Pascal said, "Do not judge a man's virtue in his special actions, but in his daily life." ”
People who are truly loving and cultivated can't pretend to be able to see the problem after a long time.
Some people are good at disguise, giving people a very humble and kind appearance. You can't help but want to care and give, but when you're emotionally engaged, you get hurt.
People with these traits seem to have good character, but they are actually very vicious and should be kept away.
01: Will use the way of pretending to be pitiful to control others to serve themselves
In life, we will always meet some women, they have a very miserable experience, they are always bullied by bad people, and they look very pitiful.
This kind of person, in particular, will pretend to be a victim and use this way to make friends feel distressed.
They are particularly adept at exploiting people's hearts and calling others to their service through the form of moral kidnapping.
is too good at setting up people for themselves, and many people will be fooled. Especially when you first get to know each other, you will feel that the other person is very sincere and kind, and you will open your heart and make friends with them.
In the process of getting along, unconsciously, you will pay silently, as if you don't help her, you are doing something wrong and have no conscience.
When you see that the other party's weakness is only disguised, then you must quickly wake up and stop being taken advantage of.
People who will control others by pretending to be pitiful seem to have a good character, but they are actually very vicious.
They will keep squeezing you and use all the value before they stop.
02: In the face of interests, it will be very decisive
Whether a person's character is good or bad, whether he is sincere or false to you, in fact, it is usually impossible to tell.
Only when it comes to interests can you see through the other person's mind. In the face of interests, people who will be very decisive are most likely emotionless in their hearts.
Even if you have known each other for more than ten years, you will not talk about any affection, let alone care about your life or death.
Such a person, when he usually communicates with you, will seem very sincere, and will also give to you, making you really think that the relationship between each other is not ordinary, just like family.
But when you don't expect it, the other party may become very vicious for the sake of money and status, and even ruin your reputation.
There is a good saying: "Character is not a disguise to look at when the wind is calm, but to withstand the test of anger." ”
A person of good character does not show kindness only when the wind is calm.
Even under the test of anger and interests, he can still control his desires and be sincere to others, and such talents are really worthy of deep friendship.
If you are very decisive because of a little profit, I advise you to stay away as soon as possible, otherwise there will be endless troubles.
03: Excessive love to express oneself and vanity in one's heart
Some men have a strong sense of vanity, and when there are many people, they will overshow their abilities and love to be in the limelight.
They will also behave politely and respectfully, but this is not really a state of mind.
All the good images, just for their own face, like to be praised by others, the feeling of being admired.
They seem to have a good character, very enthusiastic and friendly, but in fact, after getting along with each other, you will find that they lack warmth and love in their hearts, and they are very selfish.
This kind of person is very vain in his heart, and he has two faces before and after.
Men who love to express themselves excessively, girls must be careful, don't think that the other party looks excellent and organized, and they will be moved.
Or observe calmly, have real contact, and don't wear a filter.
With people who are vain and unloving, it is very difficult for you to get true love and protection.