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In April 2024, Ms. Wang Ji, a 59-year-old famous actress who is over half a hundred years old, chose to share an intimate photo with her baby daughter, the now 30-year-old Gao Liwen, on her personal social media platform.
In the photo, Wang Ji is wearing a plain and elegant white dress, showing her gentle and elegant demeanor.
Her every movement, every expression, all reveal the elegant charm of an intellectual woman.
And her daughter Gao Liwen is wearing a red long dress, which looks particularly charming, her beautiful appearance is as delicate as a hibiscus out of the water, which is very similar to her mother Wang Ji's temperament, but a little more graceful and gentle.
The mother and daughter stood intimately side by side, their eyes full of affection and kindness, and the corners of their mouths were filled with happy smiles, like a blooming hibiscus, so beautiful that it was suffocating.
Seeing this precious group photo, Wang Ji's heart swelled with endless emotions. Her life journey can be described as magnificent, through ups and downs, glory and pain intertwined, success and setbacks danced together. From a poor background to going to a foreign country alone, from failure to regaining strength, from career peaks to family crises, to the selfless dedication of daughters......
Wang Ji used her own personal experience to vividly interpret the profound philosophy of "bad luck and blessing go hand in hand".
Now, entering the later years of her life, Wang Ji has finally learned how to embrace life and cherish the present. She deeply understands that every age has its own unique beauty, and the mark left by the years should not be seen as a symbol of failure, but as a witness and fragrance of life.
She once said with emotion: "At this age, I will no longer live for those inconsequential things." ”
Indeed, Wang Ji has experienced too many vicissitudes and ups and downs in life, and she finally realized the true meaning of loving life and embracing life. She hopes that through her story, she can inspire more people to bravely pursue their dreams, love life, cherish their loved ones, and embrace the good times now.
Back in 1994, when Wang Ji was just 25 years old, it was the golden period of her career.
With her superb acting skills, she played the role of "Ah Chun" in the movie "Beijinger in New York", which instantly caused a sensation in the entire entertainment industry and became a hot star. This work not only won her the Golden Eagle Award for Best Actress, but also made her appear on the cover of Popular Film magazine and became a sexy goddess in the hearts of many people.
Undoubtedly, the film successfully created a brilliant image of Wang Ji, but it also plunged her into endless pain and predicament.
At the beginning of the filming, Wang Ji noticed abdominal discomfort, and after being admitted to the hospital, she was shocked to learn that she was pregnant and had a threatened miscarriage.
The doctor advised her to take care of her body, but in order to grasp this rare opportunity, she tenaciously chose to stick to the set. Not long after the movie ended successfully, that is, in 1993, Wang Ji finally ushered in the birth of her beloved son Gao Xiaofei.
However, happy times are fleeting, and when Gao Xiaofei was only one and a half years old, he suddenly suffered from high fever and convulsions, and even spit out white foam in his mouth.
Wang Ji immediately sent the child to the hospital for treatment, and after a detailed examination, the expert gave a heartbreaking diagnosis - Gao Xiaofei suffers from autism, epilepsy, intellectual disability and other diseases, and needs to rely on medication for life.
In the face of such a heavy blow, Wang Ji collapsed in an instant, and fell to her knees in despair, grief-stricken, as if the whole world was collapsing in an instant.
Since then, Wang Ji has not hesitated to unload the burden of her career and devote herself to the long journey of seeking treatment for her son.
However, despite the couple's best efforts and all their efforts, the results were still insignificant.
In order to pay for the high medical bills, Wang Ji had to run around and work hard to earn more money. During this period, the responsibility of taking care of Gao Xiaofei fell on the shoulders of her sister Gao Liwen and Wang Ji's mother.
Years of hard work and exhaustion have made Wang Ji physically and mentally exhausted. What's even more cruel is that in 2011, a person who claimed to be a friend tricked her into sweeping away all the 6 million yuan of her family fortune, which was all the savings she had saved for her son.
Faced with such a predicament, Gao Liwen resolutely decided to give up her personal ideals and devote herself to her acting career to pay off her mother's debts. Over the next decade, she returned all of her hard-earned earnings back to her mother, a decreasing percentage each year.
Despite the constant doubts from the outside world, Gao Liwen knew her mother's hardships, and she silently endured and resolutely implemented this decision.
Wang Ji's upbringing was not all smooth sailing, she grew up in poverty and grew up in the capital, Beijing. Their father went to the frontier for many years to support the construction of Xinjiang, while their mother was busy with household chores, and the sisters began to learn to live independently at the age of four or five.
