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On that cold winter day, the temperature in my heart was even lower. My name is Li Ming, and I am an ordinary office worker, like most people, running around every day and working hard to make a living. My wife Xiaoli and I have been married for five years and we have been working hard to make life better.
My family's background is not wealthy, and my parents are ordinary rural people, barely making ends meet. Xiaoli's family conditions are relatively better, and her parents run a small business, which can be regarded as a well-off family.
Every year on the eve of the Chinese New Year, it is a big mountain in the hearts of Xiaoli and me. Because according to the customs of my hometown, Xiaoli's mother, that is, my mother-in-law, will always give us New Year's money, and the amount of New Year's money caught me off guard. My mother-in-law always asked us to give her 10,000 yuan as a cost to buy New Year's goods. Although Xiaoli and I paid separately, I always felt like a wronged man, and I didn't feel good in my heart.
That year, I wanted to discuss with Xiaoli not to give so much money, after all, we also have the pressure of life, but Xiaoli stopped me. "It's our tradition, and our mother-in-law is also for our good, so we shouldn't worry about that," she said. ”
So, I could only transfer 10,000 yuan to my mother-in-law at her request. Although it was not a taste in my heart, for the sake of family harmony, I chose to forbear.
After the Chinese New Year, Xiaoli's parents came to see us, and I couldn't help but ask: "Mother-in-law, you usually live well, is this 10,000 yuan of annual goods really necessary?" "I had to shut up and say no more.
Time passed, Xiaoli and I were still busy working, but the unhappiness in our hearts never dissipated. Until one day, I accidentally discovered something.
I happened to see the chat history between her and her mother in Xiaoli's mobile phone, which mentioned the cost of New Year's goods. When I saw Xiaoli chatting with her mother-in-law, she always hesitated to ask: "Mom, how much does it cost this year?" And Xiaoli always transferred an extra 10,000 yuan when she transferred money to her mother-in-law, which is a total of 20,000 yuan.
When I saw these chats, I felt a tingling in my heart. It turned out that in order not to make me feel uneasy, Xiaoli always secretly transferred an extra 10,000 yuan to her mother-in-law. In order to maintain the harmony of the family, she silently endured the pressure.
I suddenly realized how naïve and selfish my attitude towards this matter was. I've been complaining about my grievances, but I don't realize Xiaoli's dedication. She silently took on everything, just to make our family more harmonious.
I felt very guilty and guilty, I didn't cherish Xiaoli's efforts, but kept complaining about her. I realized that I should cherish her more and be more considerate of her. I decided to treat Xiaoli well and stop worrying about those financial matters.
Since then, my relationship with Xiaoli has become more harmonious and the trust between us has deepened. I learned that family harmony is far more important than money. And Xiaoli is also the most precious person in my life, and I am willing to give everything for her.
Ending: The relationship between me and Xiaoli has become more harmonious, and I know how to cherish her efforts even more. Our lives have become happier and more satisfying, and the annual cost of 10,000 yuan is no longer important in my heart. Because in my eyes, Xiaoli's love is the most precious.
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