Did you know that when it comes to finding a lover, the choices of men and women are very different. Men usually like to pursue novelty and excitement, and finding a strange lover is like an adventure, full of unknowns. But what about women, they prefer to pick lovers in familiar circles, such as old classmates and colleagues, why do you say that?
To be honest, I've been thinking about this for a long time. Later, I found out that there is no substitute for that kind of understanding and tacit understanding between people who are familiar with each other. You think, with a familiar person, his personality, habits, and hobbies, you know it very well. Isn't it easier and more comfortable to get along in this way? And familiarity also means trust. In a relationship, trust is the most important thing. With familiar people, you don't have to worry about being cheated or hurt. This kind of security can't be compared to finding a stranger as a lover.
Also, let me tell you, people who are familiar often have a lot of common topics and memories with each other. These commonalities and memories are like a bond that binds two people together. Chatting, eating, and watching movies together can bring back those good memories and make the relationship deeper. This kind of feeling can't be given by strangers.
But then again, although women like to find familiar people as lovers, it doesn't mean that they don't pay attention to feelings. On the contrary, women tend to be more delicate and sensitive emotionally than men. They pay more attention to emotional communication and communication, and prefer the feeling of being at ease. Therefore, even if they find a familiar person as a lover, they will work hard to manage the relationship and make it even better.
Of course, everyone's situation is different and you can't generalize. Some people may just like to seek novelty and excitement, and it is understandable to find a strange lover. But in any case, I think it is better to be sincere and attentive emotionally. After all, feelings are not a joke, and we need to care for and manage them with our hearts.
Speaking of which, something suddenly occurred to me. Once, I listened to a female friend chatting, and she said that when she was looking for a lover, she was looking for an acquaintance. I was quite curious at the time, so I asked her why. She smiled and said, "Because I am familiar with him, I understand his personality and habits, and it is easy to get along." Also, we have a lot of topics and memories in common, and it's always fun to be together. "When I heard it, I thought what she said made sense. It seems that there is a certain reason why women like to find familiar people when looking for lovers.
However, it's also interesting to say. Sometimes, the people around us may be our best choice, but we often ignore them. As the saying goes, "Far away in the sky, close in front of you." "Sometimes, happiness is all around us, we just don't notice it.
So, I think whether you're looking for a lover or making friends, you should pay more attention to the people around you. Perhaps, your true destiny or destiny is right next to you. Of course, this does not mean that we should blindly pursue the people around us, but we should find and understand them with our hearts. After all, feelings require the joint efforts of both parties, and they cannot be rewarded by unilateral efforts.
Speaking of which, I suddenly remembered a plot from a TV series. The heroine originally didn't have much feelings for the male protagonist, but because they often worked together and chatted together, they slowly developed feelings. In the end, they came together and lived happily ever after. Isn't this the kind of affection that arises from familiarity? So, I think it's possible to have deep feelings between people who are familiar with each other.
Of course, everyone's attitude and perception of feelings is different. Some people may pay more attention to external conditions and feelings, and do not care much about whether the other person is familiar or not. This is also understandable. After all, everyone defines happiness differently. But ah, I think no matter what, we should keep a sincere heart towards feelings. Only by feeling and operating with heart can we reap true happiness.
Finally, I want to say that feelings are really amazing. Sometimes, we meet the right person when we least expect it, and sometimes we get lost in the search. But no matter what, we have to believe in the power of fate and fate. As long as we maintain a sincere heart towards feelings and life, I believe that one day we will find our own happiness.
So, the next time you hear someone say that women looking for a lover like to find someone they know, don't be surprised. Because this is life, full of unknowns and possibilities. And what we have to do is to feel and cherish every emotion and moment around us with our hearts. After all, life is too short, so why not have fun in time?
In general, feelings are simple and complex. But no matter what, we have to treat it with our hearts and cherish it. Only in this way can we go wider and farther on the road of life. Well, I'm going to talk to you about it today, and I hope my words can give you some inspiration and food for thought. Until next time!
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