Whether that man has you in his heart or not, you can find clues from ethereal emotions, or you can find answers from real actions.
You know what? One of the things that is especially important in determining whether a man truly loves you is how he treats you when he is frustrated.
When we choose to be with a man, we can't just be confused by his kindness to you when things are going well, but also look at how he treats you when he's at a low point.
A man's attitude when he is frustrated reflects how much he loves you
One of my visitors told me about a time when her husband was not doing well at work, and he was always scolded by his boss and often worked overtime.
Once my husband worked overtime until the early hours of the morning, and when he was just about to go to sleep, the plan was called back and asked to continue to change. She saw that her husband was already very tired, but she wanted to continue, so she thought about cutting some fruit for him and letting him take his time.
But when she brought the fruit, her husband didn't appreciate it at all, and slapped the fruit over, saying that she didn't have any eyesight at all, so she didn't bother herself.
When a person is frustrated, it is most difficult to control his emotions, and as the person closest to him, it is especially easy to become the object of his venting.
At this time, his attitude towards you is like a mirror, reflecting whether he has you in his heart or not, and how much he cares about you in his heart.
Some girls may quote the phrase "We give our good temper to strangers, but we leave our bad temper to those closest to us" to justify his behavior, thinking that it is a sign that he sees you as his dearest.
Girl, don't be so naïve. A man who really has you in his heart, no matter how bad the mood is, is not willing to be angry at you, because he doesn't want you to be wronged in the slightest because of his unhappiness.
If he only cares about his emotions and ignores your feelings, it only means that he loves himself more, and his love for you may not be so deep.
A man who truly loves you will also treat you well when he is at a low point
When you are proud of life, the person who is willing to share your joy with you may not be out of true love.
However, when he is at a low point and upset, it is really rare if he can still be patient and gentle with you.
It is impossible for people to have smooth sailing in this life, and they will encounter temporary frustration to a greater or lesser extent. Just like when I started my own business, it can be said that it is the norm to suffer setbacks.
For example, not long ago, I invested in a project, and I didn't make any money, but I lost a lot. During that time, I was so stressed that I couldn't eat.
Although I was distraught at the time, as soon as I got home and faced my wife, I would take care of my emotions so that my bad mood would not affect her.
She likes to talk and always chatter in my ear, but to be honest, I don't bother at all.
On the contrary, seeing that she not only did not complain about me, but also comforted me vigorously, I felt quite sorry for her. She is so considerate and understands me so much, I just want to be doubly nice to her.
Many times, when I encounter some small setbacks and disappointments, I will choose to bear them alone instead of confiding in her.
Because I knew that telling her would only worry her and add to her worries. I want her to be happy and happy every day.
A man who truly loves you will never use you as an outlet to vent his emotions when he goes through a low point in his life. He knows that those setbacks and difficulties are his own life tests, and they have nothing to do with you.
He will care about your feelings, for fear that his negative energy will affect you. Even, he will cherish you more and appreciate your persistence when he is frustrated.
In the face of adversity, we can see the truth and show true love together
If a man becomes restless as soon as something happens, and yells at you, complaining that you can't do this well, it won't help, this kind of man actually has only himself in his heart.
Those men who don't have you in their hearts, no matter how good you are to him, he also feels that you are a dispensable supporting role in his life.
And a man who truly loves you, even if he is in big trouble, he will never lose his temper. Even if you lose your dignity outside, you won't come home and pour your anger on you. Because you are the heroine of his life.
A man who is truly responsible will cherish you more in difficult times, will face it with you, and find a way out together. Such a man is truly worthy of your love.
To be honest, a man's temporary frustration is not terrible, I am afraid that he will indulge in it and will not be able to get out of it for the rest of his life, so that the family will lose its happiness.
Therefore, women should give understanding and comfort to men when they are frustrated, give him more support and encouragement, and get through it together, and good days will come inadvertently!