#头条创作挑战赛#
May the parents of the world be in good health, free from illness and disaster, and live a long life
Since ancient times, folk wisdom has been condensed into a sentence: "Filial piety comes first, and the grace of birth and nurturing is incomparably deep." This reveals the cornerstone position of filial piety in morality and ethics, and the kindness of childbirth and nurturing is comparable to the sky.
Filial piety is the foundation of a personality, like the root of a big tree, deeply rooted in the soil, and respect is the fundamental criterion for living in the world, like the foundation of the trunk of a tree, supporting the towering edifice of personality. Although there is no uniform standard answer to the way of filial piety, and there is no immutable form of expression, what it contains is the deep respect and meticulous care that children have for their parents.
And the real filial piety is not limited to material gifts, such as monetary gifts, etc., but is reflected in the following three aspects, which is the most intimate and precious feedback to parents.
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Tolerance and thoughtfulness are the warmest forms of love
There is a sentence in "Les Miserables": "Children and parents are like trees that are separated, the branches are not separated from the same trunk, but the longer they grow, the farther apart they are." ”
Back in the Spring and Autumn Period, Confucius was a man of high feet, and in his early years, his family was in a difficult situation, and he could only survive on coarse grains and wild vegetables every day. Parents often sigh and sigh when faced with food that is difficult to swallow, full of worry.
When the parents in their twilight years longed to taste the fragrance of rice, this wish was like a heavy stone mill, repeatedly crushing their hearts, and even suffering from excessive thoughts. However, the immature Zilu did not complain because of this, but actively sought ways to realize his parents' wishes with his perseverance.
After careful consideration, Zilu resolutely decided to cross the mountains and mountains and travel to a distant market to buy rice. He walked hundreds of miles and went through hardships, and finally bought a bag of precious rice and returned home with this heavy filial piety. Seeing this, the parents were deeply moved, and the joy in their hearts was like a good medicine, and the disease was reduced by half.
Since then, Zilu has embarked on a long road of buying rice day after day, rain or shine, without the slightest complaint. True filial piety does not lie in the priceless gifts given to parents, but in the attention to details of life and a keen insight into the needs of parents.
In this vast world, there is no absolute perfect parent, but children can continue to improve themselves and forge ahead. Accepting and understanding everything about your parents is a kind of in-depth life cultivation in itself.
We should not stand on the foundation built by our parents, and after enjoying the prosperity of the world, we should cast a critical and indifferent gaze on them. The essence of life is often mundane and rustic.
Our families may not be able to keep up with us, but we can choose to turn around and be there for them. Warming the generation gap with the temperature of love, and filling the gap with understanding and tolerance, is the greatest wisdom that can be shown as a child.
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Pleasantness is the best attitude
I have heard a saying: "Raising that goes deep into the bones is not to lose your temper with those close to you." ”
In this world, there is a kind of upbringing, which is deep in the bone marrow, and that is to remain at peace in front of those closest to you.
External sleekness may make people comfortable in the world, but inner peace and kindness are truly valuable qualities.
Just like the writer Shi Tiesheng, after suffering a heavy physical blow, his emotions became capricious and even vented to his mother.
However, without his knowledge, the mother silently endured the pain of illness and her son's temper, and until the last moment of her life, she was still worried about her son's future.
The death of his mother made Shi Tiesheng deeply realize that stubbornness and stubbornness will only leave him with regret, but cannot bring any pride. He finally chose to express his life with words and became a well-known contemporary writer with disabilities, but the loss of his mother became an eternal pain in his heart.
Happiness does not lie in material abundance, but in family reunion and warm atmosphere.
No matter how rich life is, it cannot compare to the warmth brought by the laughter and laughter of family members, and no amount of money can replace the comfort of gentle words. The home is not a battlefield, nor is it an emotional trash can, but a harbor of love.
Let us be kind to our families and leave good emotions to them, so that the blessings of the family can be abundant and everything will go smoothly. Pleasant face is the best gift for parents.
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Attentive companionship is the most affectionate filial piety
"Life Can Come Back at Any Time" wrote: "Companionship is the best love, which can resist all the hardness of the world and warm all the years of life." ”
Simple companionship is the most reassuring for parents.
seems to be a prosaic companionship, but it often becomes the most stable sustenance in the hearts of parents. The story revolves around an old man with a pair of children, and after the death of his wife, he stays alone in the old mansion that bears the traces of time.
The children are busy with their own urban life, and it is rare to call once in ten days and a half months. During the festive season, they return home briefly, but after a few days they leave in a hurry. One day, when the son returned home in an emergency, he found that it was empty, and after searching around, he learned that the old man would spend a long time in the park every day until the sun went down.
Facing his son's questioning full of doubts and reproach: "Dad, why don't you stay at home all the time?" The old man responded leisurely: "I am alone at home, empty and lifeless, it is better to go to the park to enjoy the scenery and feel the fireworks in the world." ”
When his son further asked why he didn't want to move to the city, the old man couldn't help but sigh: "The hustle and bustle of the city is not as quiet and comfortable as this old house has brought me." ”
This remark caused the son to fall into deep reflection, it turned out that in their daily life, even when they were around the elderly, they ignored that vital companionship. Since then, the children have begun to return to their hometowns regularly to visit the elderly, and the lonely figure has gradually disappeared from the park benches.
Every companion in life is like a grain of sand in an hourglass, with an irreversible period. What we can do is to give our loved ones the most sincere and intimate companionship in a limited time, so that their later life is full of warmth and care.
Many times, some moments of life are like meteors across the night sky, once missed, it will create a lifetime of regrets, some people, a turn of distance, has been fixed as an eternal memory, and those times that we have not yet cherished are inadvertently quietly slipped into the future.
It is important to know that the world is changing rapidly, and tomorrow will not always be as long and broad as people wish.
Don't let the endless anticipation and watchfulness turn into a vain waiting, and don't let the tragedy of "the son wants to raise but the kiss doesn't wait" becomes a regret imprinted in the heart that cannot be erased.
While the years are still understated, even if the schedule is complicated and compact, you must know how to reserve a warm time for your family and reserve an exclusive place.
Back then, it was the strong and loving hands of our parents that supported us as toddlers, and now, when our parents enter their old age, the responsibility of accompanying them for a leisurely stroll has fallen on our shoulders.
Only by accompanying us with sincerity and patience can we interpret the most affectionate and lasting way of filial piety.
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True filial piety is not limited to material supply and satisfaction, but also lies in the care and comfort of the spiritual world.
These seemingly small and ordinary acts, their value cannot be measured by money, they are like bright stars, although small, but shining.
Just as Liu Bei said in "Romance of the Three Kingdoms": "Don't take good as small, don't do evil as small." ”
These words profoundly reveal the true meaning of filial piety, which is reflected in the bits and pieces of daily life, whether it is the mind of tolerance and understanding, or the thoughtful care, or the communication with the face, and the time of attentive companionship, it is the flow of love from shallow to deep, from the inside to the outside, and it is the warmest and deepest feedback to the parenting grace.
At the same time, we also sincerely pray that all parents in the world can be healthy, away from illness and disasters, and live a long life!