In 2016, I was in my thirties, single, and working as a small nurse in a hospital. That day, the director walked up to me with a smile and said he wanted to introduce me to someone. I looked at her matchmaker and muttered to myself.
"Xiao Zhang, this young man is the son of my relative, graduated from a prestigious university, and now works in a foreign company, young and promising!" said the director.
I smiled awkwardly, but I didn't have any interest in it. It's not that I'm picky, it's that the hospital is too busy, how can I be in the mood to go on a blind date.
"Thank you, Director, for your kindness, but I don't want to fall in love right now. "I turned her down.
The director's eyes widened, and he looked incredulous: "Xiao Zhang, why are you so suffering? A woman's career is important, but the family can't be ignored!"
I sighed helplessly, but my heart was firm in my thoughts. So, I rejected the director's blind date arrangement.
It didn't take long for the hospital to select the head nurse, and I went to participate in the selection with confidence. But as a result, my name fell to Sun Shan, and it turned out to be the Xiao Wang who usually performed mediocre and was elected.
I didn't feel good in my heart, and I couldn't help but go to the director to theorize: "Director, I work hard and my qualifications are not shallow, why is the head nurse not me?"
The director glanced at me and said coldly: "Xiao Zhang, your work ability is good, but leaders also need to consider comprehensive factors. You're not too young anymore, you don't even have a boyfriend, how can you have a stable job?"
I was stunned, I didn't expect the director to be prejudiced against me because of this incident. I gritted my teeth and decided to leave this hospital.
That day, I packed my things and prepared to leave. When I went out, I met a familiar figure.
"Xiao Zhang, where are you going?" It turned out to be the director's relative, the blind date I had refused.
I smiled wryly: "I quit my job and am going to go to another city for development." ”
He looked at me with regret in his eyes: "Actually, I have always felt that you are a very capable nurse. I heard that you rejected the director's blind date arrangement, is it because of this reason that you left?"
I nodded, tears rolling in my eyes.
He patted me lightly on the shoulder: "Don't be sad, I'm sure you'll find a better place for you." ”
And just like that, I left that hospital and came to a new city. Although everything has to start all over again, my heart is full of hope.
In the new hospital, I worked hard to improve myself. Finally, two years later, I became the head nurse.
And the blind date who once rejected became my friend. He would call me from time to time and be concerned about my life.
Today, I'm still single, but I'm no longer anxious. I know that fate will always bring me the best person for me.
In this journey, I learned to persevere and learn to be brave. And my life has become more wonderful because of this perseverance and bravery.
Time flies, and in the blink of an eye, I have been working at the new hospital for three years. In the past three years, I have put almost all my time and energy into my work, and every day is busy and fulfilling. The position of Head Nurse is both an honor and a responsibility for me, and I know that I have the hope of my patients and the trust of my colleagues.
One weekend, I was in the office sorting through papers when my phone rang. It's the blind date who once refused, Li Hao.
"Xiao Zhang, how are you doing? I haven't been together for a long time, do you have time to have dinner together tonight?" his voice was always so gentle.
I thought about it, and it was true that I hadn't relaxed for a long time, so I agreed to him.
In the evening, we made an appointment at a western restaurant. Li Hao looks more mature and stable than the last time we met, and we talked a lot, work, life, and dreams......
"Are you still alone?" Li Hao suddenly asked.
I smiled and nodded: "Yes, maybe fate hasn't arrived yet." ”
Li Hao was silent for a while, and then said seriously: "Actually, I have always felt that there is a tacit understanding between us. You've rejected me so many times, but I'm still willing to be your friend. Perhaps, this is fate. ”
I looked at him and suddenly felt a little shaken in my heart. This man has been silently caring for me, and I have never had the courage to accept his feelings.
"Li Hao, you are a good person, but I'm afraid I won't be able to give you what you want. "I'm honest.
Li Hao smiled: "It's okay, I'm willing to wait for you." As you see fit, we're ready to go. ”
At that moment, I felt Li Hao's sincerity. But deep fear prevented me from saying yes to him right away.
As the days passed, the relationship between me and Li Hao became closer and closer. We would go to the movies together on weekends and occasionally go for a walk in the countryside together. I found that when I was with him, I was relaxed and happy.
Until one day, something happened in the hospital that completely changed my mind.
That day, I was making my rounds of the ward when I suddenly heard an urgent cry for help. An elderly man suffered a heart attack and was in critical condition. I immediately rushed over and threw myself into the tense rescue.
Through the unremitting efforts of our medical staff, the elderly finally turned the corner. Looking at the grateful eyes of the elderly family, I suddenly understood that life is so short, why should I miss the beautiful feelings because of fear?
That night, I called Li Hao and asked him to come out.
By the river, I looked into his eyes and mustered up the courage to say, "Li Hao, I figured it out." I'm willing to try to accept you and accept this feeling. ”
Li Hao held my hand tightly, and his smile was full of happiness: "Xiao Zhang, I will use my sincerity to prove that your choice is correct." ”
From that day on, Li Hao and I became lovers. We have spent many happy times together, but also faced the difficulties and challenges of life together.
I finally understood that love and career are not contradictory, they can complement each other. And I also found my own happiness in the process.
