, they have reaped happiness and joy in more than ten years of getting along, sweeping away the haze left by the failure of their previous marriage, such a husband and wife life is enviable.
Their story also proves once again that only the feet know whether the shoes are comfortable or not, and only the right couple can have a happy family. I also hope that they can maintain their current happy life in the future.
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The information source of this article comes from: [Beijing Evening News] [Jinling Evening News] [Chengdu Business Daily] [Phoenix Network] [Douyin Sun Nan]