That unique and extraordinary life course gave birth to Wang Ji's more tenacious and rebellious personality traits than her peers!
When Wang Ji was 14 years old, in the face of strong opposition from her relatives, she still firmly chose to join the art troupe and become a glorious literary soldier.
In that melting pot-like art troupe, she showed her artistic talent to the fullest, and at the same time created a romantic love between her and her first boyfriend Gao Feng.
imagining the handsome and charismatic image of the young peak in his mind, and then turning his gaze to the radiant and touching Wang Ji, these two people seem to be a pair made in heaven. The relationship between them is as hot as a flame, which is enviable.
Time flies, and in a blink of an eye, Wang Ji is 18 years old. With her outstanding beauty, she successfully attracted the attention of well-known Hong Kong directors, and participated in the performance of her first work "Treasure Hunting", thus officially stepping into the film and television industry. After that, she joined the Renyi Club and established a deep friendship with Song Dandan and others.
However, at that time, the Renyi Society was strictly disciplined and strictly forbade actors to go out to take on the play without permission, which made Wang Ji miss many valuable opportunities.
In the 80s of the 20th century, when the American craze swept the world, Wang Ji decided to leave Renyi Society and go to the United States alone to seek greater development space.
Before leaving, she said affectionately to Gao Feng: "If you are willing to keep me, I will not hesitate to tear up the visa." ”
However, Gao Feng knew her deep dreams, so he hugged her tightly and silently watched her board the plane and get away from her homeland.
When she first arrived in the United States, Wang Ji was penniless, with only a measly $60. However, she still insisted on making long-distance calls twice a day to report Gao Feng's safety, until the latter also obtained a visa to come to the United States, and the two finally entered the palace of marriage.
In the United States, Gao Feng founded his own travel agency, while Wang Ji devoted herself to acting. In 1991, she ushered in the birth of her daughter Gao Liwen.
A few years later, Wang Ji became famous with the TV series "Beijinger in New York", but she also fell into family difficulties because of it.
In order to cure her son Gao Xiaofei's illness, Wang Ji made great efforts and exhausted almost all her mental strength. In the process of filming films, she often had to work thirteen or fourteen hours straight, and her body was devastated.
Once, in order to create a character, she bravely jumped from the height of the fourth floor and landed on a sponge mat that was only 50 centimeters thick.
The scene was filmed dozens of times, resulting in her broken ribs and a large amount of fluid in her chest.
When she returned to the hotel that night, she felt excruciating pain in her chest and had difficulty breathing, and was rushed to the hospital for examination and found that she had indeed suffered a fracture.
The attending physician resolutely advised Wang Ji to contact her family immediately to take care of her, but out of love for her family, Wang Ji resolutely chose to receive treatment in the hospital alone, and even fell into a coma there for two days and two nights!
However, during this period, Wang Ji never told her family the truth, and endured the torture caused by the illness alone. All this is to be able to raise enough money for my son's treatment.
In the heavy responsibility of taking care of her younger brother Gao Xiaofei, her sister Gao Liwen and Wang Ji's mother shouldered the main responsibility.
In order to be able to take better care of Wang Ji and her children, Wang Ji's mother resolutely decided to move from China to the United States, where she spent 30 years, and even gave up generous benefits such as domestic housing sharing.
Gao Liwen, who was only 17 years old at the time, had already shown maturity and sensibility beyond her age. Whenever her mother was busy when she went out, she always took the initiative to take care of her younger brother and grandmother, although she was often attacked because she could not understand her brother's intentions, leaving countless bruises on her body, she never complained to her mother, just silently endured loneliness and helplessness.
Until 2017, when Wang Ji was filming the movie "Marven's War", her daughter Gao Liwen took her younger brother and grandmother to fly from the United States to Beijing, China, eager to share the joy of family with her long-lost mother. When she saw her mother's exhaustion and hard work, Gao Liwen was deeply moved.
She never imagined that her mother, who was radiant in her heart, had gone through such a hard tempering behind her.
Since then, every time it gets late and the work is over, Gao Liwen will always take the initiative to call in the middle of the night to say peace to her mother, which makes Wang Ji feel relieved and relieved. Recalling the humiliating experience of being forcibly ejected from the plane by American Airlines, Wang Ji still has lingering palpitations, fearing that one day the heavy responsibility of raising her son alone will fall to her.
For the sake of her son Gao Xiaofei's future, Wang Ji can be said to be exhausted and frugal. After years of unremitting efforts, she finally amassed a fortune of up to 6 million yuan, which she originally planned to use to pay for her son's medical expenses. However, fate once again played a merciless joke on her.
