Parenting: Foggy, looking for the light of the future
In this turbulent era, the concept of parenting seems to have become a foggy jungle, which makes people curious and confused. As soon as my two articles on marriage and parenting were published, they were like throwing stones into the water, causing ripples. Readers' messages are surging, and every word and sentence is like a cry and whisper in their hearts, shocking and deep.
Someone sighed: "In the current world, it seems that only rich people can give birth to babies willfully, and we poor people can't even support ourselves, how can we raise children?" But to be honest, parenting is really not just about money bags.
I think parenting is more of a spiritual inheritance and emotional exchange. Rich or poor, every family has its own unique parenting cheats, and every parent has endless expectations and love for their children. The predicament at hand is not a reason to give up, and social prejudice is not an excuse for self-limitation.
Of course, there are also people who are worried: "Today's children are facing various challenges from birth, and the pediatric departments in hospitals are overcrowded, and infectious diseases are frequent, so it is really difficult to raise a child." This worry is like a dark cloud pressing on my heart. Yes, the environment of modern society is indeed complex and changeable, and there are many challenges faced by children. But can this be a reason for us to give up on childbearing and lose faith in the future?
I think that's why we have to work harder. As parents, we have a responsibility to create a safer and healthier environment for our children to grow up. We must pay more attention to their physical and mental health and provide more scientific and reasonable parenting methods. At the same time, we must also actively participate in social welfare activities to promote social progress and create more possibilities for children's future.
However, there is also a voice that is particularly pessimistic: "This world is too difficult, and it is better for children to come to the world to suffer than not to give birth." "It's really heartbreaking. But to be honest, the world is full of challenges, but it is also full of wonders and hopes! Every child is unique in this world, and they have their own talents and potentials, waiting to be discovered and nurtured. We should not deprive them of their right to come into this world because we are afraid of difficulties, and we should not give up our expectations and confidence in them because of our own pessimism.
Parenting is like an adventure through the fog. In the process, we have to keep exploring, learning and growing. We must abandon those outdated concepts and prejudices, and face children's growth and changes with a more open and inclusive attitude. Guide them with love and wisdom so that they can move forward and surpass on the road of growth.
Then again, parenting is really not something that can be done by one person. We have to work together as a whole to do it. The government needs to increase investment in public services such as health care and education, and provide more support and assistance for families to raise children. All sectors of society should also actively participate in giving more care and help to children. Only in this way can we create a better future for our children.
In this process, we also have to maintain a calm mind. Parenting is not a competition, and there is no need to compare whose children are better and more successful. Every child is unique, and they have their own growth trajectory and life path. Respect their individuality and choices, and give them enough freedom and space to explore and grow. At the same time, we also have to adjust our mentality and expectations, and face the growth and changes of our children with a more peaceful mind.
Of course, there will be various challenges and difficulties along the way to parenting. Sometimes you may feel lost and helpless, and sometimes you may feel tired and frustrated. But as long as we have firm beliefs, move forward bravely, and continue to learn and improve, we will definitely be able to find our own way of parenting.
In this era of rapid change, the concept of parenting is constantly updated and evolved. We have to keep up with the pace of the times and constantly update our parenting knowledge and concepts. At the same time, you must also maintain a sensitive and delicate heart to feel the needs and emotional changes of children, and give them timely care and support.
Looking back on this journey of parenting, although it is full of difficulties and hardships, it is also full of hope and beauty. Whenever I see the smiling faces and progress of the children, I feel that all the efforts are worth it. These are the results of our joint efforts, and they are also our best expectations for the future.
Standing at the entrance to this misty jungle, looking at the unknown road ahead, although I was a little apprehensive and uneasy, I was also full of anticipation and longing. I believe that as long as we have firm beliefs, move forward bravely, and continue to learn and progress, we will be able to pass through this fog and find our own path of parenting.
So, are you ready to embark on this adventure through the fog? Are you ready to meet the challenges and surprises of the future? Let's move forward hand in hand and work hard for the future of children! In this era full of changes and challenges, use our love and wisdom to create a better and brighter future! Come on duck!