I was born into an ordinary middle-class family. His father is a company employee, with a stable job and a more introverted and calm personality; The mother is a housewife, hot-tempered but careful. My parents have always had a good marriage, and they love me as an only child in their own way.
My name is Zhang Hao, 23 years old this year, I have been pampered by my parents since I was a child, and I have a cheerful and optimistic personality, but I also have some rebellious and willful problems. After graduating from university, I worked for a foreign-funded company, with a decent income and a more debauched lifestyle. Although my parents often preach, I always go my own way, and I never have much pressure about when to get married and start a family.
"Haohao, you're 23 years old, it's time to stabilize. My mother always told me, "Find a virtuous and generous girl and start a family." Look at your cousin, who is two years younger than you and already married and had children. The father chimed in, "Yes, you can't always go on like this." "
One day, I mustered up the courage to bring my girlfriend Zhao Li home as a guest. Zhao Li is a senior in our company, 43 years old this year, and is the head of our department. She is single, divorced, and has no children. We met at a company's annual meeting half a year ago, when she was peerless, and her red dress was even more beautiful and moving. Since then, I've had a crush on her for a long time.
"Mom and Dad, this is Sister Zhao Li, my girlfriend. I said a little nervously. Zhao Li smiled slightly, stretched out her hand and said, "Auntie, hello." "
When the parents looked at Zhao Li, she was already a middle-aged woman in her forties, and they were shocked. My mother's face turned pale, and she glared at me and said, "Zhang Hao, are you crazy? She's your mother! You've found a girlfriend who is older than me?"
The father couldn't help but shake his head and sighed: "Son, you really broke our hearts. A person of her age should have been your aunt's generation a long time ago, why did you fall in love with her?"
"What sincere feelings?!" Her mother interrupted Zhao Li's words, "Did you old woman lie to my son and seduce him?
I yelled at my mother angrily, "Mom, what are you talking about? Sister Zhao is a serious person, how can you insult her like this?"
"Serious person? She still hooks up with people of her age, what else is not serious?" Father also joined the argument.
After leaving my parents' house, I went back to my rented apartment alone, feeling extremely depressed. Zhao Li comforted me and said, "Don't be too sad, your parents' reaction is normal. Let me tell you about my past. "
"However, within a few years of our marriage, we had a rift. Zhao Li said helplessly, "He is busy with work and rarely stays at home, and we are drifting apart." In the end, because of his affair, we divorced. At that time, I felt that my life was ruined, but fortunately, the work of the company allowed me to rediscover the meaning and motivation of life. "
After listening to Zhao Li's story, I realized her strength and independence even more. I said, "Sister Zhao, I fell in love with you, not only because you are beautiful and moving, but more importantly, because you have the ability to take charge and are self-motivated. You are more assertive and courageous than most women your age. "
"You're still so young, why do you fall in love with me, a woman who is a round older than you?" Zhao Li asked. I smiled and said, "What does it matter about age? What matters is whether two people love each other and whether they have the same pursuit of life." Isn't that the greatest thing we all have in common is that we all want to succeed in our careers and have a passion for life?"
Zhao Li was moved by my words, and she shed tears, saying that she had never been understood so deeply. We were honest with each other and deepened our affection for each other.
The mother also softened her attitude: "Yes, at her age, she can survive independently and have a successful career, and she is a great woman." It's just that she's not young after all, and we're worried that your relationship won't last long. "
I said firmly, "Mom, you can rest assured. As long as Sister Zhao is willing to give me this opportunity, I will definitely cherish her and let her regain happiness in her old age. "
Although my parents had a new understanding of Zhao Li, they were still strongly opposed to our relationship. In addition to the too large age gap, they are also worried that Zhao Li will "eat his wife's cake".
Once, my parents invited my uncle and a few elders to do my work. Everyone has advised me to think twice.
The uncle said, "Haohao, you are the only son in the family, and you will have to pass on the family in the future." If you marry a woman of this age, you will be in trouble. "
My aunt also said, "Even if she is a good person, but after all, she is old, how can she have the energy to spend a long life with you?
The uncle was even more straightforward: "To put it simply, you were seduced by her money, right?
In the face of such strong opposition from my family, I became more and more determined to be with Zhao Li. I denounced how stupid and hurtful my family's abuse was, and Zhao Li's kindness to me was from the heart, not because of money.
I announced on the spot that I would marry Zhao Li no matter what, and vowed to share weal and sorrow with her. If the family can't accept it, then I will completely cut off the relationship and go alone.