Back in 2011, Ms. Wang Ji generously cherished her accumulated wealth as if she loved her children, and selflessly gifted it to a person who claimed to be her friend.
At that time, the borrower promised to repay the principal and interest of the loan in full within a year, and made a special emphasis on paying an additional 10% of the total amount as interest. Seeing that time has passed like a white horse, the appointed date has arrived, but Ms. Wang Ji is deeply troubled.
Because the borrower was nowhere to be found, no matter how hard she tried, she could not get any form of contact with him, and in desperation, Ms. Wang Ji had to visit in person, only to find that the building had long been empty, leaving only silence and loss.
This sudden bad news brought a heavy blow to Ms. Wang Ji, whose physical condition deteriorated day by day, and her mental state was also extremely exhausted. Even after recovering, she still can't completely shake off the shadow of being deceived and lives in endless pain.
Faced with such a predicament, her daughter Gao Liwen resolutely made a major decision - she decided to give up her dream, devote herself to her acting career, and use her labor income to pay off her mother's debts.
As early as when Gao Liwen was in college, she had already emerged and became a bright pearl on campus. She has won the honorary title of "Miss Most Photogenic" and won the favor of many Hollywood film and television companies.
However, at that time, she always adhered to the heavy responsibility of her studies, rejected all temptations, and always kept a clear head.
However, reality is always cruel and unforgiving. In order to help her mother survive this economic crisis, Gao Liwen had to go against her original intention and change the trajectory of her life. What's even more touching is that Ms. Wang Ji thinks that she deserves to be rewarded by her daughter for her years of hard work in raising her daughter and giving her the best education.
As a result, she set a strict repayment plan for Gao Liwen: in the golden decade of her career, she had to repay the first year in full, the second year 90% of the total, the third year 80% of the total, and so on.
Despite the doubts from the outside world, Gao Liwen knew her mother's hardships, and she silently accepted and implemented this decision.
Since then, the mother and daughter have been inseparable, and two of Gao Liwen's important works have starred Ms. Wang Ji.
What's even more gratifying is that whether it is the 2011 National Drama Festival, or the 2015 variety show, or the 2019 Golden Rooster Award Ceremony, the mother and daughter have always worked together, taking photos with other stars, supporting each other, and relying on each other.
Today's Gao Xiaofei, although she still has some behavioral disorders, at least she can clearly call "father" and "mother", and can complete some basic life independently. For Ms. Wang Ji, this is undoubtedly the comfort and satisfaction she has dreamed of.
After a long period of hard work and dedication, Wang Ji did not work in vain! Although she was in the darkest moment, she never wanted to give up her deep love for her son.
This great mother once lamented: "I am afraid that I can only leave this world with infinite regrets, because I cannot predict whether after my death, there will be someone who cares and cares for him as much as I do." There is no doubt that her son is the most inseparable emotional sustenance in her life.
Yes, as a mother, Wang Ji's love for her son comes from the depths of her heart, no matter how tortuous and bumpy the road ahead, she is willing to try again and again, never give up.
Now, although her son has intellectual disabilities, he has at least the basic ability to take care of himself, which undoubtedly brings great relief to Wang Ji.
Compared with what happened to her son, Wang Ji is even more proud of her daughter Gao Liwen's achievements.
Gao Liwen not only has a stunning appearance and outstanding talent, but also inherits her mother's unwavering pursuit of dreams. Whenever she sees her daughter's beautiful and moving face, Wang Ji is always filled with great pride. Indeed, the mother and daughter are almost identical as they are portrayed in the same mold.
However, unlike Wang Ji's rebellious and uninhibited personality when she was young, Gao Liwen shows more of a gentle and elegant temperament.
She inherited her mother's enthusiasm for her career, and at the same time added a bit of graceful beauty, as shown in the photo, a red dress fluttered out of the dust, like a hibiscus flower reborn in the water.
The former Wang Ji was certainly beautiful, but more often than not, she was sharp and radiant.
Now she has entered old age, and her face is covered with the deep marks left by the years. However, she doesn't care about it, instead she takes it all in stride and enjoys every stage of her life to the fullest. She once sighed: "At this age, I will no longer live for those inconsequential things." ”
Indeed, Wang Ji finally understood the true meaning of life - cherish life, grasp the moment, and live a wonderful chapter of her own.
She hopes that through her own personal experience, she can inspire more people to bravely chase their dreams, learn to cherish their relatives and friends, and embrace the beautiful present.