Time flies, time flies, and before I know it, I have reached middle age, and at this age, I have some new insights.
到了一定年龄，必须扔掉的四样东西：
After throwing away these four things, our lives will be easier and more comfortable.
无用的社交
The busyness of work and life makes us less and less time and energy to deal with meaningless social activities. Some people seem to be warm and friendly on the surface, but in fact, their hearts are like a glass through glass, and they can't communicate sincerely.
So we need to cherish our time and energy, and keep in touch with those who understand us, support us, and get along with us.
物质的追求
When he was young, he pursued material things, believing that he could be happy with enough money and material things. And when you reach a certain age, as you increase your experience, you gradually realize that spiritual abundance and satisfaction are more important. Therefore, we must begin to learn to let go of the pursuit of material things and pay more attention to our inner needs.
过去的执念
Maybe we all have a past, often remembering it, and our hearts are unwilling.
As time goes by, we come to understand that clinging to the past will only lead to misery.
Letting go of that obsession is like opening a window and letting in the sun.
对完美的追求
In the past, we all wanted to do everything to be the best and the most perfect, but the results were not satisfactory.
As we grow older, we gradually understand that perfection does not exist, and we must learn to accept our own shortcomings and flaws, and stop being so ourselves.
到了一定年龄，必须拥有的四样东西：
1，独立的经济能力
It's not that we have to be rich and rich, we have mountains of gold and silver, at least we can be self-sufficient and not dependent on others.
Those who have succeeded in starting a business at a young age, are they more free? Wealth is free, there are more choices, whether it is in the workplace or in life, they are more free!
2，丰富的社交圈子
As we get older, we come to realize the importance of networking. As mentioned earlier, we want to lose useless socialization, but it doesn't mean that we lose all social networking.
A healthy social circle not only brings us joy and support, but also provides resources and advice. It's always a good idea to make more friends and expand your social circle.
3，平和的心态
At a certain age, pressure and challenges are commonplace, work, family, children, ...... It's all worrying. Without a peace of mind, we can easily be overwhelmed by these pressures.
4，对学习的热情
The world is changing too fast, and if we don't learn, we will soon be eliminated by the times. I have always believed that we must maintain our thirst for knowledge and enthusiasm for learning in order to keep up with the pace of the times.
有了这四样东西，我们可以更好的应对生活的挑战
注：以上为个人观点