The second sister-in-law and eldest daughter got married, and the brothers and sisters all contributed 2,000 yuan, and she gave 500 for everyone's errands, and her little daughter's marriage made her angry.
Last month, her second sister-in-law and little daughter in her hometown got married, and her family held a banquet in the countryside, she notified relatives, friends and siblings in advance and invited everyone to participate in the wedding banquet of her youngest daughter. On the day of her daughter's wedding, the banquet was about to open, and the second sister-in-law did not see the shadows of her two brothers and two sisters, nor did she find anyone else in her brother's sister's family. I only saw my old father, the only mother's family.
The second sister-in-law was originally looking for the old father to ask about the situation, but then she thought about it, and first went to see if there was any money on the gift list that they had paid, and she found that the two brothers and two sisters had already given the gift money, because their names were written on it, but this time, the two sisters and two brothers, each family only paid 500 yuan. The old father also contributed 500 yuan. At this time, the second sister-in-law was very angry, because at the beginning of the year, her mother's second brother's son got married, and her sister and brothers gave 2,000 yuan, and she herself gave 500 yuan.
The second sister-in-law felt that her mother's family looked down on her and her youngest daughter, and also looked down on their family. So she found her old father who was attending the wedding banquet, and she pulled the old father to a place where no one was there and asked angrily: "Dad, why didn't my brothers and sisters come to the wedding banquet this time?" The old father said in a flash: "Yes, they all happened to have no time to give me the money in advance, so I brought the gift money."
Obviously, the old father lied, knowing that the two sisters and the two brothers had time, but everyone didn't want to come. And the brothers and sisters are unanimously no longer willing to pay 2000 yuan, only willing to pay 500 yuan, the old father originally wanted to give 1000, but then thought that several of them would give 500, and it was not appropriate to pay 1000 by himself, so he followed 500 yuan.
The second sister-in-law said: "I don't have time to come, I don't have time, it's impossible, I just look down on me and my daughter, if people don't come, forget it, and pay 500 yuan, isn't this a humiliation for our mother?"
The second sister-in-law complained angrily, and the old father also said angrily: "Giving gift money is to express a little heart, 500 yuan is a lot, don't you give 500 yuan to others? Hearing this, the second sister-in-law said with annoyance: "It's not just a matter of 500 yuan, I'm just uncomfortable, before everyone was 2,000 yuan between brothers and sisters, before my eldest daughter got married, my brothers and sisters gave 2,000 yuan, why today I married my youngest daughter, they gave 500? And they don't come to the wedding banquet, they are obvious, look down on our family and daughter, have I offended them in the past two years?" They also discussed it, but if they didn't come, they would give 500 yuan, and I was so angry"!
When the old father heard the words of the second sister-in-law, he suddenly changed his face a little: "Are you still embarrassed to say? Don't you all pay 500 for your elder brothers and sisters and their children to get married? You can find out the reason for yourself! In the past, your sister was running errands at home, and you were always 2300, which time did you exceed 500?"
Now everyone's life is better, the relationship between brothers and sisters has not changed, that is, your second sister's children are married, and your brothers and sisters are out of 2000, and you give 500 yuan, as far as you know that the money is good, two years ago, your eldest daughter got married, and when your second sister's children got married, everyone gave 2000, even if your third sister's family also sent 2000, but at the beginning of this year, your second brother's son got married, and you only gave 500 yuan. In June this year, your third brother-in-law is gone, his family is doing a funeral, your family still gives 500 yuan, and everyone else has a share of 2,000 yuan, and what is even more odious is that you haven't gone yet, you say you don't have time, in fact, you have time, you don't want to go, your sister has something to do, you are afraid of taking a long time in the car, and you are afraid of spending the fare, isn't that so? How did I raise such a selfish daughter as you? Tell me about marrying your youngest daughter this time, why didn't your sisters and brothers give you 2,000 yuan?" The old father continued: "It is you who have chilled the hearts of your brothers and sisters, and it would be good if I said that they were willing to let me bring you 500 yuan as a gift! What are you still angry about, if your brothers and sisters do anything later, your family will send two hundred or three hundred, or simply not send it, anyway, your family is in front of your mother's family, and you don't want to suffer any loss in this life, what do you say you are still wronged? What else is there to be angry about?" After the old father said these words, he couldn't help but sigh and shook his head at the second sister-in-law.
Before leaving, he also said something like this: "If you have time, you should think about how you have treated your brothers and sisters over the years?
The second sister-in-law is the youngest child in the family, and her brothers and sisters in the family let her, and everything else is fine, but she is too calculating and stingy.
Many years ago, when they went back to their parents' house during the Spring Festival, their family had to earn a lot of red envelope money from their brothers and sisters' families, and everyone gave each child 100 or 200 red envelopes, but the second sister-in-law gave 50 red envelopes to other children.
After a long time, the brothers and sisters felt uncomfortable with her, and they simply didn't want to go home with her, and they didn't rush with her at that time to pay New Year's greetings, until the third brother-in-law died, she only gave 500 gifts, and the other was when the third sister was the most difficult, she was fine, but she didn't go home to accompany the third sister, she lied, and everyone felt even more cold.
Therefore, this brother and sister gave her a gift of 500, and everyone felt that it was a lot.
This is also the brother and sister are looking at the face of this parent, otherwise these sisters and brothers would not even give her the 500 yuan, she is so selfish and selfish, she would have broken off with her a long time ago.