1. From today:
I will motivate and praise the children more,
instead of criticizing, reproaching, or blaming them,
Because we all know that there is only positive encouragement and praise
in order to give children confidence and strength.
And criticism, blame, and complaining will only vent my emotions,
Causing harm to the child's psyche.
2. From today:
I will shape my children's behavior through actions, not just words to teach them.
Because I know that children's behavior is not formed by teaching,
Rather, it is through observation and imitation.
3. From this day onwards:
I will be more patient with my children's voices rather than rushing to comment on their actions.
Because I understand that listening is the best way to communicate.
4. From today onwards:
I will love my children unconditionally for what they are, not expecting them to be what I want them to be.
Because I know that is nothing but my selfishness and stubbornness.
5. From today onwards:
I will learn to communicate with my children as equals, rather than commanding them condescendingly.
Because I know that coercion and repression will only provoke children's resistance and rebellion.
6. From today:
I will be wholeheartedly with my children, not absent-mindedly dealing with them.
Because I understand that true companionship can make children feel the warmth of love.
7. From this day onwards;
I'm going to manage my emotions,
Facing every challenge with your child with equanimity
Because I know that tantrums and violence can only prove my incompetence and cause harm to the child.
8. From today:
I will actively handle my relationship with my partner,
Create a harmonious family atmosphere and avoid letting marital conflicts affect children.
Because I know that a harmonious relationship between husband and wife is the deepest love for children.
9. From today:
I will let my children grow up their way,
Rather than forcing them to be what I want them to be. They just came into this world through me,
to fulfill their own dreams and missions.
10. From today:
I will plant more seeds of kindness for my children and do good deeds.
For I know that if you sow good causes, you will have good results.
A family full of good deeds will reap happiness.
11. From today:
I will reflect on myself and correct myself from my children's problems.
Because I know that children's problems often stem from me, and I am the root of the problem.
12. From today:
I will strive to be the closest friend, the most trusted partner, and the most loving father (mother) in my child's life!