The days with Li Hao are like sunshine shining in my heart, warm and beautiful. We cared for each other, supported each other, and became an integral part of each other's lives. However, life is always full of accidents, and just when we thought happiness would last like this, a sudden news broke the silence.
That day, I was working on some documents in the hospital when my phone rang suddenly. It was Li Hao's number, and a trace of uneasiness swelled in my heart.
"Xiao Zhang, I have an important decision to tell you. His voice was a little heavy.
My heart instantly rose to my throat and I nervously asked, "What's wrong? What's going on?"
Li Hao sighed: "The company decided to send me to work in a foreign branch for two years. ”
I was stunned, and my heart was mixed. This news is undoubtedly a great challenge for us, and the two years of separation are a severe test for our feelings.
"What are you going to do?" I asked cautiously.
Li Hao was silent for a while, and then said firmly: "I want to go, this is a rare opportunity." But I also don't want our feelings to suffer, and I hope you can support me. ”
I was conflicted, happy about his career and worried about our future.
"I can support you, but we also have to face reality. Two years is not a short time, and we all have to work harder for this relationship. I said seriously.
Li Hao nodded: "Yes, we will work together." I believe that as long as we have each other in our hearts, distance is not an issue. ”
In the following days, we began to prepare for Li Hao's going abroad. We go shopping for daily necessities together, learn foreign languages together, and plan for the future together. Although we know that the day of separation is getting closer, the love in our hearts is stronger.
Finally, that day has come. At the airport, we hugged each other tightly and were reluctant to part.
"Xiao Zhang, when I come back, we will have more time together. Li Hao's eyes flashed with determination.
I held back my tears and nodded with a smile: "Well, I'll wait for you." You have to take care of yourself abroad and don't worry me. ”
The moment the plane took off, my heart flew into the distance. I know that the next two years will be a test for us.
After Li Hao went abroad, our lives were back on track. I continued to be busy in the hospital while he struggled in a foreign country. We share our lives with each other through video chats every day, trying our best to make up for the shortcomings caused by distance.
However, life is always full of uncertainties. In the second year after Li Hao went abroad, I received an unexpected phone call.
"Xiao Zhang, I may have to postpone my return to China. There was a hint of helplessness in Li Hao's voice.
My heart tightened, but I tried to be as calm as I could and asked, "Why? What happened?"
Li Hao sighed: "Something went wrong with the project, and I had to stay and solve it." I'm sorry, I might be about to disappoint you. ”
I clenched my phone and swallowed the loss in my heart: "It's okay, work is important." Don't worry, I'll be here for you. ”
Although my heart was full of anxiety and worry, I still chose to believe in Li Hao and believed that our relationship could withstand this test.
As the days passed, Li Hao and I still kept in touch. Despite the distance, the love in our hearts has never waned. I know that no matter what the future holds, we will face it hand in hand and go through this journey together.
Time flies like a white horse, and in the blink of an eye, Li Hao has been abroad for three years. In the past three years, we have experienced many twists and turns and tests, but our mutual trust and perseverance have made our relationship deeper and deeper. Li Hao's work abroad has been excellent, not only has he successfully solved the project problem, but he has also been promoted to become the senior leader of the company.
And my work in the hospital has also been fruitful. The nursing team I led has performed well in many major medical treatments, and has been highly praised by hospital leaders and colleagues. During this period, I also used my spare time to study psychology courses on my own and obtained a qualification as a psychological counselor, providing better psychological care for patients.
We share each other's lives and work every day through video chats, and our hearts are always connected despite the distance. However, as time went on, an idea gradually sprung up in my mind.
One weekend night, I was sorting out the gifts sent by Li Hao at home, when suddenly my phone rang. It was Li Hao who called.
"Xiao Zhang, I have an important decision to tell you. There was a hint of excitement in his voice.
My heart tightened, and I nervously asked, "What's wrong?"
Li Hao said with a smile: "The company decided to let me return to China to work as the general manager of the domestic branch. I can finally come back to you. ”
I was stunned, and my heart was excited. After three years, we can finally end this long separation.
"Really? That's great!" I couldn't help but cheer.
Li Hao smiled and said, "Yes, I'm also very happy." We can finally live together, Xiao Zhang, are you willing to marry me?"
My heart warmed, and tears welled up in my eyes. This man has been silently waiting for me, giving me strength and support.
"Li Hao, I'm willing!" I said in a choked voice.
In the days that followed, we began to prepare for the wedding. I chose the wedding dress, and Li Hao was in charge of planning the details of the wedding. Despite being busy, our hearts are full of happiness and anticipation.
Finally, the day of the wedding came. With the blessings of relatives and friends, we walked into the palace of marriage hand in hand.
"Xiao Zhang, from now on, we will spend our lives together. Li Hao's eyes flashed with happiness.
I held his hand tightly and my eyes welled up with tears: "Yes, we will face the wind and rain of the future together and create beautiful memories together." ”
Since then, a new chapter has been opened in our lives. We support each other, grow together, and become the most important support in each other's lives.
I know that there is still a long way to go, and we will encounter many challenges and difficulties. But as long as we have love in our hearts and walk hand in hand, we will be able to overcome everything and move towards the other side of happiness.