Description: I recently had a middle-aged female friend, and to my surprise, her need for men never seemed to be satisfied. She said frankly, why do middle-aged women not refuse men to come? Today, I will unveil the mystery of this topic to you, and listen to the heart of this 45-year-old woman!
Hello everyone, today I want to talk to you about a somewhat hot topic -- why do middle-aged women not refuse men to come? Just now, I met a 45-year-old female friend, and she bravely spoke her heart, which shocked me very much. Let's take a look at what she said.
First of all, the female friend said that as she got older, she gradually found that her need for love and relationships became stronger. When she was younger, she may be more career-oriented and self-actualizing, and she doesn't have much demand for men. But as the years passed, she began to realize that the companionship and warmth in life could not be replaced, and that men could give her these.
Secondly, this female friend confessed that she longs to be cared for and loved. Middle-aged women often experience various pressures and challenges in life, such as work, family, children, etc., which makes them emotionally eager to confide and rely on. And the appearance of men can give them strength and support, and make them feel the warmth of being cherished.
In addition, the female friend mentioned that for middle-aged women, a man's appearance is not the most important thing. Compared with the pursuit of appearance when they were young, middle-aged women value a person's inner qualities and shared values more. They want to find a partner with whom they can spend the rest of their lives, support each other, and face the ups and downs of life together.
Finally, this female friend also frankly admitted that the reason why middle-aged women do not refuse men is also related to gender differences in society. In traditional social attitudes, men are usually more likely to be affirmed and recognized, while women are often required to complete marriage and family establishment within a certain age. As a result, middle-aged women are more likely to give opportunities and attention to men.
The words of this 45-year-old female friend may also represent the voices of many middle-aged women. They want to find a true partner at this stage to share the joys and difficulties of life together. So, if you're a middle-aged male, maybe that's why you're getting more opportunities.
So, for middle-aged women, is there any harm in not refusing to come to men? In fact, everyone has their own choice, as long as it is a legal and compliant relationship, there is no problem with each other's willingness. The important thing is to be sincere and sensible, not to get carried away by love, but to judge and choose with reason.
The above is the heart of this 45-year-old female friend. How do you feel about it? Feel free to leave a comment to share your views!
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