In the legend of the new white lady, Bai Suzhen was pressed by Leifeng Tower, and it was completely out of necessity to abandon her husband and son, but Xu Xian, to be honest, after Bai Suzhen entered the tower, she hoped that the other party could raise Shilin well, but it was obvious that Xu Xian disappointed Bai Suzhen, he did not raise Shilin, but threw it to his sister and brother-in-law, and he became a monk in Jinshan Temple and became a deserter! Everyone thought that after Bai Suzhen came out, she would definitely not forgive this man, but who would have thought that the result was not what everyone thought, after Bai Suzhen came out, she didn't blame Xu Xian, however, why did this happen?
When I grew up, I realized that Xu Xian abandoned Shilin and became a monk, why didn't Bai Suzhen blame him after he left the tower!
The truth is actually very realistic, first of all, and the most important point, Xu Shilin did not suffer the slightest grievance in the hands of Li Gongfu and Xu Jiaorong, on the contrary, he was well educated by the two, knowledgeable and courteous, talented, gentle and filial, even Bai Suzhen had to admit that compared to following Xu Xian's father, Xu Xian's practice of handing over the child to his sister and brother-in-law was not responsible, but it was the best arrangement for Xu Shilin!
Secondly, although Xu Xian abandoned Shilin, as a mother, Bai Suzhen actually did not take on the responsibility of a mother, no matter what the reason, she and Xu Xian, in the case of Shilin, is half a catty, Shilin has never been her, or Xu Xian alone, and because of this, Bai Suzhen is actually very clear that she is not qualified to blame Xu Xian, just like Xu Xian has never blamed her!
In the end, there will be love and hate, and only if you care will you blame, for Xu Xian's love, Bai Suzhen has gradually looked down on Leifeng Pagoda in more than 20 years of practice, she has seen this man clearly, and she no longer loves him as much as in the past, if you say that in the past, Bai Suzhen still hopes that after she leaves, Xu Xian can take on her responsibilities and take good care of Shilin, looking forward to one day, she can come out of the bottom of the tower, and they can be reunited as a family, but now, to be honest, for Xu Xian, Bai Suzhen can no longer afford any emotions, whether it is love or hate, let alone blame him for abandoning Shilin for him！
In the past, Bai Suzhen was in the calamity, and she didn't know that the sky was high and the earth was thick, but now, being crushed by the Leifeng Pagoda could be regarded as an accident that helped her break free from the predicament and see the "world" that she had never seen before! In the face of Xu Xian's behavior of abandoning Shilin and becoming a monk, Bai Suzhen can also treat it with a more rational attitude, as for why it is not to blame, it can only be said that Bai Suzhen has already discovered that Xu Xian is also in the calamity, and she is a person who can't help herself!
What do you think? Xu Xian abandoned Shilin and became a monk, why didn't Bai Suzhen blame him after he left the tower!