The word divorce is not a derogatory term in contemporary terms, and many people feel that divorce is a farewell to the bad life of the past, a rebirth of oneself, and a new start of one's life.
And divorce is now very common among ordinary people, not to mention the entertainment industry, the marriage of celebrities is like playing, and today suddenly got married, and there will be news of the divorce of two people after it.
But it is not so easy for many ordinary people to divorce, because of lack of financial ability, many couples who were obviously very loving at the beginning ended up making trouble because of financial problems.
Therefore, celebrity divorce will attract everyone's attention, because everyone wants to dig deep into what is the reason for the divorce, such as Guan Xiumei, who was recently pushed to the hot search list because of divorce.
Reference source: Luzhong Morning News April 29, 2024 - She suddenly announced: Divorce!
Guan Xiumei divorced
Speaking of Guan Xiumei, many post-80s generations should be familiar with her, she is a crystal girl who has been popular all over the Internet in those years, and she has her demeanor in those bloody movies back then.
I don't know how many boys' lovers she used to be, just when everyone thought that her standard for finding a boyfriend should be very high, at least she would find someone who matched her ability, but she didn't expect Guan Xiumei to find a man 7 years younger than herself to marry.
If it weren't for the revelation that she and her little boyfriend divorced this time, many people might not know that she was married, after all, she didn't make a big deal when she got married, and she has always been very low-key.
Unknowingly, she has been with this man for nearly 20 years, but she has experienced so many years of ups and downs, but she still can't stand the test, and the marriage between the two still ends in failure.
It is not easy to maintain a marriage for more than 20 years, so the outside world is very surprised by their divorce, and everyone is speculating about the real reason for their divorce.
Guan Xiumei did not directly explain everyone's speculation in an interview, even when the reporter asked if there was a third party, she did not answer directly, but said that she has a lot of things to deal with now.
And said that this matter will pass, it will take time to find the answer, and he will learn to reconcile with himself.
Although the third question asked by the reporter was evaded.
But everyone can also know the reasons for the divorce of the two of them, but I believe that after her own thinking, Guan Xiumei will finally be able to figure it out by herself.
Reconcile with yourself
The marriage of more than 20 years came to an end at the age of 58, and the two of them had no children for so many years, and after the divorce, Guan Xiumei only lived alone.
However, judging from the interview process, Guan Xiumei doesn't seem to be worried about her future life, although she is alone, she doesn't have to worry about the economy at all.
She said that she was managing her own money in her early years, and her money was enough to spend, so she was not worried.
But after all, the two of them have gone through ups and downs for nearly 20 years, and they have some feelings, so like many divorced women, it takes time for her to heal.
And during the frustration of her relationship, the two cats of the small animals she fed herself also died, which was also a double blow to her.
However, she is still as low-key as ever, and except for her best friend, no one else knows her true situation.
It is enough to see that Guan Xiumei is still very calm and mature, no matter what kind of things she encounters, she digests them alone, and even sees that her state does not look like a divorced person at all, she began to start again and re-enter the circle to study.
Not only is she studying on the computer, but she is also frequently exposed to the outside world, finding her own interests and hobbies, and in her own words, she is now enjoying life.
Although she has no children and will be lonely in her old age, she can still live her own style and leave her brilliant side in this society, and I believe that with Guan Xiumei's efforts, she can reconnect with the circle.
And she recently participated in Zeng Zhiwei's birthday banquet and participated in many public welfare activities, it seems that she is preparing for the rhythm of her comeback, this positive attitude towards life is really worth learning from.
did not choose to give up on himself because he had reached a certain age to divorce, but was more confident than before, but while his attitude is worth affirming, he must also see many practical problems.
After all, she has been out of the circle for so many years, and there is a steady stream of newcomers pouring in, which is a very big challenge for her, and it is not easy to stand out among many newcomers.
After all, now is the era of more monks and less meat, whether in terms of popularity or appearance, she is lagging behind many new-generation actors, but we believe that hard work pays off, and I believe that Guan Xiumei can also bring you a lot of excellent works in the last few decades of her life.
Girls should be financially independent
From Guan Xiumei's life experience, we are told a very realistic truth, girls really need to be financially independent so that they will not be bound by marriage, and they can choose to leave when they want to leave, so as not to have trouble with each other because of economic problems.
Think about it carefully, Guan Xiumei was one of the best beauties in the entertainment industry back then, and it was not easy to find a rich one, but even if she found someone she liked in the end, she still couldn't go to the end.
The reason why she was able to part with each other very calmly was because she was very financially independent, even if she was old and had no children, she was not worried about her old age at all.
In addition to acting when she was young, she was often involved in real estate, stocks and art investment, and she herself also knew how to manage money, so it can be said that she was already living a budget-conscious life when she was young.
So when she gets old, she doesn't worry about herself at all.
Wearing nice clothes, pulling up a suitcase and going on a trip with her girlfriends or good friends, or going to the mall to buy things she likes, these are the results of her own efforts to pile up money.
Although it is a bit cheesy to talk about money, money can solve many, many problems in this society, even if she looks aging now, as long as she has money, she can still return to her youth through plastic surgery.
Even if she makes a comeback and returns to the entertainment industry and no one watches her works, she can find another way to invest in film and television works and become a director or screenwriter herself, and she can also mix well in this circle in her lifetime.
Therefore, no matter what time it is, women should be financially independent in order to have the courage and determination to change themselves.
Don't be afraid of divorce
No wonder Guan Xiumei's divorce can attract so much attention in society, just because many ordinary people are very afraid of divorce.
Especially many women, they always feel that after divorce, it is like smearing a stain on their lives, as if they are inferior in this society.
Therefore, many middle-aged women still dare not divorce even if their family life is no longer able to maintain themselves.
In fact, to put it bluntly, the concept is very rotten and does not consider itself. Marriage is not a necessity on everyone's life path, only in the right person and time is worth it, in order to find the most real and happy marriage.
Once you find that you have many problems in your married life, you must give up decisively, and don't delay your better life because of marriage. Don't think that divorce is a terrible thing, like Kwan Xiumei.
On the contrary, divorce gave her more freedom and possibility, and also allowed her to get rid of the limitations and framework of marriage for a woman, and women can also have their own vast world.
epilogue
There are countless sadness and helplessness behind every marriage, and if you have not experienced the pain of others, don't easily evaluate the problems of a person's marriage.
After all, only the parties themselves know best, everyone has their own way of dealing with marriage, and everyone is not encouraged to follow Guan Xiumei's example for divorce, but also do not arbitrarily evaluate other people's privacy, and it is very important to maintain basic respect.
We also believe that Guan Xiumei will have a more wonderful life after the divorce than when she got married, and we also hope that everyone who has experienced marriage failure can face it calmly.