As the old saying goes, "if there is an old man in the family, if there is a treasure", in our life, there are a few real friends, just like pearls in the palm of the hand, which are extremely precious. Recently, Nobel laureate Mo Yan made me ponder for a while, he said: "The secret to a good relationship with the people around you is not to share any happy things." At first glance, this may seem a bit unusual, but when you look closely, it actually has a lot of meaning.
First of all, Mo Yan's words of "not basking in happiness" seem to tell us that true friendship is not better than anyone, but the silent understanding and support. It's like a cup of tea, no sugar added, naturally sweet, just like an old friend, no need to say much, tacitly. Sometimes, when we see the good of others, we are envious in our hearts, but if we can be happy for them, then we are true friends.
"People are valuable to know themselves, and they are more important to be content", the ancients said. When we share our happiness, it is like putting an invisible ruler in front of others, which may invisibly increase their stress. And if we choose to keep a low profile, we can make the people around us feel at ease, because they know that your happiness is not to show off, but to live the bits and pieces.
Of course, this does not mean that we should deliberately hide our joy, but only remind us to cherish the feelings of those around us while enjoying happiness. Sometimes, a warm hug, a simple greeting, touches the heart more than those flashy compliments.
Just like the world in Mo Yan's pen, it is full of the truth and complexity of human nature. As we pursue our personal achievements, we must also learn to listen to the stories of others and share their joys and sorrows. In this way, our circle of friends will be more harmonious and deeper.
So, the next time you can't help but want to post that "big news", you might as well think about whether you can also find a quiet corner and share that happiness with your friends that only you understand. Remember, true friendship is not based on how beautiful you are on stage, but on how many sincere friends you have behind you.
Finally, let's conclude with Mo Yan's words: "Life is like a marathon, you don't care about the starting point, but whether you can persevere to the end." The real victory is the indifference of being kind to others and having no quarrel with the world. "Like, forward, comment, let this wisdom and warmth, warm every you, me and him who have gone through the years.