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Parents should not overestimate their status in the minds of their children, and do not wishfully think that their children love themselves and how inseparable they are. In fact, a considerable number of children have long wanted to leave, but they are forced to maintain a relationship with their parents due to financial pressure.
First, people's hearts are not ancient
More and more children are being immersed in Western culture, and more and more of them are acting contrary to traditional Chinese culture. The more a child grows, the more he is influenced by Western culture. The gradual distancing from children is not so much an accident as it is inevitable. Strangeness and alienation will intensify each other, and if left unchecked, strangeness and alienation will form a vicious circle.
Netizen message: I estimate that most of our generation is the last generation of filial people, I think today's children generally lack gratitude, and there are not a few selfish children. When I get old, it would be wishful thinking to expect my children to take care of me or serve me. Therefore, I will give up my illusions, take good care of my body, and please myself is the top priority.
Comments: I should think more about myself, plan for the worst, and prepare for the best, my children are fortunate to have a grateful heart, and my children are lost if they lack gratitude.
Second, the follow-up is weak
Although children can provide a steady stream of resources for their children when they are young, when their children enter the career development period, when parents do not have any resources to provide their children, children have to rely on their own efforts to work hard, during this period, children and parents intersect less and less, and some children will even complain that their parents do not provide resources.
Netizen message: I found that the reason why I was close to my children when I was a child was because I was able to provide resources for my children, after all, it was within my ability. When my children grew up, I could barely provide any resources for them, which may be the most important reason why my children are drifting away from me.
Comments: Parents who want to maintain a close relationship with their children as always, should provide different help at different times of their children's careers, especially during the critical period of their children's career development. If instead of providing the children with corresponding resources, they are dragging the children back, the results can be imagined.
Third, the situation is getting worse
The relationship with children in the present is the best relationship, and the relationship with children this year is the worst year with children in previous years, but it is the best year with children in the following years, and most people's relationship with children will deteriorate. For example, children are the same before they get married, and when they get married, they will be different, and there must be many people who feel the same way.
Netizen message: When my son was in college, I didn't call my son, and my son didn't call me. When my son got married and gave birth to a child, when I went to help my son take care of the child, there was another person beside my son who blew the wind in his ears, and a variety of unpleasantness occurred during the period, which caused my relationship with my son to be much worse than before, and I talked a lot of tears.
Comments: Cherish the current relationship with your son, don't be anxious and sad, don't be anxious and sad, maybe the relationship with your son at the moment is not the best compared to the relationship with your son in the future, only better.
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