In my later years, how can I get out of the predicament and gain true love!
The love affair under the sunset was supposed to be warm and beautiful. However, who would have thought that behind this belated love, there were so many twists and turns and misunderstandings. I, Su Yaqin, an ordinary woman from a small town in Hunan, at the age of 58, thought that I could find a relationship of dependence, but unexpectedly encountered unexpected prejudice and difficulties.
Looking back on the past, I have experienced ups and downs. When I was young, I also had dreams to build a love nest with my lover. However, fate was changeable, and the early death of my lover left me alone with the responsibility of raising my children. In those years, I got up early and worked hard to give my children a stable home.
Time flies, and the children have grown up and have their own lives. And I finally ushered in my own old age. That's when I met Limber. He is a retired engineer with a stable monthly pension. We met at an elderly dating event, and we both felt that the other person was someone who could be trusted for life. However, good wishes are always shattered by reality.
Limber's son, Kobayashi, was full of prejudice and misunderstanding about me. He thinks I chose to stay with him because I was greedy for Limber's pension. His cold words and pickiness made me feel helpless. I tried to explain and communicate, but every time I failed.
In the face of Kobayashi's misunderstanding and prejudice, I felt like a knife. I didn't stay with Limber for money, I just wanted someone who knew the cold and the hot to spend the rest of my life with. But Kobayashi's prejudice and misunderstanding are like an insurmountable chasm between us.
After Limber found out about this, although he comforted me not to pay too much attention to it, I could see his helplessness and embarrassment. He didn't want our relationship to be affected by this, but he couldn't change his son's mind.
Faced with such a predicament, I fell into deep thought. How do I break this deadlock? How do I get Kobayashi to understand my sincerity?
After some careful consideration, I decided to prove it all with my actions. I started to get involved in various activities in the community and try to fit into this new environment. I help my neighbors solve small problems in life, participate in volunteer services in the community, and show my worth and quality with my own practical actions.
At the same time, I also maintain good communication with Limber. We support and understand each other to face life's challenges together. Our relationship has grown deeper in the midst of difficult conditions, and it has strengthened my confidence in the future.
Slowly, Kobayashi began to change her opinion of me. He saw my dedication and hard work, and also felt my sincerity for Limber. While he hasn't completely eliminated his prejudice against me, at least he's not as cynical as he used to be.
Now, Limber and I have gone through a few springs and autumns. Our relationship is still the same, and even deeper. I know that all this is inseparable from our persistence and hard work. We use our own stories to tell the world: true love is fearless, no matter what kind of difficulties and challenges we face, as long as we love and manage with our hearts, we will be able to reap happiness and beauty.
So, have you ever encountered similar dilemmas and challenges, how did you face and solve them? Feel free to leave a message in the comment area to share your stories and experiences. Let's praise true love and cheer for happiness together!