In the journey of life, we often hear that some men choose to leave their wives who have been suffering with them after they have risen to prominence.
This phenomenon of "abandoning the wife of the chaff" makes people feel sad and regretful. So, what kind of man is more likely to make such a choice when he has money?
1. Strong vanity and the pursuit of fame and fortune
Such men often have a strong sense of vanity, they crave social recognition and respect, and they pursue fame and fortune.
In the pursuit of success, they may neglect communication and connection with their family members or even see them as a stumbling block to their own success.
When they finally realize their dreams and have a certain wealth and status, they may feel that their wives are no longer worthy of them, so they choose to leave.
As the Russian writer Fyodor Dostoevsky said, "Vanity is the sorrow of mankind." ”
This pathos is especially evident in men who have money.
In order to pursue higher social status and more wealth, they do not hesitate to sacrifice their relationship with their families.
Imagine if a man is busy with work all day and rarely goes home to spend time with his wife and children, when he makes a lot of money one day, he may feel that the wife who has paid silently at home can no longer keep up with his pace, so he has the idea of "wife swapping".
2. Lack of sense of responsibility and evasion of family responsibilities
Some men, when they have money, may feel that family responsibilities have become a burden.
They may choose to shirk these responsibilities, leave family problems behind, or even place the blame on their wives.
When they feel strong enough to no longer rely on their families, they may choose to leave.
U.S. President Abraham Lincoln once said, "A man must be held accountable for his actions." ”
However, such men choose to shirk their responsibilities and forget about the support and help of their families for their success.
It's like a man in the early days of his business, and his wife gave up her job to support him and take care of her family and children.
However, when he succeeded, he felt that these responsibilities belonged to his wife and had nothing to do with him.
In this state of mind, it is easy for him to have the idea of leaving.
3. Selfishness and disregard for the feelings of others
Selfish men tend to focus only on their own interests and needs, without regard for the feelings of others.
After having money, they may focus more on their own pleasure and fulfillment and neglect their responsibilities and care for their family.
They may become obsessed with their own world and see their wives as dispensable.
The French writer Romain Rolland once said, "Selfishness is man's greatest enemy." ”
Such men, after having money, are more likely to be driven by selfishness and forget their commitments and responsibilities to their families.
Colloquial explanations
This kind of man may become more selfish when he has money.
They may buy luxury cars, mansions, and expensive luxuries to satisfy their vanity, but are not willing to pay more for their families.
In their world, the wife may be just an accessory, ready to be replaced.
Fourth, lack of loyalty, easy to be tempted by the outside world
Fidelity is a very important part of the marriage relationship.
However, some men, after they have money, may be tempted by the outside world because of their lack of loyalty.
They may encounter more opportunities and options that can lead to wavering feelings for their wives.
In the face of temptation, they may choose to betray their wives and families.
The ancient Greek philosopher Plato once said, "Loyalty is the cornerstone of love." ”
However, after such men have money, they may shake the foundation of their love because of their lack of loyalty.
Men who have money may encounter more beauties and seductions.
If they lack sufficient concentration and self-control, they are easily influenced by these temptations and betray their wives and families.
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From the above analysis, we can see that men with habits such as vanity, lack of responsibility, selfishness, and lack of loyalty are more likely to abandon their bad wives when they have money.
These habits not only affect their marital relationship and family happiness, but also make them lose their basic responsibility and responsibility as a man.
However, we should also recognize that everyone's upbringing and experience is different, and these habits don't happen overnight.
Therefore, in the face of such a man, we should maintain a rational and objective attitude and not make judgments and accusations easily.
At the same time, we should also encourage these men to reflect on their own behavior and mentality, and strive to correct their shortcomings and deficiencies to become a better person.
In closing, I would like to say that marriage is a precious gift that needs to be cared for and cherished with our hearts.
Whether we are rich or poor, we should maintain a faithful and responsible sense of our marriage and face the challenges and difficulties of life together. Only in this way can we truly have a happy family and life.