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When I started to mess up, my marriage became more and more harmonious

author:Kafka's bear

Once, I tried to play various roles and try to control everything for the sake of the perfection of my marriage. But the more this happened, the more conflicts between me and my husband piled up, and our marriage seemed to be in a state of tension.

When I started to mess up, my marriage became more and more harmonious

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Until one day, I felt extremely tired and decided not to struggle anymore and began to rot. I no longer strive for perfection in everything, and I no longer care about every detail. I told myself, so be it, let it be.

When I let go of those obsessions, I found that my life became a lot easier. I'm no longer angry at my husband for not doing what I ask, and I'm no longer arguing over small things.

One day, my husband and I were sitting on the couch, and I suddenly said, "I don't seem to be so tired anymore." ”

When I started to mess up, my marriage became more and more harmonious

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My husband looked at me, smiled and said, "I also feel that our relationship seems to have become much more harmonious recently." ”

I smiled and said, "Maybe I'm not that serious anymore." ”

My husband took my hand and said, "Actually, I've always loved you, but sometimes we're too strong." ”

I nodded and said, "I also know that I used to be too persistent. It feels so easy now. ”

When I started to mess up, my marriage became more and more harmonious

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Since then, our marriage has really become more and more harmonious. I began to enjoy this state of no longer being tense, and I felt the beauty of life with my heart with my husband. It turns out that sometimes letting go of something can reap more happiness.