10 pieces of advice for people over 60 years old, pay attention to these suggestions, and live happily in old age.
At the age of 60, I have been working hard for most of my life, and my health is not as good as before. When it is time to rest, it is more important to have a happy and beautiful old age than anything else! Don't worry about the things you shouldn't care, and don't worry about the heart you shouldn't worry about!
At the age of 60, I have experienced strong winds and waves, and all kinds of people have seen them. There are a lot of things to think about, if you haven't lived to understand, everything still has to fight for a high level, then you must read this article carefully and keep it in mind!
First, worry less about children's affairs
There is an old saying that "children and grandchildren have their own children and grandchildren", and don't interfere in everything in the affairs of children. They have grown up and have their own judgments and decisions, and trust that they can live their lives well.
You think it is a kind of love, but it may be a kind of oppression and constraint for your children, and it will affect the relationship between both parties. Besides, you can't always follow your child to protect your child, you always have to face the world alone, it's better to let him grow up early.
Second, cherish the person next to you
After the age of 60, it is best for couples to accompany each other and take care of each other. Children have their own lives, and only your partner is the one who spends the most time with you. The so-called "young couples and old companions" are couples formed when they are teenagers, and they become interdependent and indispensable partners when they are old.
If you don't treat your wife well, no one will pour water for you when you lie in bed in the future, and you will have to watch your wife square dance with other old men in a wheelchair.
Third, don't be greedy
It's easy to suffer big losses if you're greedy for small gains, it's impossible to drop pies in the sky, and you can't be hit if you have them. Those with free stuff to give away are a little farther away. Start giving you a little sweetness, and after cheating your trust, you will be cheated out of all your money. Don't talk about other people's rights and wrongs
Fourth, do a good job in neighborly relations
As the saying goes, "distant relatives are not as good as close neighbors", and the older you are, the more you can understand. If there is an urgent matter, only the neighbors, especially the elderly who do not live with their children, must have a good relationship with the neighbors.
Fifth, don't preach to juniors
Don't feel that you have eaten more salt than you have eaten, and when you meet young people, you want to teach them as old people. When such an old man is seen, the young man will walk around! No one likes it
Sixth, develop good living habits
After the age of 60, good health is the most important, and having a good body can ensure the quality of life in old age. It is necessary to develop good habits in daily life. Achieve a reasonable diet, balanced nutrition, proper exercise, try to lose your temper, and get enough sleep.
Seventh, save some pension money
The elderly cannot rely entirely on their children for the elderly, save some money if they can, and don't spend it blindly. This is also to reduce the burden on children, and it is not easy for young people to make money. If you have money in your hand, you can also talk hard, and you can also send some red envelopes to your children during the New Year's holidays, and your children are also happy.
Eighth, listen to other people's opinions and don't be antiques
The biggest problem for some elderly people is stubbornness. The elderly should also keep pace with the times, accept more new ideas, listen to other people's ideas, don't talk about it, and don't be old antiques.
Ninth, have your own hobbies and friends
Elderly friends should also have their own hobbies and friends, otherwise they will feel lonely at home, and they will feel that their children snub you. Having your own interests and hobbies can enrich your later life. It's good to square dance and plant flowers.
Tenth, don't talk about other people's rights and wrongs
It's okay not to always inquire about other people's affairs, the east and the west are short. Every family has a scripture that is difficult to read, and when everyone has difficulties, don't gloat and fall into the ground.
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