When Zhao Li knew what I said, she felt very guilty and blamed herself. She cried and said to me, "Haohao, I don't want you to betray your family for me. You're too young, life is still long, and we may not really be fit together. "
But I insisted, "Sister Zhao, I've never been so sure. As long as you want, let's sail together and create a new life together. "
And just like that, we fell into a crisis of family breakup. My parents wept day and night, and they were so sad about my decision. They used to have high hopes for me to see me start a family, but I did such a "rebellious" thing.
My relatives were also in an uproar, and they dissuaded my parents one after another, thinking that I was confused by Zhao Li and must teach me a hard lesson. Some people even directly slandered Zhao Li as an "old fox" and "aunt honey" and other unpleasant words.
I saw Zhao Li being humiliated like this, and I felt guilty in my heart. "It's okay, I can understand their reaction," she said. Let's be apart for a while, so you can think it through. "
The night before we were about to separate, Zhao Li suddenly came to my house. At that time, only the parents were at home, and when they saw Zhao Li, they showed a displeased look on their faces.
Zhao Li took the initiative to kneel down, bowed solemnly to her parents, and said, "Mr. Zhang, Mrs. Wang, I came today to sincerely apologize to you. From the very beginning, I did not respect your opinion very well, and I should have thought twice. "
Her parents were taken aback by Zhao Li's actions and motioned for her to get up. Zhao Li continued: "I know that people of my age will definitely feel very troubled if they suddenly intervene in your family. But please believe that my feelings for Hao Hao are from the heart, and they are by no means confused. "
Seeing Zhao Li so sincere, the parents' expressions began to soften. The mother said: "Ms. Zhao, we have never doubted your feelings for Haohao, but the age gap is too big, and we will inevitably have concerns." "
The father also nodded and said, "That's right, we all hope that our son will be happy in the future." As long as you truly love each other, we elders will naturally not interfere too much. "
Zhao Li said excitedly: "Mr. Zhang, Mrs. Wang, I will definitely prove myself with actions! Don't worry, Haohao will definitely be happy!"
Seeing that my parents finally had the intention of accepting Zhao Li, I was relieved that I could finally be with my beloved justifiably.
From that day on, the parents completely changed their opinion of Zhao Li. They began to take the initiative to accept Zhao Li and take care of her as a family member.
Once, my mother whispered to me, "Haohao, I think you've found a good woman." She is sincere and kind, and she is infatuated with you, so I feel much more relieved when I look at it. "
My father also patted me on the shoulder and said, "Son, you have finally grown up." I'm proud of you to be able to fight for your feelings and take responsibility for your own life. You guys just stay together, I fully support you. "
Even our relatives, who were once strongly opposed, expressed their blessings when they saw that we had such deep feelings. They say that today's young people are pursuing freedom, and they are lucky to find their sweethearts; Moreover, Zhao Li is outstanding and elegant, and she is indeed a trustworthy person.
With the blessing of the whole family, Zhao Li and I were relieved and began to prepare for a new life.
After going through this family turmoil, I feel like I've finally grown up. In the past, I would only act willfully and recklessly, turning a blind eye to my parents' bitter words. But this time, I proved that I was able to take full responsibility for my decision.
I began to think seriously about how to manage my relationship with Zhao Li so that she could regain happiness in her old age. I am determined to always be considerate and loving to her, no matter what happens in the future.
At the same time, I also realized the importance of my career. Zhao Li is not only my lover, but also my life coach. Like her, I want to work hard and down-to-earth to lay a solid foundation for my future family.
With this belief, I worked harder at work, and gradually gained the importance and appreciation of my superiors. Zhao Li is always on the side to encourage me and support me. We are inseparable, like a pair of intimate comrades-in-arms, moving forward together towards a better future.
In this way, a year later, Zhao Li and I got married as scheduled. On the same day, we rented a villa estate and gathered with family and friends.
I walked up to the red carpet in black. Zhao Li was wearing a white lace dress and a pearl veil, beautiful and moving. She is 45 years old, but the years have not left any traces on her, and she is still the woman who is peerless.
Our parents hugged us with happy smiles on their faces. The mother couldn't hide the tears in the corners of her eyes and said, "Haohao, we have finally found a good daughter-in-law for you." You must be loving!"
All the relatives and friends were offering our blessings, and the scene was filled with joy.
After the wedding, Zhao Li and I started our new life. We rented a high-end apartment and had a good time.
Zhao Li always takes care of my daily life considerately, which makes me feel the warmth of home. At the same time, she encouraged me to continue to work hard and achieve my dreams.
We often drink afternoon tea together on the balcony, enjoy the scenery of the city, and look forward to a better future. I said that when I had earned enough money, I would take her around the world to see a different scenery in life. Zhao Li smiled and said, as long as you are with me, everywhere is heaven.
We support and encourage each other to move forward towards a common goal. I know that as long as I persevere, the future will be full of sunshine.
Life after marriage is full of small blessings. Every morning, Zhao Li would wake me up on time and prepare a nutritious breakfast for me. Sometimes she cooks a fragrant home-cooked meal that tastes simple but full of love.
Before going to work, we would always hug and kiss at the door and say "be careful on the road" to each other. Zhao Li always told me: "Work hard, but you also have to pay attention to your body." Be sure to eat at noon. "She is like a virtuous wife, always concerned about my safety.
On the weekends, we choose to go out. Sometimes it's going on an outing and getting some fresh air; Sometimes it's going to museums and art galleries to open your eyes. Zhao Li is always in high spirits, curious and eager to learn like a child. I enjoyed every little bit of being with her and felt more happy than ever.
Of course, our lives are not all smooth sailing. Sometimes the stress of work makes me anxious and depressed when I get home. Zhao Li can always find out my abnormality in time, and take the initiative to talk to me and comfort me.
Once, I was reprimanded by my boss for a mistake at work, and I came home depressed. Seeing this, Zhao Li didn't say anything, but silently served me a cup of hot tea. Then she sat down next to me and hugged me tenderly.
"Frustrations at work are inevitable, don't blame yourself too much. Zhao Li said, "You have done your best, as long as you learn from it, I believe you will be able to do better." I will always support you and believe in you. "
Under Zhao Li's explanation, I gradually let go of the depression in my heart. I realized that with the support and encouragement of her bosom love, no difficulties would stump me. We are like a whole, relying on each other and supporting each other.
Sometimes, I also take the initiative to share Zhao Li's troubles. As she gets older and has some minor health problems, I will take care of her daily life and try my best to make her feel comfortable. She often said that it was the greatest luck in her life to have a considerate husband like me.
Before you know it, we've come a long way. Zhao Li has entered the later years of her life, and her energy and physical strength are gradually declining. Sometimes she feels that she is still aging too fast.
I told her: "Sister Zhao, you will always be that gorgeous woman in my heart." Your years have long been etched in my life, and we are like two trees clinging to each other, never separated. "
When Zhao Li occasionally feels down due to physical exhaustion, I will hug her and comfort her as before. We will also recall the bits and pieces of acquaintance, acquaintance, and love back then, and relive the passionate love that once made our family oppose.
"The greatest luck in my life is to meet you. Zhao Li often said to me, "If I had to do it all over again, I would still choose you without hesitation." "
Although the age gap between me and Zhao Li is quite large, our love has not been opposed by our children. On the contrary, they were all genuinely happy for us.
My niece, Xiao Yun, was the first to show her support. She said that in this day and age, love is more important than anything else. As long as two people love each other, it is not a problem to have any age gap. She was very envious of our courage and persistence.
My cousin Xiao Ming also blessed us. He said, Aunt Zhao is so good, it is my honor to marry her. He hopes that in the future, he can also marry a virtuous and kind wife like Aunt Zhao.
Zhao Li's daughter Xiaoling is also completely accepting of our marriage. She said that since her mother's divorce, she has been worried that her mother's life will be lonely. Now with my son-in-law, she can finally let go of a big stone in her heart.
With the understanding and support of our children, Zhao Li and I have a more open love path. We often invite them to our home, and the family is happy. Watching the scene of everyone having fun, my heart is full of happiness.
In the years I have spent with Zhao Li, I have gained a new understanding of the meaning of life.
Once upon a time, I was just an arrogant young man who didn't have any goals in life. But since I met Zhao Li, she used her life experience to make me realize that the value of life does not lie in fame, fortune and status, but in whether it can bring warmth and strength to others.
Zhao Li influenced me with practical actions and made me realize that I need to use hard work and tenacity to control my life. As a result, I worked harder and harder, and soon I got ahead and achieved success in my career.
But more importantly, I learned to warm my life with love. I tried my best to take care of Zhao Li and let her regain happiness in her old age. We care for each other and encourage each other, just like two comrades-in-arms who fight side by side, overcoming all difficulties and tribulations with love.
It is precisely because of Zhao Li that I realize the preciousness of life. Every day, I strive to live the value of life and nourish the world with love. As a result, my life shone brightly, and I found meaning and direction that I had never seen before.